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Wife Caught Cheating, Begs For Advice Online

by on Tuesday, February 23, 2010 126 comments comments

Pretty Asian Woman using laptop computer

From Mop:

Husband goes on a business trip, bored, so had sex with an internet friend and was discovered!

We’ve lived together for six years, yet it’s all ruined within a month. He was on a business trip, I was bored and wandered around the internet. I became familiar with a charming guy, developed a relationship, sneakily fooled around with him for several days, but in the end my husband found out.

He has never hit me before, but my pampering husband slapped me heavily across the face. Afterward, he slammed the door and did not return home for three days. He came back yesterday at noon, but he brought the divorce agreement, he had already signed it and wanted a divorce. I kneeled down in front of him grasping onto his leg, begging for his forgiveness. He kicked me away and left, saying he’d return when I finished signing. I’ve almost died from weeping. I feel he still loves me, the assets will be split 70/30, he gave me 70, 30 for himself. The divorce agreement is in right front of me. Hugging a pillow, I cried for a day and a night, I’ve almost become numb. I don’t want to lose my husband, I called him, sobbing and shouting yet he is indifferent, only that one sentence telling me to sign it so we can divorce quickly. What should I do???

Don’t scold me anymore, okay? I know the mistake was my fault, I’m very regretful!!!

Yesterday at night my husband returned again, said he was picking up some clothes and staying at the company dorms, he’s part of a construction company. He doesn’t speak to me, when he does talk he bitterly says divorce related words. I see him put his clothes one-by-one into the bag, my heart was shattered. He left again after he finished picking up his clothes, I held onto him pleading him not to leave, saying many repentant words, begging him not to leave me. He flings me to the side and opens the door, I tightly grasp onto door handle preventing him opening the door.

He became enraged and forcefully yanked my arm away with one hand, while his other hand wrapped around my waist, and dragged me to the bedroom. He angrily threw me onto the bed. How can my strength compare to his, moreover I haven’t eaten anything in several days, I’m somewhat weak. He stepped out, I feared once he leaves he’ll never come back so I desperately got up, ran out and grappled onto him using the door frame to pull him back. The mirror beside the door was shattered, my husband left after all. I sat by the door and cried for who knows how long. My parents still don’t know about this, if they knew I’d be castigated to death, if my family knew, I wouldn’t have the face to live on, I’m so close to breaking down. What should I do?

Comments from Mop:

男仔V:

This is very typical! This sort of thing happening in today’s society is no big deal …

00猫00:

Wait a few days and then discuss with him… perhaps it will be better… if it’s still no good…you should let it go.

~网事如风~:

At the time you were playing around you didn’t think about the consequences?

will2044:

Get a divorce! There’s nothing much to say.

脸上的幸福:

divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce divorce.

buletears521:

Go to hell…best if you go further…filthy goods [whore]…

weng1988:

You’re very ignorant.

hzksky:

You made your own mistake, so you have to take your own responsibility.

qwdaibiao:

It’s too late. Just sign it. If it’s real, I believe your husband will never be on good terms with you again.

wangkunduqing:

I guess I will console you a bit. Even though I don’t approve of your way of handling things, since something we don’t hope to see has already happened, and you fully comprehend your mistake, I suggest you don’t cry like this anymore, it doesn’t help solve the problem. You should think of a way to calmly discuss with him, don’t hold back, if there’s something to be said, say it openly. Put in your utmost effort to salvage this marriage. If there’s absolutely no way, I think you should at the very minimum retain your dignity. Since he has already decided, you should not beg him further and lose your self-respect, otherwise, even if you were to make up, there will be a crisis later on. After all, a broken mirror cannot be perfectly round again, a mirror with a crack will not shine perfectly. Perhaps your life from now on will be weary!

1093次失恋:

I hate lowly people like you the most, serves you right to be tossed aside.

dio19850604:

You reap the fruits of your labor. No one will sympathize, no one will pity you, obviously you knew it was wrong yet you did it anyway so you’ll have to face reality.

