From China’s largest forum, Tianya:
“When writing this essay, I considered several titles. For example, “Women are suited for playing, not suited for loving”, and others. However, none of them matched my meaning and, including the current title, none are ideal. Writing this essay, I know I will be reviled but I still want to write it anyway. The reason is because what I am saying represents a phenomenon in current society and notions of love.
A modern man needs three weapons: Money, charming appearance, and a way with words. Women these days looking at men, look to see if he has a successful career…which basically means how much money he has. The more money you have, in women’s eyes, the more successful your career. Even if you idle at home all day, so long as you have unlimited money, your career is still considered successful. If you do not have money, then you need to be super handsome in the eyes of women. Why super handsome in the eyes of women and not in the eyes of men is because how women see things is different from how men see things. If you do not have money but you are super handsome, that is your capital, and lots of women will come love you, only, those that love you, most will not be with you for long and when the novelty has worn off, they will leave you and go look for a husband, or return to their wealthy husband. These kind of women are usually beautiful women. Why do they leave? Because you do not have money. If you do not have these two things, then you must practice your way with words. What women like to hear, are sweet words and honeyed phrases. Even if they themselves know they are lies and ridiculously false, they still like it. If, of these three, you have none, sorry, in general, you have been given the death penalty by women. Finding a wife will be hard. If you find one, it will be others’ leftovers. Of course, there are also miracles, so it depends on if you are a lucky guy. Do not say what you have is talent, because without money, you are just straw [a friend, something there in a time of need]. So what if you can make airplanes? No money, nor handsome, even prostitutes will not look at you.
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