From Netease:
Female college students looking for sugar daddies start taking promotional photos
[Note: This is a repost of an older post from 2008 located here.]
Even though the number of female college students who are prostitutes is very small, they are a special group of girls. They possess a youthfulness that makes people yearn, pretty features, a future brimming with hope, and they make people envious of being a beautiful college student; however, those girls also possess a secret identity after sunset — the “lover” [mistress, second wife, etc.] of a rich guy.
Rich people believe female college students are not clingy and meddlesome; that being a sugar daddy to a college student gives them face, and so some rich people already have a “lover”. But they are weary of the mutual deception that goes along with “playing the game”. Believing that college students are relatively pure, relatively introspective, [they] want to “keep” [financially support] a female college student in order to make a place for themselves to occasionally rest, a place to rest the body along with the mind.
Furthermore, being a sugar daddy to a female college student can save a lot of trouble, making a deal with a female college student is very hassle-free. Female college students are controlled by the school. When they come out to be “lovers”, they are very afraid of the school finding out because if the school were to know, [they] would definitely be expelled. Many of them still want to get a degree so they would not make trouble without reason.
There is no one who was born wanting to go on this path. Some female college student families are rather poor, are in difficult financial situations, [their] life is very hard. A life without money puts them in a bind. Why are they naturally endowed yet must live a hard life? In other peoples’ eyes, they are very bad, no morals, they are bad women. But they don’t accept this, because they believe morals are something fundamentally hypocritical.
Since ancient times, those men that only focus only on a woman’s physical appearance and figure, why do they want a woman to appear virtuous? [Since these men] pursue fun without guilt, those who sell their bodies and self-respect in exchange for fun are the fault of society, and they [i.e. prostitutes] are not at fault. Consequently, if this is the present situation, when opportunity approaches, a few female college students who throw themselves into the embrace of a rich man in order to become a lover are no longer strange.
From Sina: [no longer accessible]
In-depth Dialog with a Post-90s Generation Sex Worker
Note: The pictures here are not from the original post.
This is basically the original dialog, but I did rely on memory to write it down. I’ve also removed some useless chatter and explicit content. She is a friend who I met by chance, but I am definitely not someone who visits prostitutes. I originally had her permission to post her picture, very pretty girl, but I decided not to because I think she can still start over again someday.
Fuxu: Can you tell me your age?
Her: I was born in 1991, 18 years old.
Fuxu: Can you tell me your occupation?
Her: Allow me to set two conditions, can you not be so formal? Also, can you not ask about the things that you’ve already known long before? Isn’t it okay if you just fill in these areas? I can also boldly say this one more time to you, my occupation is being a prostitute while simultaneously studying in school.
Fuxu: Can you describe your family background? Is your family very poor?
Her: My dad is a low-level boss, drives a Crown (luxury car from Toyota), so according to your standards, my family is not poor at all.
Fuxu: Actually, if you told us how poor your family was, how you have brothers and sisters going to school, or a relative who has a serious illness, everyone would sympathize a lot with you. How many of those around you are similar to you?
Her: When you say similar, do you mean similar family background or occupation? Occupation-wise, there are actually many similar people around me, how can I say this using your language? Right, birds of a feather flock together. But if you’re talking about family background, then not everyone is like me, there are also those whose family is very poor. Of course the so-called poor may not be the same definition that you people have. The poor that we say are those that cannot wear name brands, perhaps your world is different from ours.
Fuxu: You all have very good family backgrounds, then why are you all doing this profession?
Her: Because I like being depraved, [I] like that kind of depraved feeling from being in a bar or in a bed. But debauchery also requires money, can’t be depraved by relying on support from parents. I indulge in a feeling that is different from your lives, your world. No need to think about what a person ought to do or what needs to be done, no need to ponder and no need to struggle hard. You have no way of understanding.
Fuxu: Do those that are close to you who are in your profession also have this kind of thinking?
Her: Yes, I think so. Think about it, we can be students in this kind of school, so would we be in this profession because of our poor livelihoods? Unlikely. If it isn’t to simply reap without sowing [sic, i.e. get something for nothing], to be able to wear and use name brands without putting in effort, then it is to or to acquire resources to become depraved.
Fuxu: If your friends that are close were to know you were in this profession, would they make fun of you guys?
Her: There is absolutely no one close to me who is like this, I’ve already said it, birds of a feather flock together. Those close to me who aren’t in this profession are either still the depraved type, do K [sic, i.e. a kind of drug, possibly Ketamine], or fight, good students would not hang around with us, we are also not very uncommon. Of course, if classmates were to know, [they] would definitely make fun of us behind our backs, consider us dirty or something.
Fuxu: Do you care? Care about the feelings others have when they see you?
Her: [I] care, but no one dares to make fun of us in front of our faces, otherwise their legs would be broken.
Fuxu: Have you thought about your life in the future?
Her: Thought about it. But I’m not the same as you all, you’ll all worry about what your lives will be like, but we won’t. We only think about how to be happy right now, our parents already have money.
Fuxu: Are you happy?
Her: Sometimes, I’m unhappy, but oftentimes we’re in a kind of state where we don’t know what is happy and what is unhappy. You people that haven’t done K before would not know that kind of feeling.
P.S. Our chat actually wasn’t this short, [we] talked for a long time. She said many things to me, including some events she’s been through, but I can only pick a few to post. She agreed to let me post everything we talked about and her picture, but I only want to say this much. These stories make me feel heavy-hearted, make me feel I can’t write them down, I specifically picked this excerpt so everyone would know we are different from them in only one respect, that is we still have hope and conviction.
Comments from Sina:
876543DA:
Not even a bit of depth
chyg:
Can get addicted to being depraved?!
断了线的风筝9:
To be honest, she’s just a play thing
Actually, how to say, this kind of person just doesn’t have anything to do, family has too much money, no need to worry about livelihood. Not saying these types of people don’t deserve a place in the world, they should, moreover, ought to have [a place]. But what I can’t tolerate is them being so belligerent, saying [they] can’t stand people who mock them and saying they’ll break other peoples’ legs. You, servant girl, are too aggressive.
lixiaobing710404:
Actually nothing that strange!!!
Prostitution is a profession from ancient times. Of course there are many women who want to engage in this profession, you can understand from a woman’s perspective, many girls from good families have a subconscious motivation to become prostitutes and can gain a thrill from such motivation! Actually, some women are born with the inclination to be prostitutes, this is human nature!
For the sake of a fresh and clean appearance, our society suppresses this type of normal human behavior. [They’re] actually distorting human nature!
yiran0883:
There are indeed many different types of people, I can understand what LZ says. I enjoyed the last sentence.
1408679914(wap):
Those who sell pussy are just that, don’t make them into sex workers. It’s because these women are too filthy so they do this line of work. Don’t make it into a reason that’s hard to understand.
1760742733(wap):
They live very honestly, [if they] want to debauch [themselves] then they will do it, [if they] want to prostitute [themselves] then they will do it. Can’t say their system of values is distorted, because mainstream values cannot be used to judge these “non-mainstream”
1691272342(wap):
The human heart is made of flesh, I think if she can delude her own soul [sic], then she can go do it, but the precondition is that we are thinking human beings, not rotten corpses.
论T显示名:
Why discriminate against prostitutes? They are [part of] an honest profession, don’t steal, don’t snatch. Their money is at least cleaner than some sanctimonious XX [sic, e.g. corrupt officials or businessmen], it’s only because China still doesn’t provide professional licenses
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