一个JB两头插:

Hate you so much, because my love is so deep. You have betrayed a man who loved you, you broke his heart. Cheap slut, I really want to slap you, go die, don’t go on pretending you’re pure.

痞子孩:

You’ve brought your own consequences, but cannot live on. Why bother?

liuyangs0124:

You can try discussing [with him], “flirtatious man”…lou zhu, you saying this is so… also, six years of marriage, your age isn’t young any more, so… [forget it, I] won’t say anymore, even an upstanding official finds it difficult to resolve family disputes [this is a Chinese proverb].

水煮鱿鱼:

I don’t know what kind of personality your husband has.
You can analyze starting from his character.
What can you do so that he’ll forgive you?
After all, you said he pampered you for six years.
Therefore it’s not possible he’ll abandon you after just this one incident.

双子座情人:

Lou zhu you can go fuck off~

溫ˉ尛貍:

Play with fire and burned yourself. Fun, isn’t it~~~

SaliM:

I hate women like you the most.
So happy having sex with other people, right?
No matter how much you cry, it is no use.
Already such a grown person yet yo don’t consider the consequences of your actions,
You can take a hike.

Next. chinaSMACK personals.

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  • http://imgur.com/gGpso.png PUSAN PLAYA

    People who get caught cheating deserve to suffer, it is a way of weeding out society’s idiots. All you need to do is take a few basic precautions, pay for everything in cash, set your mobile phone not to record call history, use privacy mode on your web browser, use a fake name whenever possible and always shower after sex to remove any suspicious smells.

    • Carwyn

      After all, Korean’s are specialists in this field.

      • carl

        Not surprising for a country where adultery is actually illegal, not just a stupid thing to do.

      • korean_guy

        You are absolutely correct~!! Just as the Chinese are specialist in filthy of every kind.

    • blaeh

      Also: wear a mask.

    • VeerLeft

      To add to this…remove ALL hairs…from your clothes, body etc. Even after a shower sometimes a hair or two is tied to your ‘nethers’…Bitches are like forensics officers… CAREFUL.

      • Ken#2

        I heard this one chick found heart drawings & other stuff on my friends bedroom window and freaked out. I mean how do you see that – blow on the glass and see whose fingerprints stand out, or wait for the condesation at 7am to see whos had their hands on the glass. WTF “forensics officers” indeed!!

      • ee

        Don’t forget to dust dead skin cells off also. haha

  • Name (required)

    Better luck next time that’s all I have to say.

  • Josh

    Ouch, sharp comments there. Well, she brought upon herself a lot of wrath and was truly foolish. But by her behaviour I think she deserves a bit of reassurance.

    That marriage is down the drain and that’s certainly a mistake she won’t repeat. Like one commentor said, she broke the mirror and the scar will stay in the marriage if it continues.

    I don’t sympathise with her behaviour, but as long as she realises that there’s likely little chance of going back to normal, I think she deserves some compassion in somehow starting all over again with someone else. She’ll bear the emotional weight of it for a long time.

    • Josh

      By behaviour, I mean the breakdown and apologies she’s gotten herself into.

    • Chen

      Mistake she won;t repeat? I am not so sure about this….. sure the lust is there, but she can;t keep it under control for the first time, what difference will it make for the second time?

  • breakpoint

    To be quite honest… a husband goes on a business trip for one month… it’s quite likely that he’s already been unfaithful…

    • LOLZ

      Not sure about this. I used to work in the consulting field and traveled around the world 85% of the time. Alot of us do not cheat, even when we are in Asia.

      Depending on the client and local sales person, we do often come across choices to go to KTVs, strip joints, or bathhouses. But this whole ordeal gets very old after a while.

      The chronic cheaters are typically businessmen who have to stay in a remote location for months. That’s when they get to know the locals establishments better to start taking risks on their own.

