Chinese Freshman Girl Demands ‘Apple 3-Piece Set’ for College

"If you don't buy me these, just let me lose face!"

From Sina Weibo:

Freshman Wants Apple Three-Piece Set for College, Her Claim that Inability to Buy Will Embarrass Her Leaves Her Mother in Tears

Since the middle of August, freshmen have been arriving at universities one after another for registration. Quite a few of them have been acquiring “equipment” for their upcoming college life. At a store in Beijing Zhongguancun, this scene occurred: A girl insisted on buying an iPhone4s, iPad3, and Macbook “Apple 3-Piece Set”, and they had to be with high configuration/specifications. The girl said, “if you don’t buy me these, just go ahead and let me lose face in college”. Her mother was in tears because she couldn’t afford them.

Freshmen forces parents to buy her Apple 3-piece set, what do you think?

Apple three-piece suit isn't everything.

“An ‘Apple Three-Piece Set’ isn’t everything. Students, don’t compare unrealistically with others.”

Comments from Sina Weibo:

庞俊aloe:

If you can, go get a scholarship and buy them yourself. You think just because you made it to college that you’re so impressive? Colleges students are everywhere these days, don’t need you to be another one. Is Apple that great? Can competing with others [in terms of material possessions] feed you? To be a decent person, one needs to know how to be content. You don’t have the ability so you go force your parents [to buy things] you can’t afford, who the hell do you think you are? If you can, use your own salary to go buy it and then go show off and I guarantee you’ll be 10x more impressive than everyone else. But with someone like you, it’s obvious that your parents will not be able to rely on you in the future [as a filial child]. I’m so angry~~

m梅宝儿:

It’d be fine if kids like this don’t go to college, otherwise she’ll just lose even more face in the future. Just go ahead and cut her off financially, and let her make her own living!

媒体人楊壯波個人微博:

Alert! Don’t let your future kids grow up to be like this: In front of an Apple store, a girl made a fuss demanding to buy an Apple 3-piece set costing over 20,000 yuan. This girl was on the eve of going off to college, and specifically came today to buy digital products, but her mother couldn’t afford it, and crouched down in a corner by the wall, sobbing with her head down. “If you don’t buy me these, just go ahead and let me lose face in college.” After saying this, the girl turned around and walked away, leaving her mother behind. (Southern Metropolis Daily)

要补愛的冼旭輝:

My dream: Apple Three-Piece Set. 爱你爱你

迷小蘼:

Your parents have worked so many years to raise you and now that you’re finally going to college, you want an Apple three-piece set?! This girl is either a retard or rotten at heart.

Jacky-Gong:

Recently I heard about the “Apple three-piece set” news. What is wrong with kids these days? Does going to college require this kind of equipment? Sigh.

哆啦不想吃銅鑼燒:

Suddenly saw a highlight [interesting thing] on the Internet~~ What is this about buying an Apple three-piece set~? It’d be better to spend money getting some plastic surgery~ Maybe you’ll end up getting a tall, handsome, and rich guy as your boyfriend~ Then an Apple three-piece set will be nothing~~~~~

OH_BANYAN:

“A boss will always be a boss. Even if he uses a hundred yuan worth cell phone, no one dare to disrespect him. An employee will always be an employee. Even with an Apple three-piece suit, he still he has to bow to his boss.” — Truly well said. College students with ability should still work hard on their studies.

株洲胡洪:

Bad quality of [Chinese] education!!奥特曼

小小屁孩丶:

Being a prostitute would be a nice choice.

boundless崔:

Good girl, has potential. Keep growing like this, a shit-making machine of the Chinese nation.

仇笑痴v:

I’ve said the same thing, if my child dares ask me for an Apple three-piece set in the future, I’ll just smack them right then and there!

Minami_4:

That piece of news about the fool that wants to buy an Apple three-piece set has made its way here… Tsk, tsk, tsk~ Talk about embarrassing yourself throughout the entire world~ It’s said that Taiwan often only reports this kind of mainland news==

Eisley_Cesc:

If I say this, will someone pia [smack] me? When I went to college, I used my father’s 2-year-old laptop. At the time, he had suggested buying an Apple laptop for me. I was afraid people would think I was a rich second generation (in fact, I really am a rich second generation) and rob me~ So I never thought of buying an Apple laptop for college~ Even now you don’t see me dying from loss of face. I really want to ask that girl: “Is Apple your biological mother?” 酷酷酷

伺机翻身的老咸鱼:

I don’t have a single one of these three things and I’m still living happily. When you don’t need external material things to upgrade or show your identity or status, these things all become fu yun. Face is something one must earn, not something given by your parents.

銀月SaBer:

Lousy Apple, is it more important than family? If Jobs’ soul is in heaven, he too would despise a SB like you. Grandpa Jobs used “Apple” as his brand, “Apple” is not a symbol for showing off, but an idea that pushes people to be creative. If other students bought Maseratis, would this girl follow suit?

孙雷喆:

(Post-90s generation) to sell kidneys or sell their bodies, this is the question!

[There have been reports of Chinese youth selling their kidneys or prostituting themselves to buy Apple products like the iPad.]

AsER_:

Today’s parents are too frightened, and kids too SB… [therefore they] both deserve to be unhappy.

米乐莫斯科:

Many fellow countrymen’s values have become terribly twisted. What can that three to five thousand RMB prove? Do you think we still live in the old society? 20 years ago was good, even a beeper was a valuable thing.

栖麒柒琪:

All have fallen to into the schemes/trap of businessmen.

moreless:

Apple three-piece set, who invented this [term]?

海Y清:

— If you want to blame, blame society; If you want to blame, blame the national education system; If you want to blame, blame family planning; If you want to blame, blame Steve Jobs…

荒野上的苜蓿:

God, if you have this much money, why not go take a trip to England…

Sey陳譿娟:

Disgraceful, you’ve already lost face before you even enter the college!

潜龙602:

Don’t blame the new college student asking her parents for an Apple three-piece set too much! Most of the fault lies with the parents themselves and overall social environment. Young parents should remember this lesson, the overall social environment can’t be changed, but you can create a more better smaller sub-environment for your children!

东华湖的鬼:

This is all because she wasn’t properly raised/educated ever since she was little, so in the end the parents are still to blame.

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  • jeffli

    SOFA!

    • Winter B4 Spring

      i m just here this time for the honour of being 2nd. in a way – dang!! argh so close.

      • Winter B4 Spring

        so, jeffli, how does our comments here contribute to this article? =P haha

    • jeffli

      haha!………..HAHA!………………..
      TRANSLATION TO CHINESE :- “gheeeeeeeeeeheeeeheeeeeeeeee”
      the poor mom!

      she should smack her arse with the feather duster!
      the only apple she needs is a red one from the tree [mom probably peels them for her]

      here we go
      dell notebook 2500 rmb
      samsung anycall phone 300 rmmb [base model]
      one copy ipod nano -150 rmb

      now shut — —k up!

      • jeffli

        and thats maximum!
        the phone and mp3 player is a bonus only if she’s good!

        • jeffli

          [funky seventies beat]
          I got the sofa under me
          I got the sofa under me
          IIIIIIIII… got the soooooooofaaaaaa… [thump]
          the lil’ pretty soooofaaaa. [thump]
          the beeeeeeeeeoooooooooooOOOOooOoOoOootiful sofaaa [thump.]
          I gothis OOOWWWWwwwree-ental sOoooooooFaaaa [thump]
          under me………
          [drdrdrdrdrdgitar solordrdrdrdrdrdrdrdrdrdrcrashthump.]

          • jeffli

            Its party time! EVERY BODY ON THE SOFA SAY YOoOH!
            on the Sofa!
            DOOF DOOF DOOF DU DU DU DU DU DU DU DU DOOF DOOF DOOF
            [SUGAR HILL GANG]

            i said a hip hop a hippie to the hippie
            to the hip hip hop, you dont stop
            a rockin to the bang bang boogie say up jumps the boogie,
            to the rhythm of the boogity beat.

            now what you hear is not a test–i’m rapping to the beat
            and me, the groove, and my friends are gonna try to move your feet
            see i am wonder mike and i’d like to say hello
            to the black, to the white, the red, and the brown, the purple and yellow
            but first i gotta bang bang the boogie to the boogie
            say up jump the boogie to the bang bang boogie
            let’s rock, you dont stop
            rock the riddle that will make your body rock
            well so far youve heard my voice but i brought two friends along
            and next on the mike is my man hank
            come on, hank, sing that song

            check it out, i’m the c-a-s-a-n-o-v-a
            and the rest is f-l-y
            ya see i go by the code of the doctor of the mix
            and these reasons i’ll tell ya why
            ya see i’m six foot one and i’m tons of fun
            and i dress to a t
            ya see i got more clothes than muhammad ali and i dress so viciously
            i got bodyguards, i got two big cars
            that definitely aint the wack
            i got a lincoln continental and a sunroof cadillac
            so after school, i take a dip in the pool
            which really is on the wall
            i got a color tv so i can see
            the Knicks play basketball
            hear me talkin bout checkbooks, credit cards
            more money than a sucker could ever spend
            but i wouldnt give a sucker or a bum from the rucker
            not a dime til i made it again
            ya go hotel motel whatcha gonna do today (say what)
            ya say im gonna get a fly girl gonna get some spankin
            drive off in a def oj
            everybody go, hotel motel holiday inn
            say if your girl starts actin up, then you take her friend
            master gee, am I mellow
            its on you so what you gonna do

            well it’s on n on n on on n on
            the beat dont stop until the break of dawn
            i said m-a-s, t-e-r, a g with a double e
            i said i go by the unforgettable name
            of the many call the master gee
            well, my name is known all over the world
            by all the foxy ladies and the pretty girls
            i’m goin down in history
            as the baddest rapper there could ever be
            now i’m feelin the highs and ya feelin the lows
            the beat starts gettin into your toes
            ya start poppin ya fingers and stompin your feet
            and movin your body while youre sittin in your seat
            and the damn ya start doin the freak
            i said damn, right outta your seat
            then ya throw your hands high in the air
            ya rockin to the rhythm, shake your derriere
            ya rockin to the beat without a care
            with the sureshot m.c.s for the affair
            now, im not as tall as the rest of the gang
            but i rap to the beat just the same
            i dot a little face and a pair of brown eyes
            all im here to do ladies is hypnotize
            singin on n n on n on n on
            the beat dont stop until the break of dawn
            singin on n n on n on on n on
            like a hot buttered a pop da pop da pop dibbie dibbie
            pop da pop pop ya dont dare stop
            come alive yall gimme what ya got
            i guess by now you can take a hunch
            and find that i am the baby of the bunch
            ‘but that’s okay i still keep in stride
            cause all i’m here to do is just wiggle your behind
            singin on n n on n on n on
            the beat dont stop until the break of dawn
            singin on n n on n on on n on
            rock rock yall throw it on the floor
            im gonna freak ya here im gonna feak ya there
            im gonna move you outta this atmosphere
            cause im one of a kind and ill shock your mind
            ill put t-t-tickets in your behind
            i said 1-2-3-4, come on girls get on the floor
            a-come alive, yall a-gimme what ya got
            cause im guaranteed to make you rock
            i said 1-2-3-4 tell me wonder mike what are you waitin for?

