Chinese People’s Secrets: Part 10

Chinese People's Secrets

More translated secrets of Chinese people…

From Tianya, “Share your heart’s darkest secrets…do you have the courage?”:

阴暗的秘密:

I have a steady boyfriend, but I often go out to dinner [dates] and pubs, have had 20 and up “sexy partner”, and maintain good relations with all of them. This kind of situation I want to continue and do not want to change.

阴暗的秘密:

I have visited prostitutes before, so many times I myself do not remember how many.
All of the male colleagues I know have all visited prostitutes before (some married, some single).
My uncles have also had relations with outside women behind their wives’ backs!
Whether my father has or not I am not sure. I am afraid to ask, but I believe he has.
I believe this world’s morals are just a mask.
Once the mask comes off, each and everyone are all devils!

汲汲营营:

My cousin was really really naughty when he was small, and my temper was not good either, so we were always fighting.
Once when we were young, I was with him at a friend’s house playing.
I was only 8 or 9-years-old.
I forgot how he made me so angry, but I used my hand to hit his mouth several time, and slapped him a few times.
I also let that friend hit him, but that friend was very temperate, did not dare, and only hit him once very very lightly.
At first he [the cousin] would talk back, but then he began crying.
After that incident, I felt very bad, and treated him very well afterward. To this day, I still feel very guilty.

阴暗的秘密:

1. To lose weight, I would go to the bathroom after I eat something to vomit the food out…I really hate myself for this.
2. I really really want to know what it feels like to ML but I also want to give my first time to my husband, so I watch adult videos and ZW…I do not know how long I can continue like this.

阴暗的秘密:

I have never loved my current boyfriend. Yesterday I got angry and he thought I was afraid of losing him. In reality, I was crying because I gave up my first relationship and really regret it…

阴暗的秘密:

In the past, my wife felt I did not love her, did not value her, and went to bed with another man and even made a sex video.
I chose to forgive her and continue being with her, trying my hardest to give her what she wants. I will not get revenge on her even though I have this kind of opportunity. However, I will remember this incident for the rest of my life.

阴暗的秘密:

Starting from 6-years-old, I was sexually abused for almost six years.
I never told anyone, including my mother.
In middle school, I was sexually abused by my physical education teacher.
He and my mother even knew each other.
I still keep these secrets.

Now I think I am so cowardly.
If I had a fiery personality I would not have been harassed again.
People around me all think I am a cheerful child.
Actually, I also want to die, but cannot give up my loved ones.

Afterward, I met my first love, whom I extremely extremely loved.
I only told him that had been abused by a teacher before, and did not dare tell him about the even earlier incident.
It was also my first love who helped me have hope for my future life.

But my own sensitive and extreme personality resulted in us breaking up.
It has been eight years now, I cannot forget about him,
Even if he long ago fell in love with someone else, and says to her the things he once said to me.

In my real life, I keep changing boyfriends.
Every time it begins, I always want to seriously pursue [the relationship],
but every time I want to genuinely love a person, this person will leave me.

Debauched after break up.
This saying describes my life after [breaking up] very well.

Later,
I met a person, who loved me for four years.
Right when I was prepared to be with him, he found out I had relations with my first love,
and was unable to accept that the fact that I was not a virgin.
Had he known everything else, I wonder how he would react.

Before, I had a very good job, but because I was too believing that a man could give me happiness, I resigned.
Actually, I do not have the qualifications to have love, or a family.
Deserted by my parents, indulging myself with memories, unable to free myself.

阴暗的秘密:

Every time I am in a bad mood, I look for a one night stand. Up to now, I do not know how many girls I have lied with. I do not know if I can still meet true love in the future…

阴暗的秘密:

I often want to break up with my current boyfriend, thinking he is useless, not making progress [in life], no will power like a man, but I also do not have the courage to tell him…pitiful secret.

阴暗的秘密:

When I got married, I was a virgin.
My husband was sexually impotent.

Six years after getting married, I began to cheat.

Maybe I will get divorced when I am old.
I could no longer endure it.

Note: Many of the these usernames are the same because people are using a public/shared account to post their secrets so no one knows their normal Tianya username.

To be continued…

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  1. first to post!!

    heres my thoughts

    first comment, reminds me of this girl i know living in beijing, i shall not go into further details

    the 5th comments really reminds me of my former roommate who was from hunan. she loved her 1st bf a lot but is with her current bf soon to be husband even without love but bec he is filthy rich and grad from tsinghua uni, who puts up with all her crap and endures all crap from her like the good guy he is coming from shanghai…this was sarcasm, if you guys dont know i meant that he has no spine

    8th comment reminds me of another girl i know in beijing, although i never got a chance with her but sure wish its my turn someday!

    last comment, reminds me of this milf i know also! and im happy to assist her…

  2. @ Jay K:

    Uh, the 8th one was a dude?

