Spoiled Child Slaps & Chokes Mother In Public For Toy

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Time: International Women’s Day [2009 March 8], 11:00

Setting: Temple

Characters: Loving Mother VS Disobedient Son

Incident: Mother and son, after visiting the Buddhist Temple, are on their way home. Darling son is crying and making a fuss demanding to buy a toy from a roadside toy stall. The mother scolds the son for wanting everything he sees and since there is no reason to buy an unnecessary toy, she refuses to buy.

1. In the midst of the crowd, suddenly see a child pulling his mother’s hand crying and making a fuss…

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2. Mother: “You buy so many useless things to do what? At home there is a large pile I never see you play…”

Son: “I just want it, buy it for me!”

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3. Mother: “Only liking these meaningless things, I will not buy it!”

Son: “Wu…even if refuse to buy, you must buy…wu…”

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4. The son slapped the mother and then asked again: “Are you going to buy it or not?”

The mother was speechless…

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5. Angry, the mother wanted to leave, but the son quickly pulled her. His voice softened but he continued to harass her.

The people around could only smile nervously.

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6. The son suddenly used all his strength to pull at his mother’s hair to force his mother to give in.

The mother was speechless, the crowd was speechless, I was speechless.

(“Darling son, hurry and let go! So many people, give me some face okay?”)

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7. Son: “Wu…I want, you will not buy it for me, I like it this much yet you will not buy it for me…wu…”

Mother: “Hurry and let go, it hurts…”

(Just what kind of toy is so fun? Incomprehensible.)

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8. Son: “Such a cheap thing yet you will not buy for me, my schoolmates all have it, I want it…”

Mother: “I already bought a small chicken [toy] for you, you simply…” (did not hear clearly)

(“I will also pull your hair, ai ya! Had I known earlier, I would not have brought you to get such a short haircut yesterday…”)

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9. Some company’s promotional girl came to break up the fight saying: “Little friend, what do you want? I will go buy it for you, okay?”

Son: “I only want my mother to buy! You get lost!!!”

Her face full of embarrassment, the pretty girl walked away.

(“You get lost” was something everyone heard very clearly.)

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10. The son went crazy, reached out and grabbed his mother’s throat.

In the middle of the tussle…

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11. Ai you! My god…

The mother’s face is bright red from being suffocated…

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12. The mother being strangled.

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13. [The son] let go and continued pushing [the mother] toward buying the toy…

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14. In the middle of the struggle…

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16. Again he grabbed the hair.

The son went mad: “Will you buy or not??”

Mother: “Again, it hurts so much, hurry and let go, I will buy it! I will buy it, okay…”

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After giving in to her son, the mother and son walked to the toy stall.

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Comments:

dayongcn:

This child is simply spoiled, and the parent is mostly responsible.

懒汉老伙计:

Pampered/spoiled. If my son did this, I would have long ago kicked his ass.

3.粥凉了

If it were me, a few slaps would be necessary.

松云新客:

To a child who lacks the necessary discipline, blindly giving in, excessive spoiling and indulging is actually the greatest harm to the child.

5.横眉冷眼

Materialism is too severe. This little kid looks like he should be 8-9 years old, if you do not teach him now it will be too late.
Why does he dare to hit his mother???
This probably has happened more than once or twice…the problem is very serious!!!

6.zgcld

No one to blame but herself, [disciplining the child is] the biggest responsibility of being a parent. From a certain level, that mother does not deserve sympathy.

我用左手:

What is wrong with children these days?
I remember when I was small and talked back to my parents, I would run around the streets trying to escape being beaten.

中國人民鼓掌:

Raise this child well, and he has the potential to become a city manager [a low level government employee that most Chinese feel only bully weaker people].

zh雅心_8899:

My daughter used to be like this all the time, refusing to leave if something is not bought for her. In the end, I and my husband would simply ignore her and leave. Seeing this, she would get scared and now she does not dare. Every time she says she wants something, if I am willing, I will buy, but if I do not want to buy it, I will simply say this thing has no use if we buy it and she will not cry of make a fuss if I do not buy it. She will also agree and say buying this will be a waste of money.

chrisia.chen:

That parent buying for him in the end is a very unwise decision.
The parent giving in like this in the end communicates to him: As long as I do this, I can get what I want.
In the future, similar things will definitely occur.

安妮家的基金:

That mother in the end did not stay firm. As long as she remained firm, the next time the son would no longer be able to do this.

尚可呼吸:

So Sad! Truly speechless. It seems in Chinese culture, there can be no shortage of sticks [punishment is necessary]!
Us 80s generation should not count on the next generation to take care of us, so just fulfill your duty to our children!
Continue having less but better children, and do not put a lot of hope on the next generation.