            i said a hip hop the hippie to the hippie
            the hip hip hop, a you dont stop
            the rock it to the bang bang boogie say up jumped the boogie
            to the rhythm of the boogie, the beat
            skiddlee beebop a we rock a scoobie doo
            and guess what america we love you
            cause ya rock and ya roll with so much soul
            you could rock till you’re a hundred and one years old
            i dont mean to brag i dont mean to boast
            but we like hot butter on our breakfast toast
            rock it up baby bubbah
            baby bubbah to the boogie da bang bang da boogie
            to the beat beat, its so unique
            come on everybody and dance to the beat

            i said a hip hop the hippie the hippie
            to the hip hip hop, a you dont stop
            a rock on, pretty bubba to the boogity bang, bang,
            the boogie to the boogity beat.

            i said i cant wait til the end of the week
            when im rappin to the rhythm of a groovy beat
            and attempt to raise your body heat
            just blow your mind so that you cant speak
            and do a thing but a rock and shuffle your feet
            and let it change up to a dance called the freak
            and when ya finally do come in to your rhythmic beat
            rest a little while so ya dont get weak
            i know a man named hank
            he has more rhymes than a serious bank
            so come on hank sing that song
            to the rhythm of the boogie da bang bang da bong

            well, im imp the dimp the ladies pimp
            the women fight for my delight
            but im the grandmaster with the three mcs
            that shock the house for the young ladies
            and when you come inside, into the front
            you do the freak, spank, and do the bump
            and when the sucker mcs try to prove a point

            we’re treacherous trio, we’re the serious joint
            a from sun to sun and from day to day
            i sit down and write a brand new rhyme
            because they say that miracles never cease
            i’ve created a devastating masterpiece
            i’m gonna rock the mike til you cant resist
            everybody, i say it goes like this
            well i was comin home late one dark afternoon
            a reporter stopped me for a interview
            she said she’s heard stories and she’s heard fables
            that i’m vicious on the mike and the turntables
            this young reporter i did adore
            so i rocked a vicious rhyme like i never did before
            she said damn fly guy im in love with you
            the casanova legend must have been true
            i said by the way baby what’s your name
            said i go by the name of lois lane
            and you could be my boyfiend you surely can
            just let me quit my boyfriend called superman
            i said he’s a fairy i do suppoose
            flyin through the air in pantyhose
            he may be very sexy or even cute
            but he looks like a sucker in a blue and red suit
            i said you need a man who’s got finesse
            and his whole name across his chest
            he may be able to fly all through the night
            but can he rock a party til the early light
            he cant satisfy you with his little worm
            but i can bust you out with my super sperm
            i go do it, i go do it, i go do it, do it , do it
            an i’m here an i’m there i’m big bang hank, im everywhere
            just throw your hands up in the air
            and party hardy like you just dont care
            let’s do it dont stop yall a tick a tock yall you dont stop
            go hotel motel what you gonna do today(say what)
            im gonna get a fly girl gonna get some spank drive off in a def oj
            everybody go hotel motel holiday inn
            you say if your girl starts actin up then you take her friend
            i say skip, dive, what can i say
            i cant fit em all inside my oj
            so i just take half and bust them out
            i give the rest to master gee so he could shock the house

            it was twelve o’clock one friday night
            i was rockin to the beat and feelin all right
            everybody was dancin on the floor
            doin all the things they never did before
            and then this fly fly girl with a sexy lean
            she came into the bar, she came into the scene
            as she traveled deeper inside the room
            all the fellas checked out her white sasoons
            she came up to the table, looked into my eyes
            then she turned around and shook her behind
            so i said to myself, its time for me to release
            my vicious rhyme i call my masterpiece
            and now people in the house this is just for you
            a little rap to make you boogaloo
            now the group ya hear is called phase two
            and let me tell ya somethin we’re a helluva crew
            once a week we’re on the street
            just a-cuttin’ the jams and making it free
            for you to party ya got to have the movies
            so we’ll get right down and give you the groove
            for you to dance you gotta get hype
            so we’ll get right down for you tonight
            now the system’s on and the girls are there
            ya definitely have a rockin affair
            but let me tell ya somethin there’s still one fact
            that to have a party ya got to have a rap
            so when the party’s over you’re makin it home
            and tryin to sleep before the break of dawn
            and while ya sleepin ya start to dream
            and thinkin how ya danced on the disco scene
            my name appears in your mind
            yeah, a name you know that was right on time
            it was phase two just a doin a do
            rockin ya down cause ya know we could
            to the rhythm of the beat that makes ya freak
            come alive girls get on your feet
            to the rhythm of the beat to the beat the beat
            to the double beat beat that it makes ya freak
            to the rhythm of the beat that says ya go on
            on n on into the break of dawn
            now i got a man comin on right now
            he’s guaranteed to throw down
            he goes by the name of wonder mike
            come on wonder mike do what ya like

            like a can of beer that’s sweeter than honey
            like a millionaire that has no money
            like a rainy day that is not wet
            like a gamblin fiend that does not bet
            like dracula with out his fangs
            like the boogie to the boogie without the boogie bang
            like collard greens that dont taste good
            like a tree that’s not made out of wood
            like goin up and not comin down
            is just like the beat without the sound no sound
            to the beat beat, ya do the freak
            everybody just rock and dance to the beat
            have you ever went over a friends house to eat
            and the food just aint no good
            i mean the macaroni’s soggy the peas are mushed
            and the chicken tastes like wood
            so you try to play it off like you think you can
            by sayin that youre full
            and then your friend says momma he’s just being polite
            he aint finished uh uh that’s bull
            so your heart starts pumpin and you think of a lie
            and you say that you already ate
            and your friend says man there’s plenty of food
            so you pile some more on your plate
            while the stinky foods steamin your mind s
            tarts to dreamin
            of the moment that it’s time to leave
            and then you look at your plate and your chickens slowly rottin
            into something that looks like cheese
            oh so you say that’s it i got to leave this place
            i dont care what these people think
            im just sittin here makin myself nauseous
            with this ugly food that stinks
            so you bust out the door while its still closed
            still sick from the food you ate
            and then you run to the store for quick relief
            from a bottle of kaopectate
            and then you call your friend two weeks later
            to see how he has been
            and he says i understand about the food
            baby bubbah but we’re still friends
            with a hip hop the hippie to the hippie
            the hip hip a hop a you dont stop the rockin
            to the bang bang boogie
            say up jump the boogie to the rhythm of the boogie the beat
            i say hank can ya rock
            can ya rock to the rhythm that just dont stop
            can ya hip me to the shoobie doo
            i said come on make the make the people move

            i go to the halls and then ring the bell
            because i am the man with the clientele
            and if ya ask me why i rock so well
            a big bang, i got clientele
            and from the time i was only six years old
            i never forgot what i was told
            it was the best advice that i ever had
            it came from my wise dear old dad
            he said sit down punk i wanna talk to you
            and dont say a word until i’m through
            now there’s a time to laugh a time to cry
            a time to live and a time to die
            a time to break and a time to chill
            to act civilized or act real ill
            but whatever ya do in your lifetime
            ya never let a mc steal your rhyme
            so from sixty six til this very day
            ill always remember what he had to say
            so when the sucker mcs try to chump my style
            i let them know that i’m versatile
            i got style finesse and a little black book
            that’s filled with rhymes and i know you wanna look
            but there’s a thing that separates you from me
            and that’s called originality
            because my rhymes are on from what you heard
            i didnt even bite and not a god damn word
            and i say a little more later on tonight
            so the sucker mc’s can bite all night
            a tick a tock yall a beat beat yall
            a lets rock yall ya dont stop
            ya go hotel motel whatcha gonna do today (say what)
            ya say im gonna get a fly girl gonna get some spankin
            drive off in a def oj
            everybody go hotel motel holiday inn
            ya say if your girl starts actin up then you take her friends
            a like that yall to the beat yall
            beat beat yall ya dont stop
            a master gee am I mellow?
            its on you so whatcha gonna do

            well like johnny carson on the late show
            a like frankie croker in stereo
            well like the barkay’s singin holy ghost
            the sounds to throw down they’re played the most

            its like my man captain sky
            whose name he earned with his super sperm
            we rock and we dont stop
            get off yall im here to give you whatcha got
            to the beat that it makes you freak
            and come alive girl get on your feet
            a like a perry mason without a case
            like farrah fawcett without her face

            like the barkays on the mike
            like gettin right down for you tonight
            like movin your body so ya dont know how
            right to the rhythm and throw down

            like comin alive to the master gee
            the brother who rocks so viciously
            i said the age of one my life begun
            at the age of two i was doin the do
            at the age of three it was you and me
            rockin to the sounds of the master gee
            at the age of four i was on the floor
            givin all the freaks what they bargained for
            at the age of five i didnt take no jive
            with the master gee its all the way live
            at the age of six i was a pickin up sticks
            rappin to the beat my stick was fixed
            at the age of seven i was rockin in heaven dontcha know i went off
            i got right on down to the beat you see
            gettin right on down makin all the girls
            just take of their clothes to the beat the beat
            to the double beat beat that makes you freak
            at the age of eight i was really great
            cause every night you see i had a date
            at the age of nine i was right on time
            cause every night i had a party rhyme
            goin on n n on n on on n on
            the beat dont stop until the break of dawn
            a sayin on n n on n on on n on…
            like a hot buttered de pop de pop de pop
            a saying on n n on n on on n on
            cause i’m a helluva man when i’m on the mike
            i am the definate feast delight
            cause i’m a helluva man when i’m on the mike
            i am the definate feast delight
            come to the master gee you see
            the brother who rocks so viciously

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          • markx

            Rap has got such cheap obvious rhymes, yeah? And the rhyme is apparently more important any attempt at meaning…..

          • donscarletti

            If 50 cent had written that, it would be seen as evidence of his growing lyrical depth.