    • Alikese

      Yeah, because no job has a person travel… that’s just unheard of.

  • DM

    Looks to me that you got a pretty good deal in the divorce settlement……

    You should take it, because him wanting to divorce so quickly means he have cheated a lot more and is using you cheating on him as an excuse to get out of the relationship.

    I’ll visit you on my next business trip…. (just a joke)

    • Tins of sardines

      Yeah seems right to me. Good call.

  • Hoeness

    “Trust is hard to earn but very easy to lose”
    True. Period.

    Seriously – is it SO damn hard to stay faithful? “Bored, left alone, drunk, …”. Aww, com’on: poor excuses for selfish behavior.
    Reasons to break up / divorce but not to fool around and hurt someone in a way that can’t be undone.
    Applies for girls and guys the same way, of course.

    Suffering after getting caught, wow, big deal: it doesn’t make up for ur mistakes, bitch.

    45 years old, a strong libido and a lotta lovers. But never cheated on a girl, still proud of it.
    My 2 cents.

  • 886

    It is normal for people in a long term relationship to look for something new and exiting. Since we give ourselves more rights than we give others it would have been best for the woman to hide her Lover as professional as possible.

    The comments of some of the netizens are canting. Whether at work or in private life I don’t know many Chinese who haven’t gone to a SPA, KTV or whatever before. And by the way, a guy cannot have a Lover without a woman. I really think the woman shouldn’t be condemmed for being a human, just for her stupidity perhaps.

    My advise would be to stop crying, accept the divorce and find a new partner. Alternatively and depending on your age you could enjoy your life as a single for a while.

  • http://www.bradleyfarless.com/ Brad F.

    I think she should just be happy he’s giving her 70%.

    What bothers me the most is that the guy really loved her. She says he pampered her all the time.

    Still, that wasn’t enough for her. She had to go get some strange dick elsewhere.

    If she did it once she’d do it again, so good move by the guy to drop her quickly and move on.

    • Fact Checker

      Yeah, totally agree. By her own account the guy really took care of her, so he probably had his heart broken. It would be a strange situation if he cheated too and still doted on her so much.

      Good call for the guy. He doesn’t want any STDs and if he’s gentlemanly enough to give her 70% then he’ll surely find another wife quickly enough.

  • thepeasant

    Hard to comment on this without fury oozing out. the girl is lucky she even got 70% if i were the guy ill do some irreplaceable damage.

    the thing with these kinds of things is, if she did get away with this one. the next time her husband goes on a biz trip she’ll crave for a different dick again so its irrelevant for her to say its only the first time. people who get away with these kinds of things tends to repeat them….well until they are caught –ironic

    anyway what the guy did is totally right.

  • blaeh

    Maybe he should have gotten a chastity belt for her (and to make it fair one for himself too)…

  • Xqrx912

    Dear Mop. You have now met, apparently for the first time, your husband and you are seeing him as he really is. Different people have different values regarding marital fidelity. In some places a man in a similar situation might have murdered you. Here you are getting 70%. Take it. You can always give it back. View this as life’s gift to walk down another path. He wasn’t giving you something you needed otherwise you would not have strayed. At the end of the day it isn’t what you did that is important, it is what you learn about who you are and what you will do next. Good Luck to you.

  • http://www.foarp.blogspot.com FOARP

    I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that experiences with married Chinese women are not all that uncommon amongst the expat community . . . . .

  • Moo

    “People who get caught cheating deserve to suffer, it is a way of weeding out society’s idiots. All you need to do is take a few basic precautions, pay for everything in cash, set your mobile phone not to record call history, use privacy mode on your web browser, use a fake name whenever possible and always shower after sex to remove any suspicious smells.”

    pro.

  • FYIADragoon

    Fuck that bitch. Cheating wives AND HUSBANDS can all go to hell.