    *Dr. Evil finger*

  3. I want to make a confession….

    I cheated on my Girlfriend in USA while I was on vacation in Shanghai… I don’t have the courage to tell because I’m afraid that I will lose her love. It wasn’t until after I cheated on her that I realized how much she means to me and how much I loved her. I don’t want to break her heart and lose her trust… but the guilt is eating me alive I feel dishonest and ashamed of what I’m doing to someone that loves and cares for so much.

  4. I have a secret. Often I ride the metro system in Shanghai without paying.

  5. I also have a secret.

    Once I cheated at the board game Monopoly.

    Terrible me!

    This batch of secrets was pretty lame and tame.

  6. my secret is that I have lot of secrets about how many secrets I have.

  7. i just farted…guess it’s not a secret anymore

  8. thans kaifor pointin tat out i meant it in an opposite sex term

  9. @ANON
    Will you forgive your girlfriend if she cheats on you?
    Why all the man in this world are the same? No matter Chinese men or foreign men.
    This world made me so sad and lose confidence on men…sigh….

  10. this whole expecting your future spouse to be a virgin thing is definitely a hold out from a previous age.

  11. @月

    im different, date me NOW!

  12. @Samael
    You? Every man says he is different.
    MEN love to tell lie.

    Chinese saying: 世上乌鸦一般黑
    男人要是能相信,母猪也能爬上树

  13. No more Chinese sayings!

    These “secrets” posts are getting too numerous. But it isn’t my blog:)

  14. yeah we tell lies so what, everyone bullshits every fcuking day and the world is still spinning. boo.

  15. @月

    i will paint the crows white and throw pigs over the tallest trees. Samael does not abide by Chinese sayings. give me a chance baby and i will prove you wrong!

  16. Fauna wait longer next time for part 11…

    Let some real crazy stories build up, this time was weak.

  17. @月

    Its sad to say but….I don’t think I would forgive her… I think its harder for a male to keep commitment, a lot of time having sex is just a physical act we require and over the vacation period I was very weak…. a girl threw her self at me when I was intoxicated. I know its no excuse but I really don’t know what I should tell her.

  18. hey, just cos ur a horndog dont try to blame it on the whole sex. i hate when people use stupid excuses like ‘hey i cant help it im a guy’. plenty of men CAN help it, you are just a douschebag.

    in any case, i doubt ur story is even real. if u cant keep your pants on then dont get in a relationship, or if you like to fuck around on the side, don’t be all pissy and ‘feeling guilty’ after u did it, u loved it and u know it.

  19. Here is the list, mostly sexual.

    Start masturbating at the age of 9 till today, still enjoying it and will not give up for the world.

    I was 10, one of friend’s friend asked me to play a game called “dou niao”, literally means penius fighting. If you want to learn, here is how you play, take off your pants; use your dick like it is a stick to hit the other guy’s dick. Don’t ask me why we played it. I don’t even know why we played. I guess may be it is quite exciting. Only for a little sick and twisted mind 

    At Age 17, Masturbate once in a cyber café, very exciting. I messed the whole floor, imagine the next person use the same spot. (Those good old day…)

    Told my friend that I am non virgin at 18, in fact 20. Guess I am not the only one here.

    Hey, no need to tell me, I know I am a freak.

  20. masturbation isn’t a secret, 9 out of 10 men do it daily, I however am amongst the 1 due to my active partner.

  21. I secretly think Chinese people are funny because of their secrets.

  22. @月

    i often think the same thing…

  23. @ loopylaowai:

    If you check the source, there are pages and pages of secrets. These are from a huge “secrets” thread on Tianya. If anything, Fauna has been lazy about posting these Secrets posts lately.

    As for these being lame, you should read some of the ones she’s skipped over (if you can read Chinese) as well as the past ones. LoL, I think some people are going to complain the crazier ones must be fake while some, like you, will say the more believable ones are too tame and uninteresting. It really is hard to know which is real or not, especially since it really isn’t difficult for some random person to just post a random fake story on the internet for shits and giggles. That’s part of the reason I’m more inclined to like PostSecret, because presumably far less people would invest in designing a postcard and postage to mail out a fake “secret.”

  24. SECRETS, a lot of secrets.

  25. Actually, i want to have one night-stand or get some sex parteners since i realised how much i have enjoyed jerkoff. But i dont have the gut or many chances. when im with my gf, she doesn wanna have sex with me and thinks im a freak coz im think about blowjob all day long.
    But, at the same time, i want to keep this relationship and hope i can have some sex partners who could make me satisfied in sex starvation.

    Am I a freak????
    whatever u say!!!

  26. ha~ very funny~

  27. well the stories in this batch just illustrates some chicks are horny and needs a good fix every now and then.

    Some girls need to get over their Ex and stop comparing. Chicks always like comparing new with the old.

    Like if they were comparing new and old underpants man.

  28. well i tell ppl i earn less than what i actually earn. xD

    the first confession is kinda sad and the second: dude please, just because you are a rotten apple it doesn’t mean all ppl are. I see you are trying to get relieved from things you don’t think are right by putting the blame on others. tsc tsc. fail. although i agree comments like yours are always right about the majority of people. just look at the first confession.

    and to XIAO just lol.

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