          • Justin

            Sugarhill Gang was the hip hop equivalent of a boy band. They were artificially put together like the Spice Girls, hence the name Sugarhill Gang (Sugarhill was the record label.) Real hip hop artists were out there putting on parties and making music and not getting paid jack squat and these chumps came and cashed in on it. Most of these lyrics were “borrowed”, read stolen, from the notebook of rapper Casanova Fly. He even spells out Casanova Fly’s name in the song. the C-A-S-A, N-O-V-A and the rest is F-L-Y. That’s what a wholesale ripoff this piece of garbage is. Why don’t you get educated on some real hip hop boyeee.

      • Winter B4 Spring

        wait… i m guessing the word after “shut” is “the”.

        now, we are truly contributing to this article.

        Sorry Fauna, jeffli’s fault. cant help it. =D

    • jeffli

      YEAH CHEERS FAUNA! SORRY BUT THE MUSIC IS UP! THE COKE ICE AND MAOTAI(govt. standard) is flowin’ and we’re gettin to groovin’
      WE’RE IN THE ZEITGEIST BABY!
      DOOF DOOFF DADOOF….

      CLINK! CHEERS!

      HONG GAOLING AND PINEAPPLE JUICE COMMING UP! MINORITYCOLADA HOMIES!

      IT DEF JAM IN DA HOUSE!

      • jeffli

        WHOS HOUSE?
        YA’LL SING “FAUNAS HOUSE!”

        WHO’S SOOooOOFAAAA?
        THA JEFFLI SO0o0OoFAAA!

        YOHHH! ‘.,.’,.,.,….
        YOHHH!.,.,.,,,.
        WOYOHH! ……….WOYOHHHH! [CUTTIN’ SUM MARLEY GROOVE IN]

        • Brett Hunan

          You shouldnt do drugs before bed. And definitely consider laying off the Mountain Dew.

          • Dr Dust Cell

            I gave him some of what I took in the last article.

  • Mark Fallon

    Shouldn’t she get them the way any normal young slut does? By lying on her back and being a crap shag for some old lao ban?

    • jeffli

      hole is too small…
      I got an MBA and ipad GSM and iphone six right here! lol

    • jiayi

      Are you kidding?

      College age is practically grandma status when it comes to whoring yourself in China, at least if you’re looking for a client who is rolling in the Maos, so to speak. She’s on the shelf. The older these lewd creatures get, the younger and more nubile they want.

      • jeffli

        THATS IT BIG GEE,
        DON’T WANT KNOW MAOS WANT YUANS!

        SORRY FOR “YELLING” THE MUSIC IS LOUD ON THE S-O-F-A-A!

      • Nanny Hiccups

        like 50 year old men don’t marry 20 something year old women. or like hugh heffer, 80 year old with 19 and 20 year old girls. westerners do it to only more frequently.

        • hess

          And once again, you don’t know shit about how it is here in China.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            are you from china? and are you male? If so, please do not type to me. I do not want a conversation with you. Also, learn to read, since my comment is about where I live and not where you live.

          • hess

            “Also, learn to read, since my comment is about where I live and not where you live.”
            “westerners do it to only more frequently.”
            Fucking retard.

        • fenqing basher

          Young women f… with older men just because they are naturally driven to raise their breed safely and with sufficient assets, elder men are naturally attracted to younger women cause the offspring will be healthier.
          In both cases natural cause, your fears falling out of the race, thus men not being attracted to you any more cause of those wrinkles and orange skin and and and…are natural as well.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Actually, scientists have just linked autism to producing children with older men. They said that the older the man, the more abnoramlities present in his DNA. This is naturally occurring in adults as they age, particularly when they are much older, beginning with men in their 40s. The abnormality occurs in the sperm cell.

            http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/26/fashion/autism-study-starts-clock-for-prospective-fathers.html

            This was in the New York Times about a week ago.

          • Rick in China

            I read the same news Hiccups, but your reply is incorrectly targetted. Fenqing basher’s point was not that the babies will be healthier if the woman finds an older man – it’s that their financial / stability during life will be likely better if they find someone with cash – ie “with sufficient assets” – the men choose younger women for the physical health aspects, and obviously an older man with a younger woman has a better chance at a physically healthy baby (generally speaking of course) than with an equally old woman, no?

            Secondly, more aptly, it’s not that more abnormalities are present in the DNA, it’s that mutations are more commonly passed down through older men’s sperm. DNA is DNA, your DNA is your DNA when you’re 20, and it’s your DNA when you’re 80, the fact you’re trying to present is that the likelihood that the sperm from an older man passes down more mutations of those present (ie dispositions to certain diseases) is greater. On a one to one basis, an old man with a low disposition to, say, autism, will still have a less likely chance of passing down the autism mutation to his offspring than an otherwise healthy much younger man with a predisposition to pass that gene down to his offspring.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            I’m not sure though that I am buying the “sperm from older men produces autism” theory. The reason being that, Autism 50 to 100 years ago was not as prevalent as it is now. I forget the exact numbers but autism is really high today. It also does not seem as prevalent as other societies as it is in America. Many parents claim autism is linked to an immunization (I forget which one). I believe it too, with two sisters who have autistic children and one of my mine who was diagnosed (though he is high functioning with asperberger’s and leads a normal life). I can recall the moment when his personality changed, after a high 104 degree temperature and a night of screaming after an immunization shot. Then it just kind of died down the next day and he was quiet. And trust me, both of his parents are young.

          • Rick I would say you are right. Singapore is the best test-bed. Most dads are 50-60 plus amongst white expats. From Rupert Murdoch right through to the gents I drink Tiger/Strongbow/Heineken/Carlsberg with, I see no autism. This is hundreds of old dads over twenty years. They drink shed-loads of alcohol too – so it ain’t the fags or wine. Because they’re bizpeople they are simply unlikely to have a Mr Bean gene so dominant.

          • Dr SUN

            Rick, Nanny, sorry you are wrong, most genetic birth defects are from “old eggs” thats a girl thing (if you did not know) they are born with certain number and thats it, they degrade with age.
            Sperm is not the same

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Dr. Sun you will have to take that up with the scientific community. This is not my area of expertise. Though I am inclined for reasons having everything to do with logic, agree with the experts. :O)

          • Nanny My guess is Dr Sun is too white. In Asia and Europe (don’t know about America) the age of birth is slightly higher for the woman. But autism is seen where people recognise autistics from their genealogy. However, I would say there is a black guy with Asperger’s in London who can “draw” any facade or aerial image “just like that”. The problem with autism is it is cross-race. Malays and Arabs have autism thus it is not due to age or toxins such as alcohol/tobacco. Maybe autism has been there since the dawn of cro magnon man?

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Is some of my children’s classrooms there are two or three kids who are autistic. I never saw autistic kids growing up. I definitely think it is linked to one of the newer immunizations.

          • Rick in China

            *sigh* re: “WRONG” and “RIGHT”. Dr? Sun, obviously not a Doctor, at least in anything related to science.

            It’s not saying “If you’re old you’re going to have an autistic child.” Don’t paint it that way. There are MANY causes for a single disease, it’s not 1:1, it’s 1:N. Disease:Cause.

            The study is sound. It’s saying that more mutations are passed through sperm from older men. That’s not saying that autism is caused by old men. There are TONS of reasons why someone may be born with an illness or defective genetics. Learn to read more accurately before jumping to conclusions.

            separately, “Dr Sun”, while sperm is “not the same” as degrading eggs in older women, it does degrade too. Do a simple Google search, there are LOTS of studies founded by well-known universities to cite details to that effect. It may not be as prevalent or significant as the degradation of female eggs, but it exists.

          • Rick in China

            @Nanny
            Could totally be related to/increased likelihood of getting through an immunization. That’s also something that has been used as a political tool in the US recently, mostly by crazy bitches like Bachmann, and I’d be careful about jumping on that bandwagon. There are a thousand things that something “could” be related to or caused by, we could be looking at more rudimentary issues like hormones in our daily foods, no? Air contaminants we breath in every day, higher levels in highly dense modern areas? Immunizations are pretty rigorously tested, if autism was really a result of the HPV immunization for women I’d have a hard time believing that the FDA wouldn’t have a serious study saying so by now and ban it from being given.

            One reason you may notice many more autistic children – is that these days, people are MUCH more likely to integrate more heavily disabled children into normal childhood activities and social life, or classrooms…rather than keep them locked up or send them to group homes that specialize in handling those types of cases. People/society are becoming more accepting of children that are ‘different’, not to mention, we’re much better equipped to properly identify these problems medically rather than just say “they’re a little slow’ or whatever as it would have been in the past. Richard is right, these defects likely existed since the time of Egyptians. Spartans maybe didn’t have any autistic children — but they also threw defective babies in pits rather than raise them..that’s about it though.

          • Dr SUN

            *sigh* Rick reads one study and nows he’s a Dr, I said most, did I not ?

          • Nanny As for this “age of the dad” 1% increase in possibility of autism theory, I guess there are many female scientific researchers who know stories of older dads running off to e.g. Asia and finding a new wife of considerable allure. Whether TH CN VN PH SG MY or other E/SE Asian nations. This makes white women crazy. White women are often overweight and that IS due to hormones and antibiotics fed to the cattle, plus too many potatoes. This lot screws up the stomach flora. Note how Yakult was invented in Japan and most Japanese are thin.

  • jiayi

    The Chinese sure have an interesting concept of what ‘face’ is.

    You can be a fraudster, a prostitute, a murderer, or just a good old fashioned c*nt. But as long as you have a Miu Miu bag or a BMW (to accessorize your personality bypass with), you are sure to be the faciest face that ever faced.

    Touché, China. Touché.

    • jeffli

      BUTCHER BAKER CANDLESTICK MAKER?
      NO?
      HOBBIT?
      NO?

    • heminator

      True true!

  • BigJ

    This girl should sell one of her kidneys. It worked for that other kid. LOL

    • jeffli

      I LOST ONE IN 2008 (SANLU FIELDS FOREVER)

  • linette

    I am working and I can’t even afford this apple three piece set. Too much money.

    • BigJ

      Linette, you can’t give up.You have to try. It has be foretold that once all 3 pieces are brought together,Chinese gain a magical power called “face”. This is the only thing that can save you now. Go now….combine all 3 pieces….make haste!! LOL

      • linette

        No thank you. I’d rather spend my money on something else.

        • sern

          Well you’re welcome to spend it on me

      • Xero

        This is kind of like the triforce isn’t it?

        • Kukuku

          Except the Triforce grants you actual power, and is likely to split and shatter if you are unworthy.

      • Ryo

        Dang it, I only got 2 out of 3…. no wonder nobody gives me any face…

  • XiaoHei

    It must be peer pressure that makes her demand such things. I remember I demanded a bicycle and a vacation during my time. Of course I got smacked in the face for that.