  • shit

    yeah thats china,more divorce becos most women know that the stand the chance to gain , despite her fault.most single women in china own home ,while ,none or very few men own homes in china,”u buy a house and it finally ends up with a woman”.’u most buy a house before we marry’ becos she knows one day she will own it.poor chinese men.you can see this attitude even with my star zhang ziyi,who recently break up with the american bf becos of difference to share property in case of divorce,she met the mans wealth and want to own it all. to my poor chinese woman,try to calm down and talk to him later ,if he doesnt listen to u,chill for a while and then accept divorce,what a pity…it s hard for him lol..

  • ShiningStar

    I got no tolerance for women like that.
    She deserves to suffer, she broke the relationship, there will be no trust after that anymore.
    Just give up, at least you can’t hurt other people’s feelings anymore.
    And I doubt this would change in the future, once a cheater always a cheater.
    Stupid whore, see you in hell.

  • http://www.foarp.blogspot.com FOARP

    Plus, is it just me, or is this woman possibly describing being raped in this section:

    “He became enraged and forcefully yanked my arm away with one hand, while his other hand wrapped around my waist, and dragged me to the bedroom. He angrily threw me onto the bed. How can my strength compare to his, moreover I haven’t eaten anything in several days, I’m somewhat weak. He stepped out”

    The English version suggests it, the Chinese version seems to too.

    • mark

      i dont think so, if i was in his shoes and could leave the house, i wouldnt throw my wife onto the floor no matter what she did, i also wouldnt throw her onto the sofa as its hard a nails, so i would probably drag her to the bedroom and throw he on the bed, by the time shes recovered and got to her feet/balance back, i would be out the front door.

      Im with the guy on this one, i have a job and for the last 2 months and the next 2 months i wont see my wife or child, but i wont be visiting any KTV’s or bath houses. just stay on my lonesome and get on with the job at hand. I trust she is looking after my daughter and being a good girl. if i found our she wasnt, i would go through the chinese legal system and get my daughter back (ie a bit of bribing in the right hand).

      but i do trust my wife, i have been cheated on in the past in the UK and i have cheated in the past in the UK, but i am a different man now.

  • DonkeyKong

    1. BJ’s every morning.
    2. Give your husband the 3rd input.
    3. Bring home other women for your husband to bang.

    Rinse, repeat.

    • Alikese

      Are you 13 years old?

    • Ms PAC MAN

      In that case, that would explain why pornstars have such long marriages.

  • Gaijin

    why did the bitch get 70? toss her ass out homeless damn cunt

  • sky

    it’s never going to be the same… you don’t deserve him and even if you guys get back together it will never be the same… you didn’t care about him there is no reason why you should expect him to do something like forgive you… i hate how these days marriage is like fast food and divorce is a trend…

  • Ping Ahn

    I see a lot of underlying misogyny with this group of comments. The fact that this woman was seeking attention from someone other than her husband points to a breakdown in this relationship. NO ONE is blameless in this instance. The husband may have been emotionally unavailable and the wife needed to have reassurance and affirmation in whether she was attractive to someone. The fact that she did not recieve it or enough of it from her husband points to the fact that her husband wasn’t emotionally available.
    The other thing is that most marriages in China are now just realizing the association of equitable relationships. How both the man and the woman needs to be valued in their roles as husband and wife and also the need to be aware of the need to show support ( emotionally, physicaly, etc.) for each other.

    • Sin

      she said the husband always pampered her and treated her well.
      Guy has to go out of town for work. You can’t say no one is blameless since SHE is to blame lol. Any defense for her actions will be weak as shit. She can only hope that he’ll either forgive her or move on and just take the shitstorm that was coming to her.

  • http://borrowedculture.com Fabrizio

    @ Ping Ahn- Yeah, I completely agree with you. It’s way too easy to call this girl all of the above derogatory names, and to claim that she deserved it. I would say that 70 percent of the time it is a bit more than the fault of one individual. I don’t condone cheating, but in this kind of situation the punishment has obviously been dealt, no need to tell her she messed up. And really, 70% split to her? That just sounds degrading, like saying ‘let me pay you away from me’. That is as much of a sting as it is a success.