咚咚呛!:

Just looking at the mother I can tell they are not well-off! Please note that pair of very old shoes. The son, however, is very “neat and beautiful” [newer clothes]. [You can see that he] is usually spoiled. Disobedient son, loving mother…

huang82921:

Some households that favor sons over daughters, upon giving birth to a boy treat it like an emperor, no one willing to punish/teach him a lesson, what a tragedy!

ken2004i:

This kind of little child, during the Japanese invasion period, would definitely have been another traitor!

xd.yang2006:

This bastard adult has cultivated yet another bastard for society!

lpnew:

If I were the one selling the toys, I would simply refuse to sell it to him.

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  1. Beware world, these could be the spoilt little shits that run the country one day, then you’ll be royally fucked as they’ll want to press the red button and take out London or DC…

  2. I am from a family of four and i’m the last one.In my country and culture the last born child has to be the spoiled one meaning whatever he/she deserves if affordable can get.But in my culture to respect elders is the most important thing in the society.Besides i’ve had friends who are the only child in the family but i’ve ever seen such an incident as it happened to that Poor chinese woman AS A MOTHER.The question here is who to blame.To my point of view is that chinese parents the way of raising there kids is totally wrong as an idea, because they put in the idea of spoiling their kids is a true love to them sincerely and dearly which unexceptable.Opinion of mine is, if he were my kid i’ll beat him even his kids will feel.

  3. There’s only one explanation for the mother’s non-reaction. I’m quite sure the father beats the hell out of her and she is afraid to stand up to her emperor-son because he’ll go tell dad and he’ll beat her for him. I’d rather take a beating from a child than an adult man. That would also explain the son’s violent behavior. Anyone with psychology training can see it.

  4. recommber his monther cut the hair

  5. HOLY MARY MOTHER OF ALL THINGS GREAT AND SMALL! Please send down your wrath as a bolt of lighing on that snot nosed kid!

  6. Some kids cry for dolls, others for donuts. Personally, I politely asked for things as a child.
    The only thing that brought tears to my eyes were some of the hideous outfits mother made me wear.
    Grandma took care of the situation pronto.

  7. This kids looks as he if he’d be able to punch for just about anything he wanted. Don’t cross him.

  8. I like the scene where the mom goes to pull his hair back but he doesn’t have enough to grasp a hold of. Give the mom props. She tried to control him.

  9. Cautionary tale…

  10. LACK OF LAND, ONE CHILD POLICY, ANGLO COMMERCIALS IN THE MEDIA

    SOLUTION ==> SIMPLE ==> NEED MORE LAND

    http://bbs.chinadaily.com.cn/viewthread.php?gid=2&tid=617466&extra=page%3D8

  11. oh god…cant wait until he grows up and is unleashed into society

  12. Sadly I have seen this behavior before with another chinese mother and son, when I worked at a toy store. When I saw it at my work I thought the boy bullied his mother because she was crippled and had a limited vocabulary. Now after seeing this I wonder is this possibly a cultural phenomenon…
    What mother, in full capacity of her senses, would let their child bully them in such a way??

  13. I politely decline to comment.

  14. Chinese people won’t get involved in something like this. They’ll either watch it, or ignore it. That young woman who offered to buy the thing for him certainly won’t think about getting involved in someone else’s public argument again.

  15. Of course the kid should get what he wants. He deserves a reward for perseverence

  16. i predict this brat will be among one of the millions incarcerated in future china

  17. Youtubeisblockedinchina

    Please unblock youtube because I’m missing my daily dose of visual fodder!

  18. i would abort this little fish head in a heart beat

  19. evil kid. deserves nothing.

  20. chink eyes chingchongwa are too stupid in order to digest retorical methods, only violence will solve the problem. Stupid slanted eyes pigs

  21. why does all chinks look so ugly? look at the way the mother dress and the people in the background. And you ugly chinks who wants to defend yourself, you know what I say is true, ugly chinks

  22. I would have choke slammed that little prick

  23. I would have put the little weasel up for adoption…or sent him to military school.

  24. even though i don’t understand a mother’s feeling to her kid,if i were the mum i will slap hard that child!!
    he has grown into a big boy,how could he be so rude to his mum?

  25. Who knows, the pictures could be faked, it could be a dramatic reenactment. Just saying for the sake of a lot of earlier posts. The writer of the article only needed to remember, then get pictures afterwards, so it is a viable answer.

  26. i am so angry about the boy.He is very spoilt.

  27. spoiltchildrenhavenothing

    The boy is so spoilt. Why don’t the mother say: ” If you stop pulling my hand/hair/throat i can buy you a same toy in another place which is cheaper.”

  28. If the parent’s didnt raise children to be this way by molly coddling them and convincing them they are the center of the universe, then you wouldn’t need to punish them in the first place.

    If it gets to a point where you need discipline, then you’ve gone quite far down the path away from good parenting.

    Ie: The better you are as a parent, then the less punishment you need to compensate to have a well behaved child.

    Letting a child’s behaviour get this bad without changing how you act as a parent is quite poor and weak willed.