    • jeffli

      YO! WORD HOMES!

  • Materialism and stupid competition, not to “loose face”.typical of Chinks from kids to parents.she will get three looves of boons.aka “mantor” .just because your neighbor has a bye, you go in for a lifelong mortgage to buy a “hongda”.then they consider themselves to be living in a great nation.idiots

    • Mao Ze Shenme Dong Dong

      Hi Rtex. Are you the Nigerian bank manager I gave my bank details to?

      I just want to let you know someone has taken all my money out of my account so I won’t be able to invest in your inheritance scheme anymore. I feel so bad. I hope you are not mad with me.

  • hoppy1

    “This is all because she wasn’t properly raised/educated ever since she was little, so in the end the parents are still to blame.”

    I have to say this is a probable cause for such a reaction. I’ve seen it many, many times where the parents and grandparents of an only child, buy whatever the child wants…usually when said child wants it. It would be hard to grow up and NOT believe it was your divine right to get all you ask for. So imagine the shock to the system when that little , insignificant two letter word passes the parent’s lips for the first time! NO? 意思是什么?

    • jeffli

      YO HOPPY1
      YOU LOOKIN’ GOOD!
      KNOW ‘ I’M SAYIN’?

  • Byd to say.

  • Foreign Devil

    America thanks you China for buying out our bad debt and over-valuing USD (which prevents us from having a Greek type fallout) AND making our American company “Apple” the richest company on the stock market. Now if you would just go ahead a legalize Google and Facebook you’d send us over the top!

    • jeffli

      AND BEING THE PROUD INSTIGATORS OF DIGITAL RIGHTS CIRCUMVENTION!….

      OWww!
      give that man a drink DJ!
      erguotou and angostura bitters neat cummin right up!

      • jeffli

        as TOM JONES once said…… “I think I better dance now!”
        Linette?
        Eattot?
        Holly1?
        Fauna?
        yo know w”m sayin’ [boyish smile swayin side to side with a minority colada for you…. ]

        doof dadoof dududu doof…..

        • Stimpy

          You are odd.

  • eattot

    this sticking out chicken lips is so cute….
    parents should just kick her ass so that she can understand sth…
    when i was a kid,really dared not to tell parents the school needed to pay again…i remember once school needed everyone handover 80,80 for a kid meant so much,i never told my parents.everytime teacher asked me to stand up i was so ashamed.but i did not tell my parents.because i knew this 80 not for books,school would return it back.

    • jeffli

      …chicken lips?
      today I learn something

      thank you Ms. Eattot,
      may you live long and prosper!

      • Dr Dust Cell

        also called “duckface” in japan

        • Kukuku

          That’s what I thought. It’s like the Senkaku , everyone in the world except the Chinese use the correct word/name.

      • Winter B4 Spring

        Vulcans of Star Trek greets “may you live long and prosper” when parting ways.

  • Wei Gao

    Lol our new generation. If you can’t afford it tell someone to buy it for you!

  • Jeff

    Let her be like all the other university girls – make some money by laying on her back…

    • Jeff Providing the condoms don’t burst from servicing well-hung professors or expatriates within camel-toe which has not yet given birth.

  • Jay K.

    1. this girl probably came from either A) Beijing B) Shanghai C) her parents spoiled her rotten growing up(sometimes like my wife and how her parents raised her)

    2. definitely post 90s generation chic

    3. If this was my kid I would have made a sense in fron of everyone, not by cring at a corner but doing a Manny Pacqiuao 3 slap combo followed with a shove on the side of the head. Don’t think I’d do it? My old man was conservative in up bringing and i love him for making me a better person today and that involved more than slaps to the face; I got the belt and belt buckle at times for being a dumbass at times.

    4. Get a job, and don’t take the easy route of prostituting, being a 小三, or selling your organs. seriously work your ass off to get some job and go buy it. then you’ll truly feel the value of such a product.

    5. if the parents don’t want to properly up bring their kid, just give me a small portion of that money and in 30 days I’ll have your kid behaving properly or your money back (physical beatings are included in with this payment if they challenge my authority!)

    • YaoGalau

      I suppose that kid wouldn’t back in one piece then..
      As a person’s character is unlikely change in only one month, especially the one who have reached college age.
      Well, maybe out of scared, he/she would pretend to obey you but when they return, Bum!, he/she would soon back to his/her old self.
      Kids nowadays are expert on acting though.

  • YaoGalau

    If I am her mother (fortunately not), I would be the one who really losing face here.
    Perhaps I would be asking myself over and over, “What bad deed I’ve been done to have such a nasty daughter”
    Ugh!

    • jeffli

      the young girl may be the result of a drunken ***k?
      Or…is that a lil’ too harsh? do you think pet?

      • YaoGalau

        Likely that’s what happened,haha!

        • jeffli

          Your bloods worth bottling sweetie.

          • YaoGalau

            Thanks Jeffli;)

  • Alain

    Just can not and will not comprehend the chinese penchant for anything apple.

    Haven’t these people heard of open source?

    • Thor

      They think open source doesn’t give them any “face”.

  • Cleo

    South Park already did it with the Humancent-I-Pad episode and you can watch it for free from the creators’ website:

    http://www.southparkstudios.com/full-episodes/s15e01-humancentipad

    and that is why Cantonese Scarlet Chen says “please don’t poo in my mouth” on the latest webisode of “K-town”

    • linette

      hahah..Cleo, this southpark episode is so funny. The kid got upset cause he doesn’t have an ipad at the playground. so funny.

  • mark

    just to let jeffli LOOSE his sofa……
    And, i have seen this in the western countries as well.
    spoil the kid, and reap your rewards

  • Getrealson

    Why cry you CUNT? you layed and hatched the fucking thing now you deal with it!

    • 404namenotfound

      ^ THis

  • leo

    this is sad, I myself have all 3 pieces… but I didn’t buy it for “face”… but i am hong konger that lives in USA so maybe that’s why.. haha

  • Christina

    :( so sad.

    In a way the girl is going to suffer the most because she bases her self worth on the products she has.

    Pity.

    • Ellen Fapper

      contact please…

  • danylgan

    Apple products a just some overated piece of junks.stop buying them.
    never own an apple and never will.

    • Thor

      And that’s why you’re writing bullshit. Don’t speak about what you don’t know. At home I have an iMac and there’s no way I will replace it with any PC (piece of cheat ?). Whether it’s software or hardware-wise, a Mac is better than anything else, face it and I have been knowing both for decades.

    • Cooljackal

      Some of the products are overpriced for what you get. But some are surprisingly similar in price when you compare the overall hardware and actual usability on os x/ios.

      I have a macbook that I use as a personal computer, mostly for web and photoshop etc. In addition, I have an HP dual processor workstation and a lenovo thinkpad for everything else. If anyone has done serious Excel work, they know it’s much harder to do on OSX. If you do anything in embedded electronics you can also forget about using a mac. The same goes for CAE. There are packages available for macs but they aren’t used in the industry and the ones people use aren’t available. Use China sourcing websites? Forget using a mac, they only offer windows programs. Do government accounting or document submissions? Sorry no macs. In short if you do business in China, you need something other than a mac for a lot of stuff.

      So, as a personal computer it’s awesome. Other than that, there are a lot of industries where you just can’t use it.

      • Cooljackal

        I should also note that you can run windows on a mac by using a virtual machine or bootcamp. But in real world usability and workflow, it doesn’t work for a lot of things. The underlying hardware is still good though.

  • Dan

    *sigh* Applefags.

  • ChineseFighter

    yea this has becoming a real problem. My relatives keep asking me to buy iphones for them from overseas.

    • C

      It’s like that for all designer goods. My friend from Europe came and bought a lot of designer goods cause it’s cheaper in the US. China loves any designer brand – my mom once bought a Coach purse for my cousin and she was so happy, she fell asleep clutching it

  • k

    Why is this a story? Young teens every where want nice, expensive things to fit in with other people or to look cool…..its really a lesson in life these kids need, that if u want something you have to work to earn it which hopefully their parents are smart enough to let them experience unsheltered reality in the real world.

    • Tony

      Yes, that’s correct. But my interpretation of this article deals the blatant worship of Apple products by this new greedy generation of Chinese youth. In some of my classes where most students were international Chinese students(I’m ABC), every last single one of them will have Apple products in their hands. I reckon this is the newest fad sweeping China and this article only attests to its impact of a new materialistic and fucked up society.

    • Tony The power of Apple has been the vision of Steve as he saw what a screw-up of touch-screen interfaces Microsoft bollocksed together. Then Steve passed on. Steve Jobs represented individualism at its very best as he was fucking good. I think the citizens of the PRC hold him in high esteem; that’s why they like his devices. Plus Steve was a free-thinker verging on Buddhism. I see nothing unlikeable. Cheers Tony! Have a good day dude.

      • Nanny Hiccups

        steve jobs was a douchebag who refused to have anything with his own daughter, paying only 350 dollars a month in child support even when he became a millionaire. a cheapskate deadbeat father who left a woman when she was pregnant with his child.

        • markx

          Cmon Nanny, don’t be so bitter …. you must have had some good times with Steve?

          …. oh, wasn’t you? Sorry!

          • Nanny Hiccups

            lol

            p.s. he’s still a douche.

    • tai wai

      I agree, non-story. This is typical of spoiled brats everywhere.

      I read “if you don’t buy me these, just go ahead and let me lose face in college” as “Moooooom! If you don’t buy me these, the other kids will make fun of meeeeeee!”

      • C

        The prevalence of Macbooks are pretty dominant in the US too. It’s a mark of luxury. I remember when the iPod first came out, people were conspicuously sporting the white earbuds. Difference is, US kids usually want it for the high battery power or lack of viruses while CHinese kids are still in a 2nd world country and feel the need to prove they are current which results in Apple worship. They want to prove they can afford Macs just like Americans can

        • tai wai

          They want to prove they can afford Macs just like Americans can

          Yeah, I get how they feel. I was a poor kid growing up in the richest county in the US. I cared too much about acquiring brand names in high school, too.

        • matt

          PC manufacturers are getting what they deserve in China. High prices for outdated components and tons of crapware is the norm. After sale service is completely hit or miss.

          Part (but not all) of Apple’s success in China is their decision not to crap all over Chinese consumers.

          • Thor

            Yes, that’s why Steve Jobs said “We don’t ship junk”. Its is true.

    • Sea_Horse_Mirror

      Agreed. Lived all of my young childhood outside of China.

      So many people in highschool I would have loved to deck in the face. The macbook I’m typing on from I bought after doing manual labour, my iPod ironically was a hand-me-down from a spoiled cousin. So (un)fortunately everyone sees me and thinks I’m rich.

