Comments on: Parents: Pay For Your Brother’s Wedding Or Be Disowned

By: Chunky52695

Chunky52695 — Sun, 17 Apr 2011 03:47:45 +0000

lending money OK! paying with money NOT OK! this not fair because i know that families are supposed to be “caring”and “loving” but realize that she is supposed to PAY for everything and those are things HE’S supposed to be paying for. imagine how would that sound in the future. “hey, u wanna hear somethin funny? my sister paid for MY wedding! haha…” plus i dont even really care about him right now, since he’s kinda a bastard and is hopeless. like come on! if he’s old old enough to get married then he’s probably old enough to get a FREAKIN JOB! seriously! and to the parents, are yall seriously? thats just “太过分了” (crossing the line) because how could you do that? probably cuz she’s a woman and parents usually like the son better becuz he’s a guy and women are….yada yada yada. i think yall know where im going with this. what? just cuz she’s a women, she doesnt have those “special rights”? and realize that this is coming from a guy! what makes a man so special? men come OUT from women! men drink women’s breast milk!(when they were babies, of course). i think the parents “太宠他了” (spoiling him). he should be able to support himself! if you dont got the money, you dont get married! sheesh! and for the people who said that she should give her brother the money then you know what? try giving all your money to your siblings! and remember it’s giving, not lending, your probably not gonna get it back ever again. and for the people who say it’s only a small favor for her parents, why cant she just do it? they’ve raised her …yada yada yada. just shut up! if you read the article correctly, this money is for the brother, not the parents! if it was for the parents, then that’ll be a different story. and i have to comment on the brother, GET A LIFE and GET A FAT ASS OFF THAT COUCH AND FIND A JOB! DAMN! and for the girl who wants to marry the brother, why would u want to marry a person who has no life, no dream and has no effort to get a job? obviously he’s gonna be a hobo in the future. and i just wanna say that u do what ever you want, it’s ur money! i’ll respect your decision.

By: Jianada Ren

Jianada Ren — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 07:46:40 +0000

Obviously the younger brother doesn’t have a job or any source of income, himself, so how is he going to support a family? He should get an education, get a job, THEN get married. What a bum!

If her parents want to disown her, great! Think of the money she’ll save. (They obviously don’t care about her, why should she care about them?)

By: keius

keius — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 18:06:46 +0000

Such a common situation really.

I made sure the girl i married had no brothers, her parents weren’t destitute, and her only older sister was already married.
Unfortunately due to …family pressures… I had to ‘lend’ 10,000 US dollars to my sister-in-law (they asked for alot more), and i prob give about 27,000 yuan annually to my in-laws (birthdays, New Years, monthly maintenance fee, annual QingMing ancestor day, etc)….and contributed a significant amount to purchasing their apartment in the city….

I am not a rich guy, I manage to get by, don’t have much savings, and am still paying a mortgage.

And i thought i was getting it easy when i first got married LOL. The original poster has got it alot worse. I wonder how much money they already send on an annual basis.

By: jj

jj — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:35:06 +0000

I’ll pay this if I get to do this girl from behind every other sunday

By: Mr. Bean

Mr. Bean — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 03:37:52 +0000

1 Is the girl getting married or being sold.
2 Why is this girl so special.
3 Marry according to your own means

Why don’t your parent ask your husband to fuck the girl first

SHIT, this is PLAIN STUPID !!!!!!!!!