Spoiled Child Slaps & Chokes Mother In Public For Toy

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Time: International Women’s Day [2009 March 8], 11:00

Setting: Temple

Characters: Loving Mother VS Disobedient Son

Incident: Mother and son, after visiting the Buddhist Temple, are on their way home. Darling son is crying and making a fuss demanding to buy a toy from a roadside toy stall. The mother scolds the son for wanting everything he sees and since there is no reason to buy an unnecessary toy, she refuses to buy.

1. In the midst of the crowd, suddenly see a child pulling his mother’s hand crying and making a fuss…

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2. Mother: “You buy so many useless things to do what? At home there is a large pile I never see you play…”

Son: “I just want it, buy it for me!”

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3. Mother: “Only liking these meaningless things, I will not buy it!”

Son: “Wu…even if refuse to buy, you must buy…wu…”

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4. The son slapped the mother and then asked again: “Are you going to buy it or not?”

The mother was speechless…

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5. Angry, the mother wanted to leave, but the son quickly pulled her. His voice softened but he continued to harass her.

The people around could only smile nervously.

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6. The son suddenly used all his strength to pull at his mother’s hair to force his mother to give in.

The mother was speechless, the crowd was speechless, I was speechless.

(“Darling son, hurry and let go! So many people, give me some face okay?”)

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7. Son: “Wu…I want, you will not buy it for me, I like it this much yet you will not buy it for me…wu…”

Mother: “Hurry and let go, it hurts…”

(Just what kind of toy is so fun? Incomprehensible.)

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8. Son: “Such a cheap thing yet you will not buy for me, my schoolmates all have it, I want it…”

Mother: “I already bought a small chicken [toy] for you, you simply…” (did not hear clearly)

(“I will also pull your hair, ai ya! Had I known earlier, I would not have brought you to get such a short haircut yesterday…”)

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9. Some company’s promotional girl came to break up the fight saying: “Little friend, what do you want? I will go buy it for you, okay?”

Son: “I only want my mother to buy! You get lost!!!”

Her face full of embarrassment, the pretty girl walked away.

(“You get lost” was something everyone heard very clearly.)

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10. The son went crazy, reached out and grabbed his mother’s throat.

In the middle of the tussle…

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11. Ai you! My god…

The mother’s face is bright red from being suffocated…

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12. The mother being strangled.

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13. [The son] let go and continued pushing [the mother] toward buying the toy…

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14. In the middle of the struggle…

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16. Again he grabbed the hair.

The son went mad: “Will you buy or not??”

Mother: “Again, it hurts so much, hurry and let go, I will buy it! I will buy it, okay…”

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After giving in to her son, the mother and son walked to the toy stall.

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Comments:

dayongcn:

This child is simply spoiled, and the parent is mostly responsible.

懒汉老伙计:

Pampered/spoiled. If my son did this, I would have long ago kicked his ass.

3.粥凉了

If it were me, a few slaps would be necessary.

松云新客:

To a child who lacks the necessary discipline, blindly giving in, excessive spoiling and indulging is actually the greatest harm to the child.

5.横眉冷眼

Materialism is too severe. This little kid looks like he should be 8-9 years old, if you do not teach him now it will be too late.
Why does he dare to hit his mother???
This probably has happened more than once or twice…the problem is very serious!!!

6.zgcld

No one to blame but herself, [disciplining the child is] the biggest responsibility of being a parent. From a certain level, that mother does not deserve sympathy.

我用左手:

What is wrong with children these days?
I remember when I was small and talked back to my parents, I would run around the streets trying to escape being beaten.

中國人民鼓掌:

Raise this child well, and he has the potential to become a city manager [a low level government employee that most Chinese feel only bully weaker people].

zh雅心_8899:

My daughter used to be like this all the time, refusing to leave if something is not bought for her. In the end, I and my husband would simply ignore her and leave. Seeing this, she would get scared and now she does not dare. Every time she says she wants something, if I am willing, I will buy, but if I do not want to buy it, I will simply say this thing has no use if we buy it and she will not cry of make a fuss if I do not buy it. She will also agree and say buying this will be a waste of money.

chrisia.chen:

That parent buying for him in the end is a very unwise decision.
The parent giving in like this in the end communicates to him: As long as I do this, I can get what I want.
In the future, similar things will definitely occur.

安妮家的基金:

That mother in the end did not stay firm. As long as she remained firm, the next time the son would no longer be able to do this.

尚可呼吸:

So Sad! Truly speechless. It seems in Chinese culture, there can be no shortage of sticks [punishment is necessary]!
Us 80s generation should not count on the next generation to take care of us, so just fulfill your duty to our children!
Continue having less but better children, and do not put a lot of hope on the next generation.

咚咚呛!:

Just looking at the mother I can tell they are not well-off! Please note that pair of very old shoes. The son, however, is very “neat and beautiful” [newer clothes]. [You can see that he] is usually spoiled. Disobedient son, loving mother…

huang82921:

Some households that favor sons over daughters, upon giving birth to a boy treat it like an emperor, no one willing to punish/teach him a lesson, what a tragedy!

ken2004i:

This kind of little child, during the Japanese invasion period, would definitely have been another traitor!

xd.yang2006:

This bastard adult has cultivated yet another bastard for society!

lpnew:

If I were the one selling the toys, I would simply refuse to sell it to him.