  • Dr Dust Cell

    Glorious sheeple macfag teenager whore, I would have expected nothing less.

    • BigJ

      You have got your C.P.U repaired man!!
      I can understand you again :)

  • lonetrey

    What the hell. Slap the shit out of that dumb bitch freshman. You use a shitty cell, it’ll suffice for anything you need in college. Short of playing games with friends on your iPhone or wikipedia-ing answers for a test DURING the test, I can’t think of anything else my friends used their iPhones for that I couldn’t do with my piece-of-shit Motorola Razor.

    Ipad or a Macbook. Choose only one, idiot. I’d say Macbook, so you can actually do your work on it. Ipad is a luxury item, this freshman can go fuck herself.

    • In order to manage the soft landing of economic growth, may I suggest she starts with MS Excel 2010. Knowing Microsoft Office may have been gay in 1997, but these days it is very masculine.

  • China is a pretty terrifying place. So many people walking around without faces. The majority of the population can’t afford three Apple brand items and so have no face. It’s gross. You can look right into their skull.

    • kw

      cool..

  • red scarf

    The mother should had replied fine, which kidney do you want selling, because your ***** ain’t worth selling.

  • Nanny Hiccups

    Strange. Are these apple products inexpensive in china? I don’t like the price so I will not buy them. I prefer Samsung and will not use any apple products.

    • Kukuku

      There is a price markup of 15-20% as well as dubious quality sometimes.

      • matt

        Price markup compared to where? I’m pretty sure it’s just a difference in taxes. And the components are the same. A macbook bought in China will have the same CPU from the same manufacturer as a macbook bought in the United States.

        • B-real

          Compared to the rest of the world. top dollar iphone $600 +tax, in China it ranges from $800- $1200 and its Gov regulated yuk. My Mac book pro top dollar $2800- $3200 in China last years model $3500- $4500 but it comes with windows already installed yuk. yes same guts but Apple products in CHina are considered luxury items they get a GOV mark up that is about 800- 2000 dollars over what they cost in America. That’s if you want up to date product line. Most of the apple stores don’t carry this year’s new hotness product lines until the rest of the world has gotten their fair exposure to and the GOV lax on the tax and tariffs imposed. Yes same shit but not Chinese brand when they can go out buy a piece shit Lenova or God Forbid a dell for way less.

          The Same goes for BMW, Mercedes, and every non CHinese brand that is considered luxury and foriegn. They get a fucking tax so the GOV gets their fair share despite the shit is fucking made in their turf and the money is getting distributed pretty good in their economy.

    • linette

      I love apple. I only use apple Iphone. No other phone please. Yes, I worship apple. I want an apple macbook but it’s so expensive like over us$1000. Here in the city in USA, all the Chinese students sit in starbucks online with their apple macbook. I still sit in starbuck after I graduated,but I won’t bring in my cheap laptop. hhahaha…:(
      The University students get discount on the apple macbook with student IDs. But it’s still very expensive.

      • jeffli

        I have an Mac Book Air! [gheeeeeeheeeheeee]

        • linette

          ………I have an Mac Book Air! [……….

          Good for you. I myself won’t spend so much money on that. It’s too much. I don’t expect any man to buy me something extravagant like this neither.

          • Thor

            Buy a second hand one, then. Thre’s little difference between this year’s Airs and last year’s ones (the same for MB Pros) ; as soon as Apple replaced the old C2D CPU with an i5 or i7 (and re-introduced the gorgeous retro-lit keyboard) it got fine.

    • vince

      ah actually apple is more expensive in china than it would be in say HK, most people here just buy it as a status symbol, some will even install windows instead of using OSX

      • heminator

        Yeah true that! I know heaps of idiots that get the latest macbook pro then only use windows and play online cards all day! idiots!

  • C

    It seems like a regular occurrence – poor/single parents work late and feel guilty so they spoil their kids with brand name goods. I remember a story of a mom who worked 3 jobs and turned to PROSTITUTION because her daughter demanded only high brand clothes. Their guilt made them weak in discipline and turned their kids into manipulative brats. Those kids end up feeling like they are entitled to stuff rich kids have, despite knowing their family’s financial struggles.

    • kw

      spot on there..

    • Nanny Hiccups

      those parents will have their turn when the kids grow up and have to provide for them.

      • Kukuku

        Except she is a girl and won’t have to take care of them.

        • red scarf

          It will just get transferred onto the her husband.

  • BigJ

    The one child policy does not help. I just brings up super spoiled, lazy, thinks their shit don’t stink fucking kids. I love seeing these 30 year old chinese still living with their parents because they don’t have fucking clue how to do anything. Can’t even boil water to make noodles.Yet they drive a BMW.
    And some advice for this girl….just suck dick for your apple stuff. 3/4 of chinese girls get this shit through sex anyways. Either prostitution or fucking a rich guy, which is just as bad as prostitution. You are still fucking and getting payment in return.
    If a girl asked me to eat her pussy and she would buy me an Iphone…I would have to think about it…. LOL

    • linette

      3/4 of chinese girls get this shit through sex anyways. Either prostitution………

      BigJ..why can’t you say anything without using racist comments? You are retarded.

      • Nanny Hiccups

        it’s a westerner thing. they specialize in slandering people they don’t like until the rest of the world, even people with no contact hates them.

      • BigJ

        You are not even pissed because of the chinese comment…..you are up set because I said something not-so-nice about some girls.:) And look who is offended by this……The only 2 girls on this site. :)

      • BigJ

        I was talking about girls like………….

        eattot
        Friday, August 24, 2012 at 10:32 am
        really?
        i like to use men as one meal ticket. and if do not take me out eat, i will throw shadow…do not buy me gift, i will change attitude.
        yes, i am this type of woman.

        Show of hands……
        Who thinks she would do a sexual favor for an Iphone?

        • Nanny Hiccups

          this is where men become stupid. she never said he would get anything in return…

          • BigJ

            Most men don’t do the “layaway” program.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            and most women won’t put out and expect him to buy the cow when he’s getting the milk for free… unless she’s stupid.

        • eattot

          haha. no worry, i am getting married very soon.
          i dislike men do not wanna please women, that’s it.then why i have to stay with a such selfish guy,let alond have kid for him.

          • BigJ

            eatot, do you have the “apple 3 piece” ?

          • eattot

            no, i do not have any, no interest in phone at all first.then i have one very tiny laptop one computer already.enough for my work…
            i am collecting money for sth big, not this type of thing.run some business then build a small villa for myself…that’s much cooler for me.

          • linette

            BigJ..most men that I know are very shallow too. They are only after one thing. What’s between our legs. So that is why they are willing to spend so much money. So don’t complain because you men are just as shallow. You don’t have to buy anything just like your girlfriend or wife don’t have to give you sex. You men should not make us women feel guilty all the time because we don’t want sex or want it once a week. When you buy flowers or some small gifts makes your gf or wife happy. They may reward you. That’s all.
            Takes two to tango.

          • Dr SUN

            and the one thing a lot of women are interested in with regard to men is what Linette ?

          • BigJ

            @Linette I agree men are way more shallow then women.

            “You men should not make us women feel guilty all the time because we don’t want sex or want it once a week. When you buy flowers or some small gifts makes your gf or wife happy. They may reward you. That’s all.”

            So what you’re telling me is that I will be paying for sex one way or the other the rest of my life. And with a girlfriend or a wife it’s a gamble if im going to get laid or not?

          • linette

            BigJ you poor little boy. You are like what? 16 or 17. how old are you? Yes, you will be paying for sex one way or another from your gf or wife. hahaha……okay okay…Maybe not. I don’t know.

            BigJ, you should just date ugly women. Give them a chance. There are a lot of single women out there kind of ugly but they are sooo nice. They will do anything for their men and friends. They are the ones you men should look for as wife or girlfriend. Don’t go for pretty girls. Not safe. You might get your heart broken. :(

          • linette

            Dr SUN..most women are interested in financial security when it comes to marriage. Like a mama bird wants a nest from a papa bird before she lays her eggs..lol.hahaha……

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Bingo. A woman’s primary concerns are comfort and security. Not saying she has to get it from a man, especially when she can take care of herself in modern times.

            But why would I want to go hang out with a dude whose apartment or house looks like crap? I’d want to go hang out at the crib that has soft leather furniture, wide screen tvs, large kitchens, bathrooms and really nice beds.

            Would I make an exception for a guy I liked? Maybe. But he’d have to be pretty freakin awesome to get me to hang out with him in some small, dark one bedroom apartment with a cot for a bed and no decent appliances or other amenities. especially when I can afford nice amenities for my own place.

          • BigJ

            Nanny.
            “But why would I want to go hang out with a dude whose apartment or house looks like crap? I’d want to go hang out at the crib that has soft leather furniture, wide screen tvs, large kitchens, bathrooms and really nice beds.”
            Why would a guy with all this shit have some ugly ass girls hanging out with him?

          • Nanny Hiccups

            BigJ, I wouldn’t know considering, I don’t have that problem :o) At least where I come from!

          • The Enlightened One

            So what I am hearing is that a man must have money in order to get and keep your attention…

            Let’s try this scenario:

            Very handsome, very muscular and great personality but has no money, changes jobs frequently and doesn’t own anything except some crappy furniture in a broken down apartment.

            or

            Very rich guy, fat, balding and has the personality of a goat. He has powerful friends a nice house and car. Owns tons of nice thing.

            So which is it?

          • linette

            The Enlightened One
            So what I am hearing is that a man must have money in order to get and keep your attention…

            Let’s try this scenario:………….

            Nobody. I will stay single. lol…

            This is exactly the problem we have in most cities. Better to stay single and use a vibrator with your girlfriend. lol……

          • tai wai

            So what I am hearing is that a man must have money in order to get and keep your attention

            I feel kinda sad for women that put the accumulation of stuff (in the name of security) ahead of feelings. Sure, it’s pragmatic: You can’t trust love, but you can trust a house and a car, right?

            But, really, it just says that they are sad, lonely people, and they’ll still be sad, lonely, loveless old farts all their lives.

            Consume more than you need
            This is the dream
            Make you pauper
            Or make you queen
            I won’t die lonely
            I’ll have it all prearranged
            A grave that’s deep and wide enough
            For me and all my mountains o’ things

          • red scarf

            OH who says money can’t buy you love, when all a women wants is financial security…..

            Men lie and women wear makeup…..

          • jeffli

            +++But why would I want to go hang out with a dude whose apartment or house looks like crap?+++

            love?

          • linette

            ………..So what I am hearing is that a man must have money in order to get and keep your attention
            feel kinda sad for women that put the accumulation of stuff (in the name of security) ahead of feelings. Sure, it’s …….