  • DonHuerto

    Yeah,surely what you did was wrong, it happended and there is no going back, try to wait for some days and talk to him, if it does not work, well just take the 70% and learn from the mistake you made…

  • Shanghai Banana

    It’s all a choice. She made the choice, he made his choice.

  • mechanized

    “He became enraged and forcefully yanked my arm away with one hand, while his other hand wrapped around my waist, and dragged me to the bedroom. He angrily threw me onto the bed. How can my strength compare to his, moreover I haven’t eaten anything in several days, I’m somewhat weak. ”

    Did anybody else think that he was going to have his way with her there after this part?

    She should take the 70%.

  • LOLZ

    There is clearly something wrong with the guy as he was willing to sign over 70% of the asset after she was caught cheating.

  • Perspective

    Don’t you dare talk shit on that guy, he still loves her
    enough even after she cheated on him to fork over 70%. Maybe you never been in a relationship where you have been cheated on before, you end up being broken in mind, body, and spirit. I just hope our brother here will find his new meaning in life and do what is right.

    • pinkbunny

      I don’t think the guy loves her. To love is to forgive and forget. The guy just wanna be in control.

      • Keyser Söze

        “I don’t think the guy loves her. To love is to forgive and forget. The guy just wanna be in control.”
        Easier said than done, friend.

  • Jigsaw

    This story is a lie.

    Tiger Woods was in America when this all happened.

  • GermanChinese

    Another sign that China need’s Confucianism as a part of the daily live of it’s people.
    Had this woman as a little girl visited her local Confucian Temple or a Confucian school for years, she would had known how to act as a good wife and later mother.
    Ah, damned cultural revolution. And today, bad western cultural influence.

  • DontDoIt

    He’s a good man. She should let him go and take his amazing generosity (he should get 70%) and leave him to meet a new woman. She dramatic holding on to him seems more about worrying about her family position than for being sorry for what happened. The honorable thing for her to do now is let the man do what he wants and accept his final decision. And…this has nothing to do with western influence as I’ve read in one comment or two. Stop blaming the west for things like this. That is an easy excuse not to accept simple moral behavior that most westerners do not engage in.

  • http://www.ancheng.co.nz miiyo

    Well i thought they were going to have some rough sex when he dragged her to the bedroom but i guess i was wrong.

    I guess the marriage is doom, unless you can seduce him with better sex, like a threesome/foursome

    Well considering she’s getting 70% its obvious that he loves her to some extent.

  • Spencer

    China is well on their way to becoming just like the West… life being only about sex and money, money only being there to have more sex. Everything between sex, from the violence, to the lackluster education, to the blaring rap music, to the alcoholism, is merely a filler of ones time between having sex.

    • B. Prichard

      Oh no! Rap music! Where will the madness end!? Viewing Western culture as decadent and unambiguously worse than others is reductive and moronic.

    • Skeleton Man

      “China is well on their way to becoming just like the West… life being only about sex and money,”

      What else is there?

  • of Canada

    The guy should give her another chance. It’s one slip up in 6 years. Obviously there was problems in the marriage and they need to make changes. To give up 70% of your hard earned net worth for this is a terrible decision. If he absolutly hasto be on the road all the time they could have an open marriage. . he could enjoy young KTV girls and make his business trips more exciting and she get her emotional fulfillement from this internet boyfriend/admirer. And they can both save face.

  • Tristan

    Lesson to learn guys: Pampering your wife with money isn’t enought to stop her from cheating.
    The husband at the end still using money to make sure a quick agreeing on a divorce. He never learn.

    Business trip is good for young just-graduate singles but risky for marriage.

    I think she’s is afraid of losing her face in front of relatives, friends, and family more than out of love for her husband.

    The more you pamper or care for someone, the more you disappointed when they make a mistakes. Balance, is the key to life.