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  1. because chinese parents for 4,000 years had never been taught nor educated properly on how to take action about their child . shit

    if i did that to my mother

    my other brothers would kick my arse! and my family we are fighters but when it comes to kicking around our parents or our selves for lack of discipline..

    thats when we dont tolerate this kind of crap

    if that was my son not only he’d get a whipping i;d do it infront of his friends at school….

  2. i would’ve just shot the child in the head. end of story. fucking child needs to die.

  3. i think its his mother i think she is embrassed of beating or yealing on his son in public, or either she live alone with her son and got only one son so that why she was not answering back,

    • i think she should not buy what ever the child want because , if she does that that kid will become parasite or go out of hand being a single son she must not have been strict toward him

  4. If I was her I would slap that kid…

  5. . . . That’s so messed up. Regardless of him being her son, no one should be doing that to anyone else. I’m not sure who’s worse, him for doing that or her for giving in. I can’t believe she gave in though. I’m just so shocked at her parenting technique since by that age they should’ve already learnt. Then again.. It’s easier to be on the sidelines complaining rather than in that situation trying to sort things out.
    That was unacceptable behaviour. By both of them.

  6. 1 kid per household policy is why the kid behaved this way. The parents too are responsible for this.

  7. Spare the rod spoil the child.

  8. sb should wonder where the dad is…

  9. Oh c’mon stop beating up the mother!
    You people are worse than the child! where did this horror-child learn about beating his mother? eh? From his father of course!
    His father most probably beats poor old mom too! The brat just copies his father.
    She probably got a beating that night from father after the little brats report.
    Yes …Chinese culture spoils their boys even before one child policy! China needs to wake up and stop hiding behind:-
    “In China, we have a different system ..heeeee”
    and crap like
    “in China the family is more important than in Western culture.”
    Family is just a source of hongbao here thats all!
    Govt. and citizens should wake up!

    • Appalled@everything

      Right on Jeff!

      So sick of hearing that kind of shit.

      “You don’t understand the way things are done here. You are not Chinese.”

      No. Bottom line is this shit should not fly ANYWHERE.

      This little monster needs to learn how to respect others. And to respect himself. NOT serve his selfish interests, as his parents have obviously enabled and allowed, as is evident in this behavior.

      Chinese just like to make excuses instead of admitting they are not perfect.
      Hey Chinese, word to the wise – No One Is Perfect!

      But I do blame the parents too, to an extent, Jeff.
      Because I learned all my values from mine.

      Raising a child this way? You only have yourself to blame when he behaves like this for an ugly piece of fucking plastic!

      And fuck the photographer for snapping happily all these merry shots of domestic abuse. Fuck also all those ‘smiling nervously’ passerby’s who don’t have the clout to do a thing about it.

      Disgusting.

  10. The mother is such a weak!!! You can’t buy it because of others have it?! You can’t copy others because you have to be yourself and LIKE WHAT YOU REALLY to want it.

  11. If I were the parent I would have knocked the snot out of him there and taken a belt to his smart ass at home.This is learned behavior. The Holy bible says “Spare the rod and spoil the child”. Enough said.

  12. what the fuck thiss boy.just troll into the sea bettr

  13. If the mother does not know how to discipline her son, the boy should be taken away from her and sent to re-education camp for a few years.

  14. That’s why i love Africa, the way your parents will beat you from child hood. the fear of them is the beginning of wisdom. any son that will do this to his mom in Africa i think by now he will be regretting cos if i’m there i will beat the hell out of him too.

  15. really? he went through all that just to get a “CJ7″? (长江七号)
    and if i were the parent, i would have slapped the fuck out of him! she was even trying to “好好讲话”! what? what u do is not talk, u “打死他!”

  16. this child is quite spoiled, so we must pay more attention on educating our child, if he/she doesn’t learn from it, then you can beat them, don’t let a child formed a hobby that he can get everythings if he really wants to.. especially something useless

  17. “You must lie in the bed you make.”

  18. A kick at his ass that is what he deserves, not a toy!!

  19. why did the mom give in?? she shouldn’t have! the more will the son do it when he wants something. coz he knows he gets what he wants that way. simple math. simple child psychology.

  20. This is future of China, pray for them !!

  21. I think this is partially the parents fault, but now he is old enough to right from wrong, and If I was his mother in public. I would have simply started walking away from him when he first started whining. I hate whinners. And this boy needs to be displined.

  22. I am sure there is someone – father or grandfather at their home, maybe mother-in-law, who is abusive to the woman. The son has learned his lesson well – his mother is to be beaten and disrespected. Perhaps he has learned from home that all women are to be dirt under his feet. I don’t think it is necessarily a case of a little emperor. This boy will grow up to hit his spouse and maybe abuse his children too.

  23. My son never behaved in this manner. If I could not afford a toy, he would understand and tell me so. If toy was cheap and probably would be worthless or no fun, I would tell him and we would talk about it. When he misbehaved, I let him know he was wrong.

    This woman stands like a zombie neither reacting, nor teaching, and in the end gives in. No wonder he’s nuts.

  24. the bitch deserved every bit of abuse she gets for spoiling the kid rotten like she did

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