            I am saying if a man wants a family, a wife and children he must be able to provide for his family. He shouldn’t expect his wife to provide for herself and her kids.

          • BigJ

            Linette…
            Whatever happened to 50/50?
            I’ve been blessed with many things in this life, Money like a chinese government official, a cock like a burmese python and the mind of a fucking scientist….they say BigJ is a woman hater. thats not true. i love all women. every fucking one of them, even the ugly as shit ones….but dont ask me to trust them, not even nuns. because every pair of tits comes with a gaping hole of “need” that even I cant fill….

          • linette

            Whatever happened to 50/50?……

            50/50 is fine. I don’t mind. 50/50 in a marriage raising kid means I will put my career first because I am require to pay half of the bills. I don’t mind. I will work full time and the kid will be raised by a nanny and not me. I am not home to take care of my son or my daughter. I am out working all the time.

            In the major cities, most kids are raised in the daycare or nanny. The career women work just as long hours as their husband.

      • tai wai

        3/4 of chinese girls get this shit through sex anyways. Either prostitution………

        Woah. That’s a … bold statement.

        Well, maybe that’s why she’d “lose face” in college. If mommy can’t buy them, she’ll have to whore herself?

        • Capt. WED

          whatever. a big boss like that will EASILY find some gold digger. Get back in fucking line. LOL. You guys are all supposing what some handsome “poor” guy vs. some ugly rich guy. FUCK U dude LOL.

          Reality: Handsome poor guy (but assume he has awesome personality) is at the bar / club swiming in pussy.
          Rich big boss has 1, 2 , 3, 4, 5, 6 mistress.
          Regular guy: MARRIED.
          Gays: At the GAY CLUB.
          Nerds: PLAYING WoW and getting occasional nerd pussy at nerdcon.
          Other dweebs: at the strip club.

          Reality MOTHERFUCKERS!

          • Capt. WED

            oh we’re talking about China. Still the same thing.

            Those who have pussy have it.
            Those who don’t…don’t.

            The End.

            Fuck your rich/handsome guy bullshit. REALITY

          • The Enlightened One

            Well good,

            Because I have fucking both!

            Muahahahahaha! So, fuck you!

          • Dr SUN

            ” Reality: Handsome poor guy (but assume he has awesome personality) is at the bar / club swiming in pussy.”

            Really ?

            And this bar is located some where between “Dreams” and “fantasy” on wishful thinking street.

        • BigJ

          That is how it all begins…….

          • Yesway

            @The Englightened one:

            Definitely the first one. I can fix his furniture, could you?

  • Duke

    being a good parent is not about what you do for your children. it’s what you teach them to do for themselves that will make them successful.

    • Dr SUN

      +1 Duke

    • The Enlightened One

      Yeah that’s the whole:

      Give a man a fish, he turns into a selfish-bastard that wants more. Teach a man to fish, and gets his own damn fish.

      Yeah I changed it a little.

      • tai wai

        Actually, it usually seems more to be “teach a man to fish, and he’ll put down on those that still can’t. At most, he’ll employ them in his fish processing plant, and pay them pennies.”

  • Misiooo

    I guess after passing Gaokao and wasting most of her precious life in hellish yet completely worthless environment called Chinese Education System, she deserves a few useless pieces of bling-bling crap called i-something. Mother in tears? Tears are cheap!

    • M

      So DARK and EDGY… careful you might just cut someone with that comment. Funny how we don’t even know how well this kid did in school, what school she go into and how much pressure her parents put on her to study. Something tells me she was a spoiled brat long before and didn’t experience ‘suffering’ from pressure put on her in her studies.

  • BigJ

    Chinese men….now you have a new marriage requirement…”The Apple 3 Peice”….I’m truly sorry about that guys. I think Chinese guys have it the worst when it comes to marriage.It’s supply and demand. The girls can up the price at anytime because they are in demand.So the men have to work harder for them. In Canada, girls outnumber boys. So just and Ipad will do. No need to buy anything else.

    • kw

      agree with you..

    • Kukuku

      Never had to buy anything for my Chinese girlfriends… oh wait…. nvm. My white body is good enough! :)

      • linette

        Never had to buy anything for my Chinese girlfriends… oh wait…. nvm. My white body is good enough! :)

        You crazy..

        • Linette… Kukuku is neither interesting enough to choose simple “thank-you” gifts for probably receiving unprotected sexual intercourse all day. Nor humble enough to realise that generosity and a great tan, as male characteristics, are required for long-term success on Australia’s Gold Coast. Just sayin’.

      • eattot

        really?
        i like to use men as one meal ticket. and if do not take me out eat, i will throw shadow…do not buy me gift, i will change attitude.
        yes, i am this type of woman.

        • Kukuku

          Well now we know why you make more than 50 yuan a day. Good for you. Just keep in mind that while, as a man, my value increases as I grow older, as a Chinese woman yours declines and you’ll have to ask for less money for your “services” .

          • eattot

            o, in ur mind,women can not make money?all have to live upon men???i have job and planning run some business…ur such a small dick.

        • Nanny Hiccups

          good for you eattot, get it while you can~! I say, these leering men want to sit and oogle young women they should pay for the privilege and for taking up time.

          every car i have ever owned a man bought for me. i’ll tell him my problems, how my current car, which isn’t even old is about to break down, and how badly i need a new one. if he is not responding to my hints, i become distant, taking fewer phone calls until he eventually offers to buy another one.

          of course they expect something in return but i usually break up with him first. i am saving myself for a handsome guy with no money. i’ll let the ones i don’t like spend their money to get nothing in return.

          • hess

            You’re a whore.

          • BigJ

            Show me the man that bought you a car without having sex with him. Please show me. LOL

          • Kukuku

            @hess: I don’t think she could be a prostitute. She is a liar.

            Who would pay for a black whore? lol!

          • Nanny Hiccups

            they’re usually much older guys, and lonely. i can smell the desperation leaking off of them. this is how it goes.

            I usually keep three boyfriends at a time (Or guys who are not really my boyfriends but think they are). I give them each a day of the week to spend together with me. For example, I have a boyfriend whose name is Frank, he is 56 years old, spoils me with whatever I want. We meet on tuesday every week. He takes me shopping, we go out to eat, and spend time together like lovers (He’s slightly impotent), then I won’t see him again until next tuesday. N o worries about sex, he can’t get it up anyway and hasn’t been able to in years.

            If he have no money I tell him to call me in a week. Hes not complaining, he likes me.

          • mr. wiener

            Whilst I think this rates as one of NH brainfart posts, Kukuku, do we have to bring race into this?

          • linette

            Kukuku..why you always talk like a KKK?

          • Nanny Hiccups

            @weiner, i couldnt’ remember why i never usually respond to his posts (too many people on this site to keep up with who is who), he just reminded me, he was the racist. glad he said that, now i can remember to ignore him infinity!

          • Dr SUN

            WOW!! nanny, Linette and eatott are all ernai / baopo 包婆, cool to know

          • Kukuku

            @mr.weiner: Of course we don’t have to, but it is lulzier that way. It’s also true that black whores are a lot less in demand, especially in China.

          • linette

            Dr SUN

            WOW!! nanny, Linette and eatott are all ernai / baopo 包婆, cool to know….

            I am not a baopo or whatever you are saying. I am just telling you what most men want and what most women want. I myself am very capable and do not need man to support me. I don’t have to get married at all if I couldn’t find a decent man. A lot of women stay single and still able to adopt kid and capable themselves financially.

          • FRANK

            Nanny!

            I thought ….. that you LOVED me ….. !

            What are you talking about? Is this REALLY how you feel? I’m heartbroken, all my dreams have been dashed …. I’m being USED!

            Your one TRUE love, FRANK

            PS
            Hey, still on for next Tues? Still OK with extra cash for anal?

          • tai wai

            You’re a whore.

            Second.

          • BigJ

            @tai wai

            “You’re a whore.

            Second.”

            I want to agree…… but sounds more like cock tease.She has whorish traits…..but I think a cock tease.
            High five Nanny!! :)
            I defended your honor.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            bigj i’ll give you a low five, for defending my honor but calling me a cocktease >:O(

            I’ve been celebate since the late 90s. Making out is fine, but the thought of some man actually going there is a little scary. i’ll be like “sister feng” and just wait for mr right.

        • hess

          I thought only average looking people and above could pull that off

          • Nanny Hiccups

            wrong again fat boy.

          • hess

            Yes, i’m extremely obese. Or maybe I’m just an average Swede? Who knows, who knows..

          • linette

            Why are we all so shallow????

            Why men are so shallow? Men want beautiful women. Being beautiful besides having the good genes also require a lot of work. You need to maintain your beauty and dress nice. Why can’t we just eat like a pig and get fat? Why can’t men just marry to fat ugly old women instead of young beautiful women? As long as they have good personality, that’s all it should matter.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            indeedly, linette. There is a double-standard. You see these guys on here calling these women ugly here and there.

            If I have to be attractive then he has to be rich. Equal trade. If a woman has to be young, then he has to be rich. Equal trade.

            Men will give anything to have a pretty young thing on his arm. Rather than a woman with a good heart. So we should all be shallow. That is the great equalizer.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            oh hess, you are funny. Not! :o)

            Do you realize, marriage is just a financial contract between two people, nothing more? Okay, some people have a crush on each other, but the marriage license, the vows, is all saying, hey, we agree to split everything down the middle until we start hating each other.

          • Kukuku

            @linette: Fat women don’t have good personalities. An eating disorder shows you have other problems.

          • linette

            It takes work to stay beautiful. Too much effort and money needed to buy victoria secret outfits and cosmetic to have nice skin. Women use so much money and energy to make themselves look nice. So much effort. Why can’t women just dress ugly and eat whatever they what and be like 160 pounds. Men do that. :(
            Why women are constantly being judged by their look instead of their personality? So much competition.

          • Kukuku

            @linette: I go to the gym 5 days a week and spend on average 1000-2000 kwai on food and supplements especially to build up my physique the way I want it to be.

            I don’t do it for others though, I do it for myself. Period. Unlike Nanally, you sound reasonable so let me give you a piece of advice: work on yourself and make yourself as beautiful as you can – for yourself . The rest will follow.

          • mooody

            it’s stupid really and shows how lazy you are.
            No ! a woman does not need cosmetics and designer clothes to look Beautifull/Charming/Sexy … whatever result a woman want to achieve.

            My wife does Yoga at home 3 times a week and run cardio once a week.
            Hydrating cream , a night cream from time to time and some perfume
            it s all i ever saw her using, she is 31 and stunning
            confidence, allure, good taste, those things you don t need to pay for.
            but it requires harder work and determination than shopping all week and painting your face with a paint gun.