  • Zebadee

    It’s simple … This cheating bitch made a decision. Now she must live with it.

  • fjasj

    Jerry Springer!

    • Francisco

      JERRY JERRY JERRY!

  • Yin

    I was going to post something snarky like “Infidelity is an instinctual holdover from the days when it was evolutionarily advantageous to have sex with as many cave men/women as possible in order to maximize your chances of reproductive success” but…

    Oh. Well I guess I did post it. Ah well.

  • What about him?

    Ok, you got caught and were not very smart.

    Do you know if he sleeps with other women? I bet he does! Except that he did not get caught.

    He is in the construction business. H most likely goes to KTV all the time, probably hosted by suppliers. This is typical in China.

    Chinese men have a double standard.

    I bet he sleeps with plenty of other people, but you just don’t know this because you did not catch HIM.

    • bobiscool

      That’s what you assume.

      I despise all people whether men or women who cheat.

      Why do you assume that he cheats? Appearantly the woman has a very good view of her husband, which means that it’s unlikely she feels that he is cheating.

      Besides, there’s no need to consider whether he cheated or not; the fact is the woman is wrong. Even if he cheated, the woman is still wrong.

  • RaMa

    Whilst its certainly a despicable act, Chinese men have been cheating for hundreds of years and more often than not the women have just had to put up with it. The difference here is that she is genuinely remorseful, whereas many men who commit adultery show nowhere near as much remorse in these situations.

    If he truly loves her, then he would be very angry and hurt but would surely give her another chance. Especially if she promises to never do it again and make up for the hurt she has caused.

  • Zhangsan

    The type of man who is willing to give a cheating stay-at-home spouse 70% of their networth (which HE earned himself), especially when he could easily give her close to nothing due to the way Chinese courts handle divorce cases involving infidelity, is probably not the type to cheat himself.

    My 2c.

    • visit

      I see the truth in what you say.

      He’s probably something of an idealist, and his sticking to his guns and the silent treatment his way of channeling the psychological pain that this event must have caused to him.

      Its sad to see this mistake repeated in China (as elsewhere) but the facts are that the structure and demands of modern industrial society inevitably favor the dismantling of Family and traditions. There is nothing new under the sexual sun and it is a huge mistake for humanity to be systematically chucking out the baby of solid cultural wisdom with the bath water of stagnant thought processes.

      Traditional society pretty much responded with a near universal model for dealing with these issues, and whether it is pleasant to accept it or not, the model (which is generally highly constrictive and inhibitory in its required norms) squarely faces the uneven distribution of intellect, wisdom, morals, integrity, etc. in human society. If the Chinese were all wise Sages, then there would be NO NEED for a strict moral code backed by (unfair, unbalanced, and highly negative) societal responses to failures to uphold a common model of acceptable social interaction.

      Typically we have reacted with disdain at the “shackles” of traditional society, but I’m almost certain that if human civilization wishes to maintain certain non-rational (unscientific but highly characteristic) aspects of our human existence (Love, Honor, Loyalty, etc.), the future generations will “reinvent” the moral codes of their heritage.

      The past few generations are like the ants in Hex 51 responding to the shock of the unprecedented rapidity, scale, and scope of changes in society in the past couple hundred years. At some point sensible heads will re-establish an order (yes, it will be restrictive and punative: remember the masses of humanity who lost out in the DNA casino ;).

      Thunder repeated: the image of SHOCK.
      Thus in fear and trembling
      The superior man sets his life in order
      And examines himself.

  • Psychologist

    It is possible that he was a loyal and loving devoted husband now left heartbroken and shattered after uncovering the infidelity of the love of his life.

