Husband goes on a business trip, bored, so had sex with an internet friend and was discovered!
We’ve lived together for six years, yet it’s all ruined within a month. He was on a business trip, I was bored and wandered around the internet. I became familiar with a charming guy, developed a relationship, sneakily fooled around with him for several days, but in the end my husband found out.
He has never hit me before, but my pampering husband slapped me heavily across the face. Afterward, he slammed the door and did not return home for three days. He came back yesterday at noon, but he brought the divorce agreement, he had already signed it and wanted a divorce. I kneeled down in front of him grasping onto his leg, begging for his forgiveness. He kicked me away and left, saying he’d return when I finished signing. I’ve almost died from weeping. I feel he still loves me, the assets will be split 70/30, he gave me 70, 30 for himself. The divorce agreement is in right front of me. Hugging a pillow, I cried for a day and a night, I’ve almost become numb. I don’t want to lose my husband, I called him, sobbing and shouting yet he is indifferent, only that one sentence telling me to sign it so we can divorce quickly. What should I do???
Don’t scold me anymore, okay? I know the mistake was my fault, I’m very regretful!!!
Yesterday at night my husband returned again, said he was picking up some clothes and staying at the company dorms, he’s part of a construction company. He doesn’t speak to me, when he does talk he bitterly says divorce related words. I see him put his clothes one-by-one into the bag, my heart was shattered. He left again after he finished picking up his clothes, I held onto him pleading him not to leave, saying many repentant words, begging him not to leave me. He flings me to the side and opens the door, I tightly grasp onto door handle preventing him opening the door.
He became enraged and forcefully yanked my arm away with one hand, while his other hand wrapped around my waist, and dragged me to the bedroom. He angrily threw me onto the bed. How can my strength compare to his, moreover I haven’t eaten anything in several days, I’m somewhat weak. He stepped out, I feared once he leaves he’ll never come back so I desperately got up, ran out and grappled onto him using the door frame to pull him back. The mirror beside the door was shattered, my husband left after all. I sat by the door and cried for who knows how long. My parents still don’t know about this, if they knew I’d be castigated to death, if my family knew, I wouldn’t have the face to live on, I’m so close to breaking down. What should I do?
Comments from Mop:
This is very typical! This sort of thing happening in today’s society is no big deal …
Wait a few days and then discuss with him… perhaps it will be better… if it’s still no good…you should let it go.
At the time you were playing around you didn’t think about the consequences?
Get a divorce! There’s nothing much to say.
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Go to hell…best if you go further…filthy goods [whore]…
You’re very ignorant.
You made your own mistake, so you have to take your own responsibility.
It’s too late. Just sign it. If it’s real, I believe your husband will never be on good terms with you again.
I guess I will console you a bit. Even though I don’t approve of your way of handling things, since something we don’t hope to see has already happened, and you fully comprehend your mistake, I suggest you don’t cry like this anymore, it doesn’t help solve the problem. You should think of a way to calmly discuss with him, don’t hold back, if there’s something to be said, say it openly. Put in your utmost effort to salvage this marriage. If there’s absolutely no way, I think you should at the very minimum retain your dignity. Since he has already decided, you should not beg him further and lose your self-respect, otherwise, even if you were to make up, there will be a crisis later on. After all, a broken mirror cannot be perfectly round again, a mirror with a crack will not shine perfectly. Perhaps your life from now on will be weary!
I hate lowly people like you the most, serves you right to be tossed aside.
You reap the fruits of your labor. No one will sympathize, no one will pity you, obviously you knew it was wrong yet you did it anyway so you’ll have to face reality.
Hate you so much, because my love is so deep. You have betrayed a man who loved you, you broke his heart. Cheap slut, I really want to slap you, go die, don’t go on pretending you’re pure.
You’ve brought your own consequences, but cannot live on. Why bother?
You can try discussing [with him], “flirtatious man”…lou zhu, you saying this is so… also, six years of marriage, your age isn’t young any more, so… [forget it, I] won’t say anymore, even an upstanding official finds it difficult to resolve family disputes [this is a Chinese proverb].
I don’t know what kind of personality your husband has.
You can analyze starting from his character.
What can you do so that he’ll forgive you?
After all, you said he pampered you for six years.
Therefore it’s not possible he’ll abandon you after just this one incident.
Lou zhu you can go fuck off~
Play with fire and burned yourself. Fun, isn’t it~~~
I hate women like you the most.
So happy having sex with other people, right?
No matter how much you cry, it is no use.
Already such a grown person yet yo don’t consider the consequences of your actions,
You can take a hike.
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