            Lazy will remain lazy.

            And no i do not agree.
            Men should not have to pay for the shits women can t afford.
            Hell if i can t buy myself something, i don’t, and that s it.
            Whoring yourself out only make you a whore, sorry to put a label on it, but in my book, that attitude is no better than a street walking whore.

          • tai wai

            Why can’t women just dress ugly and eat whatever they what and be like 160 pounds.

            My wife could, I wouldn’t care. She’s still the love of my life.

            Heeey, isn’t there some “truth” about how foreigners often pick “ugly” Chinese girls? Does that mean we’re less shallow?

          • tai wai

            If a woman has to be young, then he has to be rich. Equal trade.

            So, I guess the game is to take as much of his wealth before she’s “too old?” How boring.

            Men will give anything to have a pretty young thing on his arm.

            Who hurt you?

          • eattot

            mooody:
            you say so much good of your wife,we do not have her photo so we do not know her level in mate market…sorry.
            and,gf is not wife ,u should understand.if you never ever pleased your wife even before marriage,i’d say it’s sad for her.
            most rich women still marry richer men.women are women,always.a dinner is not expensive,a bunch of flowers also cheap,a bottle of perfume does not cost much…but if a woman always has to buy flowers for herself,one day when she wakes up,maybe it’s too late for u already.
            be careful….stop bullshit online.

          • linette

            mooody
            I don’t know about China. But I can say in most major cities where women are financially independent don’t require men to buy things for them. I don’t need men to buy me anything.
            But in order for me to settle down and have kid with a man, he needs to be able to provide for me and my kid the same way I can provide financially for myself and kid. I want a man who’s my equal, not below. I don’t want to move from a middle class neighborhood to a poverty class neighborhood just because I want to raise kid and my husband can’t provide. He needs to be my equal.

          • jin

            that is soo wrong, even though im not ugly, i only earn about 4-6k euro a month after taking off the tax and stuff, my gf is a beautiful girl and she earns 7k a month as a financial manager. but we still love eachother not by how much money we have or whatsoever. what you girls are doing here is lowering yourself into gold diggers, into sluts that date older men for money.

          • David.is.Dawei

            Hi Jin,

            6000 Euros/month (after taxes) is approximately $90K/year. I don’t know where you live or what you do, but that is an excellent salary and is more than most make.

            If you and your girlfriend live together and set aside 50% of what you bring home, you’ll compile a very nice nest egg.

            Cheers,
            Dave

          • jin

            well i have 2 shops, and the money i earn is different each month, depending on the month. it could been more… if i didnt have to pay 58% tax on my incomes…

    • Nanny Hiccups

      Oh please. like women in the west aren’t gold-diggers. these women at least, ask for very little, just a few comforts.

      • Kukuku

        Lol Nunny, a few comforts?

        A good worker here will make 50 yuan a day, maybe a bit more sometimes (talking averages). That 3 piece set is, at least, 20,000 rmb.

        Little comfort my ass.

        Why don’t you come here and see reality for yourself?

        • eattot

          what?
          a good worker will make 50 per day?
          i am doing nothing everyday still get much more than 50…

          • Kukuku

            You mean your husband?

          • DRaYphLy

            Eattot,
            how much more?

          • tai wai

            Figure 3000 per month for a white collar worker. If all you wanted were iStuff, a cheap car, an a house, potential hubby can marry you in 18 years. If he doesn’t spend any money on himself, ever, to live, of course.

            icrap 20000
            car 150000
            house 500000
            670000

            divide 3000 223.3333333
            divide 12 18.61111111

            The reality is “I want a husband from a rich family.” It doesn’t matter if he is smart, or hard working enough to make a fen.

          • eattot

            taiwai:
            u make 3000/month so u think everyone makes 3000,fuck off!

          • Dr SUN

            OUCH !!

          • BigJ

            “taiwai:
            u make 3000/month so u think everyone makes 3000,fuck off!”
            That’s cold blooded eattot.

          • linette

            tai wai, I am just very curious. You folks live in China right? How much is a condo with like 1600 sq ft cost in places like Shanghai or Beijing? It can’t be more expensive than HK or NYC. no? Don’t people go to the bank and borrow money like they do mortgage? Why can’t average people afford housing in shanghai if both wife and husband have white collar jobs and take out loan from mortgage bank? I am just curious because you men make it sounds like it’s impossible in China.

          • Dr SUN

            Linette an 1600 sqft apt first tier city around 2- 2.5 million YMB, which unfortunately is more than most will earn in their life.

          • linette

            Dr SUN.. What is 2.5 million? 2.5 million would be 2,500,000 YMB.
            That’s like Us$400,000. That’s around the same price like NY and HK but it’s lower range price though,nothing fancy.
            You can take out mortgage no. And pay monthly. I don’t really understand the realty system in China. Why they make it sounds like impossible to buy any property. Nobody has 2.5million. They all take out a mortgage loan and pay back like 30 yrs in USA and HK.

          • David.is.Dawei

            Hi Linette,

            I looked at property in Beijing last year. There are properties on par with what you would pay in New York or Hong Kong.

            The quality of the (new) construction I was shown was extremely poor compared to US building standards. I was checking off all the things I would have to add or change.

            I decided I would not BUY a property, after what I saw, unless it was something I built or “controlled”. I changed my search to stand alone homes (or duplexes), which were much harder to find. I figured I would have much more control over the design and construction of that structure; instead of buying a unit in a larger building.

            I was looking in the $300,000 -400,000 US range, but I thought the property was very much Overpriced. People must be buying for speculative reasons only; not sure how they continue to pay those prices for what was on the market.

            Dave

          • linette

            David.is.Dawei

            But does China have mortgage loan system? Like the buyer just go to the bank to borrow money to buy and they just pay back monthly? They should.

            Us$400,000 is really low end property in HK and NYC. Most are higher. In NYC, with this price range you can only buy coop. They are called co-op and not Condo. Condo is so expensive at a much higher price. HK is so extremely expensive also.

            http://www.klaramadlin.com/howtobuysell/condoorcoop.asp

          • Dr SUN

            Linnete it’s pretty hard to get a mortgage on money you will never earn in your life.

          • David.is.Dawei

            Hi Linette,

            To answer your question: yes, they have mortgages in China(similar to what we have in the US), but the folks I know who have a mortgage in China had to put down a significant deposit. Their mortgage is similar to how it used to be in the US before the banks loosened their standards.

            The USA got into trouble because people were allowed to buy homes with next to nothing down. If people had to continue to put down minimum 20% on a home, then you would not have seen the rapid appreciation in the US housing market. My realtor would tell me you need to jump on this now. They are asking $400K, but you want to offer $420K. When things got that ridiculous, I walked away – I was competing against IDIOTS who were using 80/20 loans to buy a home. The “bankers” were giving loans they would have never granted before.

            I don’t see how prices can continue to rise so drastically in China – I would say that will be a major issue in China very soon because of the pressure Chinese put on each other to own property – some folks claim the crisis will be much worse in China than it was/is in the USA.

            I liken these “housing bubbles” to musical chairs. Everything is great while the music is playing. Then when the music stops, people are left standing out in the cold. Unfortunately, the average guy finds out too late and is usually the one left standing.

            I tell all of my friends in China, renting is a safer bet right now. Do NOT buy property, but continue to save up your cash and after the market tanks, you will find a really nice place to live at a fraction of what they are asking today. I tell them to be PATIENT – They do not agree with me. They are stressed out because they think they are being left behind.

            The (Chinese) girl I had been dating couldn’t understand that logic. All she knew was that owning a home represented security (and it’s what everyone was saying was needed before marriage) and renting an apartment provided no security.

            That isn’t a dogma I follow. It makes zero sense to live like a sheep being led to slaughter. I tried to explain that renting an apartment would provide greater security right now.

            I could be wrong, but if the US couldn’t support such absurd housing prices, I don’t see how China can. I am not sure if things will fall apart the same way in China or not.

            If they do, The person with cash will be king – so eliminate your debt and save your cash and you will be in a strong position to make some favorable deals after prices drop.
            Cheers,
            Dave

          • Nanny Hiccups

            I’m confused about housing prices in china. For example, I only pay $925 USD for a three bedroom a month. This place is modestly large. Came with all the amenties, two bathrooms, brand new washing machine and dryer, dishwasher machine, , of course an oven (with a microwave built into it) and refrigerator, the newest kinds, various fancy light installations all over, a bar, patio, a personal storage facility in the basement, about the size of a bedroom. The place was just built, so I am the only person who has ever had this place and lived in it. Everything is new.

            I cannot live where I do not have a dishwasher because I loathe washing dishes. It is the worst chore. I even have a maid come once a month to dust and do extra stuff I am too busy to do. I cannot live without a washer and dryer because , who wants to go to a public laundry to have their clothes washed? There are things I would find it a burden to live without, those three things I just named being all of them.

            What does one get with these apartments in China? They sound so expensive, no wonder people are poor. Isn’t china supposed to be a communist society? Shouldn’t the price of housing be low, affordable, and available to all? Maybe i misunderstand communism fully. I thought it was give each man according to his need, all property is publically held, in a society of “equals”.

          • David.is.Dawei

            Hi Nanny,

            When I was looking at property in Beijing, I usually came across the following scenarios. I’m sure other options are probably possible or negotiable. My price point was not so high, so like anything, I suspect if I was willing to spend more money, the quality of the space would improve.

            #1 – New Construction I saw usually consisted of a completely unfinished space consisting of concrete walls and ceilings with plumbing and electrical “hanging” out for you to tie into when you finish the space. So when you buy this space, you have to add in the cost of however you choose to finish it. Add whatever amenities you want – although a lot of the spaces I inspected did not have adequate plumbing and electrical.

            #2 – You can get a place full furnished. I saw this with many rentals, but it is also possible when you buy.
            #2A – You can buy existing and have them haul their stuff away as well. I’m sure there are “high end” spaces available for sale, but I didn’t see any that impressed me. To be completely honest, I came to the conclusion during my search that I would want to do the work myself to make sure it was done right.

            I recall someone on Chinasmack, a few weeks ago, writing that apartments in China were “concrete caves” and I had to chuckle because that is how a lot of these spaces felt. Renting one on a temporary basis would be a lot easier to handle than owning one. But it all comes down to crunching the numbers (if I did not have to live there)

            Regarding your scenario ($925/month), I’d need to know more info, but if someone owned a home without a mortgage/debt, then $925/mo would easily cover the cost of ownership.

            In My opinion, mortgages and student loans are two of the biggest frauds going, but that is a discussion for another time.