    However the mature adult even without my education in human behaviour needs to open their eyes to the likely situation. The husband is willing to give 70% to get away from his wife, he needs to save face for both sides so it is better to blame the wife and let her feel it was her fault. In reality he could have far more wealth collected that she does not know and also several other properties from the construction business that she does not know exist. Perhaps even another lover living in one of these places. Very few men will volunteer to give 70% away especially when they genuinely felt hurt broken and betrayed. He can now leave her and move in with the other girl and keep the extra wealth while appearing to be very generous and also tell the new lover he only has 30% so is not able to give her so much although he has given up his old life to be with her.

    It is also possible that the old wife was not being looked after as well as she said. She wanted to get her husband back, so tends to remember the best things of him, we often ignore the bad side of people we love. Maybe he was not a good lover and husband to her and this helped her to think about finding emotional and sexual connections with another man while he was away? Of course she loved the husband so now remembers the gifts and good times, not focussing on the bad times.

    The end of a relationship (including my own life experience) is very rarely caused by one partner, most of the time one partner takes and often accepts the blame, but both partners are in a way responsible when it gets to divorce.

  • yournametobynow

    its really funny how people are responding to this article like they’re talking to the OP – as if the person who originally wrote this reads chinasmack, or english for that matter, and this isn’t just content translated from another site.

  • qwerty

    She cheat and get 70% of the money the guy alone earnt (as she was boring doing nothing) ???

    No wonder many foreigner do not really want to get married.

    >_<

  • http://cnreviews.com Kai

    I’m rather fascinated by the parallels between discussions like this and discussions involving the relationship/dynamic between China and “the West”. The opinions, arguments, debates here about the wife and husband remind me of those involving China and “the West”, of “Chinese” and “foreigners”. It’s interesting how so many assumptions (based on personal experience or even statistical probability or just plain subjective reasoninig) are being invoked and applied to justify, defend, or temper the choices and actions of the parties involved.

    On the information provided in the story itself, and only that, I personally think he’s being really generous giving her 70%. Why 70% we can only speculate.

  • kimboslice

    The woman must learn from her mistake. Women seek men who are faithful, men REQUIRE it from their wives. I wish the man did not give her 70%. Give her $1000 per month for every month you were married. Nothing more. Women are nuts, they believe the idea that they can satisfy their every whim and desire because they have captured a nice man. Good luck, now see how nice men really are out in the real world.

  • Hardlifeinchina

    So sorry for the guy who loved you 6 years along.
    Sorry for you to realise too late your mistake.
    Sorry for those who are still running into that way.
    Sorry for those who will never have some disappointment matters in their lives, just because they don t have any Love affair.
    Sorry for the one who had sex with that married lady while she was someoneelse buddy.
    Sorry for this harmonious society full of disharmonious behaviours.
    Sorry to react back after this topic.

    Let Us GOD beeing Our Guiding Light.

  • asian cowboy

    I’m said to hear these things as I would be furious too! But I still sympathize with her just because she seems so pathetically broken and know that she had made a terrible mistake. Although I would probably do the same as her husband, I still wish her good luck.

  • Ken#2

    pls 4give me if I missed something but I stopped reading after i saw the asset split 70/30 in her favor.
    What a complete dumb@ss. B!tch wouldnt get a dime from me! And not saying that he isnt guilty cuz lord knows he probably is but does anyone in this country have the balls to make people own up to their fcking mistakes. Credibility and Responsibility are def. not in their vocab.

  • Beni

    I agree with Ken#2… 70/30!! i thought she would get 30 but bang! 70! WTF?! His lawyer must have made a mistake. Sign the damn paper before he finds out! Go find yourself another toy, woman!

    And again…. stupid man!

  • http://stargaterich.blogspot.com stargaterich

    Infidelity and unfaithfullness cannot be tolerated. This lady should count herself damn lucky that the man is willing to part away 70-30 in favor of the spouse who cheated on him!.

    He could have made the decision not to give a single cent because he has a strong case againts the wife who committed adultery.

    I don’t pity the woman, the husband is stupid idiot though. As for this woman, she is better off looking for sex elsewhere. Perhaps her raging hormone has taken a toll on her so she need dick into her pigeon hole

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