  29. That kid needs a serious beating! Regular beatings too.

  30. yah tat rite ! if i were the mother i won pull his hair bck its so stipid jus lik two child fighting in the middle of the road .. jus a SLAP to his face and ask him to stop .. agaiin eu try .. umbrealla so big nvr use ? jus whack him ! see wad he do … strungle mi ? try one time hard on his neck and let him scare .. seriously ver aggitated aft lookin ard this pic … tat mum is a poor thing .. the shop owner didnt see it ? if i were the owner of the shop i will tell him im nt sellin eu ! jus frk of to eur home pls .. ! hit mi ? try ! challendge mi … ! kids ….

  31. If it were my kid, I would beat the fucking shit out of him. And if anyone interfered, i would fuck them up as well.

  32. Maybe I could hire him to kick my mom’s arse.

  33. the promotional girl was so kind to pay out of her own pocket to stop them fighting! she deservers my respect
    the stupid child needs some serious discipline

  34. I think I should hire that kid to kick my mom-in’law’s fat aas ..

  35. I saw on Discovery Channel that there are privately-run military-style reform schools in China for these kinds of kids. Uncontrollable (and often violent) children are so common in China that such schools are started.

    The parents will have to call these schools to come and of course, pay them lots of money.

    In the documentary, the people in military-style uniform will come to the house and forcefully drag the kids away.

    They then lead a regimented livestyle going on long marches, being treated like shxt, scolded and maybe even beaten (not shown).

    GREAT!!!

  36. WTF … I grew up with a traditional chinese family and if didn’t listen to my parents – I got the end of the feather duster, the belt, the umbrella and the baseball bat!

    The mom got no parenting skills at all. Keep an eye out for this kid – he is going to go psycho and end up in prison killing someone one day.

  37. If I was his father and I found about this behavior I would have tanned his little butt and have sent him to a military school. I am a former prison officer and this little jerk is headed in this direction! The Holy Bible says “Spare the rod and spoil the child”. This is solid proof of what poor parenting can do. My youngest stepson once called his mother a bitch and I slapped the crap out of him and threw him out of the house (he was 18) !!!! I picked up his belongings and threw them onto the front lawn. I will not tolerate this kind of behavior period!

  38. If that was my kid I would’ve walked away and ignored him. Then when I get home I’d whoop his ass big time with the cane… actually screw the cane, I’d whoop his ass with a chair.

  39. Tsk, fear is useful for make one obedient. Give in and being soft just make things worse. I say after this, go home, close the door and hit that bas tard. A kid dares to do this to parents? I woulda disown him.

  40. if..only if..i am his father of this child brat..he wont be let off the hook easily for his extortion and criminal disrespecting behaviour to his mom. here is my punishement..he will be caned with a rotan but only one hard hit to his buttock and his mom will do it with her weaken wiilled heart and me hold him down..Then i will shave off his hair.Then he will need to kneel down to her and offer a cup of tea (peacemaking)..Then he will have to call both his grandparents and tell them what happened and ask for forgiveness what he did..for future warnings.. i will shave off his eyebrows next time if this happens again plus more severe spankings….One child policy is a breeding ground of such pompous kids. but then again…only if…if i were his father..hahahahha

  41. WHAT A BUNCH OF MENTAL MIDGETS
    No where does it say this is a true story. NO WHERE.

    Read the very top. It says Pictures, Settings, and Characters. It is a stinking story created for your amusment. It did what the creator of this wanted. It has you insulting each other and making unreasonable and disrespectful comments to each other. The comment that the child looks truly upset makes me laugh. I have a young child and they can turn that on like a lamp. THINK! I hope all of you have a great day and life. Enjoy your life instead of fighting as you have no idea when it may END!!

  42. He’ll make for a charming bachelor when he gets older, eh ladies?

  43. if that were my kid i would killed him on the spot.. that mother spoild her child so much that i dont pity her.. she made her child that way..

  44. that’s the TOY he want after all? if he is my ‘lovely’ son… i’ll kick his ass and better he die now before he kill me soon.

  45. WTF
    if the picture is indeed the mother, she should not have children as clearly she can not be a proper mother. That child needs military discipline.
    Seriously when i wanted a toy and didn’t get it, it was either i do well to show why i deserved it, or get a beating for throwing a tantrum. Option 1 was probably a my best choice, sadly i’ve seen Option 2 quite a few times when i was young :( ha ha

  46. This is society’s downfall.

  47. What a rotten mother. I would have shoved her into the street, grabbed her wallet and made off with the toy in tow.

  48. if it was my dad, as soon as you ask for somthing he wuld kick the ass!!
    that kid will grow up without respect

  49. I can’t believe she bought it for him. ‘Pull my hair, choke me, slap me, embarrass me, eventually I’ll buy the toy for you’

  50. If I was that kids mum, I wouldn’t have hesitated to smash his face in if he’d had even touched me.

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