            Cheers,
            Dave

          • David.is.Dawei

            Hello Nanny,

            When you buy property in China, they charge a one time tax on the purchase, but then there are no property taxes afterwards. I heard they are considering changing this, but I don’t believe anything has been done yet.

            You don’t own the property in China. It is a 70 year “lease”. No one in China has reached 70 years yet, so who knows what will happen when they reach that point. Will you have to buy it again, pay a fee to renew or have it sold to the highest bidder?

            As an American, we think we own our property because we can pass it onto whoever we want, but if you don’t pay your taxes, you will eventually lose the property to your government. This has been a problem for the elderly in the USA. The taxes get so high they can no longer afford to keep their home.

            I am not an expert on China and one reason why I find some of the people and discussions on these sites so interesting to read. The housing issue has become much more than being a place to live, it is making it clear to everyone there that China is a country of haves and have nots.

            I’ll end this by saying, this is probably how it always has been and always will be EVERYWHERE in the world. The US is facing its own crisis and we have allowed lobbyists, bankers and politicians to steal and then flaunt their greed and corruption, but our society has become too apathetic to do anything about it. Americans elect Obama because he says “Hope” and “Change” and expect some politician (who spent $500 million to get a job that pays $400k) to make their lives easier/better? Get off the couch people!

            Cheers,
            Dave

            On a side note – In my opinion, There’s nothing wrong with those people who take risks, work harder and smarter than everyone else making more money. I applaud their effort, drive and sacrifice. Isn’t that part of the “American Dream”? The USA, unfortunately, has too much dead weight, too many with useless skills and unrealistic levels of compensation/standard of living.

            But when people out there lie, steal, and cheat to intentionally hurt others for their own gain, this is where I think the French had it right. Dust off the guillotines and start chopping off heads.

          • jin

            wow thats cheap…. where are you from again? nanny.
            in my city for a 1300 ft² house with garden, you have to pay about 1000euro a month without the gas+eletricity+water+insurance. and its not even a big city….. in total i have to pay about 1500 euro a month for my house.

          • tai wai

            taiwai:
            u make 3000/month so u think everyone makes 3000,fuck off!

            For college graduates, the top three industries were the financial, real estate, and IT industries, and the highest average starting salary was 2,520 yuan a month.

            http://english.people.com.cn/90001/90776/90882/7389879.html

            Me? Looks I make as much as a CEO.

          • Capt. WED

            @ confusion at China’s housing price and China being communist

            China is no longer that communist anymore. As for housing it used be that everyone was provided public housing. The quality of housing depends on what you actually do. If you’re an engineer in an important sector, you had very good housing, not so much if you drove buses (I know cos when I was young I know a kid whose dad drove buses). Now days they just give you a lump sum of cash and tell you to fuck off to the suburbs into one of those new shitty apartment buildings they build all over. So yeah it’s still public housing, they just give you cash these days. I don’t really know how it is for other people but this is how it is for people I know.

            China also has social security. I don’t know when they started implementing this, but they have it now. It’s sort of like America now days.

            The best way to live in SH (but still licking the boots of the super rich) is to work for a multinational, get paid 300K USD, AND HAVE every fucking thing provided for you. EATTOT when you rich that level I will worshipp at your feet as a man whore. LOL.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Hi jin, I live in wisconsin. the capitol. (never really felt comfortable typing my city and state so openly).

            That price of 925 does not include electricity or phone. I don’t pay for water or gas because everything in the apartment is electric. When i rented a house about six years ago ( uploaded two pics to my gravatar page so you can see it), and it was huge with a very large deck and yard, it was just a bit more @ $1,050 USD but I had to pay for water, gas, electric as well. If you look at the pic, the one with the blow up pool shows the yard space in the front, and the other pic shows the back yard. Lots of space. Only 1025 a month. But Wisconsin is not an expensive place to live. That was a 3 bedroom three level house with a basement.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            David Daiwai, I have some thoughts on what you posted but it’s after midnight and my brain is fried so I’m going to re-read and reply to this in the morning. Interesting.

        • Nanny Hiccups

          we’re talking about a stinkin ipod, not a summer house in the hamptons.

          • Kukuku

            I’m sorry Nunally, we’re talking about an Ipad 3, an Iphone4s and an Imac – all of them also with the most expensive options.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            it’s all the same to me, a stupid apple product.

          • Kukuku

            Of course it’s all the same to you. You are an idiot and can’t see the difference.

            I heard you are a writer, somehow. I can picture you finger painting your “novels” on bathroom stalls walls with your shit.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            …that was beautifully poetic. I see you are a writer too!

          • Kukuku

            Yes, I’m writing a book just for you. Don’t worry though it has big pictures with a lot of colors in it.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            I totally heart pictures! ♥ So cute and dreamy! ♥

          • tai wai

            It’s a month’s (white collar salary), at 3000 RMB per month.

            The whole set is about 18k, or six months salary. Depending on the school, that might cost more than tuition.

            It’s much more than the “three month’s salary” people save for an engagement ring in the West. And that’s supposed to last forever.

      • vince

        Check the Chinasmack archives and your eyes will be opened as to what those ‘few comforts’ are, although it doesn’t apply to all women in China.

    • M

      Guess that’s why even some middle-class Chinese are now looking to countries with even worse conditions in Southeast Asia to find wives. There they can be the equivalent of successful business tycoons. People in Western countries suffer too – the family law system is ridiculously tipped in favour of women. Good luck paying alimony out the ass and even having your pre-nup nulled via challenge.

      • Nanny Hiccups

        whooo hooo! hooray for women! can’t wait to marry my very special sugar daddy, so i can live off of alimony every month when we get a divorce. if we have a child, i can sue him for a lot of money in child support. hope i can pop one out

        • Kukuku

          Are you simply crazy stupid or trolling?

          Not sure if serious.

          • Alex

            Both, just read a few more of her comments and you will realize it too.

          • The Enlightened One

            Of course she isn’t being serious… consciously…

        • Dr SUN

          you sound like my ex Nanny !!

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Dr. Sun, your ex sounds like a very nice woman. :o)

          • Dr SUN

            yeah, I thought so once……ok maybe twice

        • Neutronian

          you just went full retard.

        • markx

          You DO sound sweet, Nanny.

          Hmmmm – I seem to keep replying to NH’s posts.

          Is this a sign of obsession? Am I stalking? hmmm.

          Hey Nanny, maybe we should get together ….I’m 54 years old and on a big salary …but then, there is the wife (14 years younger) the ex wife, the 5 kids (oldest 23, youngest two months) … not to mention the girlfriends …. hmmmm, damn, I can’t afford ya!

          • Nanny Hiccups

            in the case of not being able to afford there is only one thing to do… get a second job! hehe :o)

          • BigJ

            Is this that guy you talking about Nanny?LOL
            Frank is that you?HAHAHAHAHAHA

          • Nanny Hiccups

            oh mock him all you want. but at least frank has tuesdays to look forward to. :o)

          • BigJ

            As long as he’s having a good time :)

          • Dr SUN

            LOL

          • Nanny Hiccups

            You are sly…

            But I suppose our definition of a good time are two very different things. So…

          • Dr SUN

            The mind boggles

          • sern

            LOL BigJ

        • fenqing basher

          Yeah… here we go, you just wait a few more years, noone will be interested in you anymore while your ex hubby (finally divorced from you) scoring in asia having the time of his live,. Jealous?

    • eattot

      really?
      i think pretty women and ugly women are definitly different in relationship market.
      sure, if you only can find ugly ones,you do not have do anything.

      • hess

        I’m guessing your fiance didn’t have to struggle then

      • Neutronian

        *definitely

      • vince

        Is everything you see rated according to face value? You just set women’s rights back a 100 years.

      • DRaYphLy

        Only pussy ass men in Shanghai praise pretty bitches… i ve seen pretty chicks get treated like dirt everywhere, except here in Shanghai. Even ugly bitches run the show here…. This place is bizzare

        • Jennster

          because shanghai is a feminine city. if i want to tell some guy what to do i will easily go get myself a fellow shanghainese dude, but i am not really attracted to them.

          Linette/NH:
          Regarding the question of how people in china afford property with such low income, most people in shanghai have one property which was allocated by government during my parents working age era. a lot of locals sold them due to huge price valuation over recent years and bought better one using the gain. most rich people (usually those wenzhou people) can afford several properties here and no mortgage at all all cash.

          my mum invested in a second property worth only $40000 AUD at the time and now around 200 million rmb (1500sqm) :D

          • Jennster

            also you might wonder how lots of young people at age of 23-5 here have property. most come from those given by their parents to their son for marriage purposes. lots of peoples parents have huge amounts of cash from savings (200k rmb) and transfer to children for mortgage or all cash payment purposes.

          • tai wai

            most come from those given by their parents to their son for marriage purposes.

            These girls must know this already…

            When they say they want a rich man, what it means is that they want a man with rich parents. This just further illustrates how little the man actually matters to them. Only the money matters.

            How boring.

          • Jennster

            nearly all chinese women in china want the ‘gao fu shuai’ standard of males meaning tall rich handsome but that amount is very rare. the most overt gold digging action is from the rural peasant chicks (who happen to look alright) who marry a ‘potential’ st8 away, and the 99% who had to settle for peasant man gets jealous of these. :D

          • linette

            Jennster, I heard shanghai women have a hard time finding husbands too. Just like HK women. There are not enough men around.
            I don’t blame those poor rural women. Blame the segregation system. The poor rural women have no chance to get higher education and become financially independent on their own. They can’t borrow student loan to attend university it’s too expensive. Or take out bank loan to open business. The only way for them to get out of hell hole is to rely on marrying men in big cities with properties. How sad. I don’t want to live in society like that. :(

    • The Enlightened One

      Shit, they would be super happy with just an iPad.

      In fact, they may think it is too overbearing of a gift unless it’s a wife or girl friend.

      Talk about a country screwing itself over royally… time to pay the price… what you though you wouldn’t have to after throwing all those infant girls into the ditch, while trying again for a boy?

      Probably, didn’t think about it at all… well it’s time to pay the piper!

  • Nanny Hiccups

    The french are fools who, will die for love!
    they delight in fighting duels…
    but i prefer a man, who lives, and GIVES expensive jewels!

    A kiss on the hand can be, quite continental, but diamonds are a girl’s best friend

    A kiss may be grand
    But it won’t pay the rental
    On your humble flat
    Or help you at the automat.

    Men grow cold
    As girls grow old,
    And we all lose our charms in the end.

    But square-cut or pear-shaped,
    These rocks don’t lose their shape.
    Diamonds are a girl’s best friend.

    Tiffany’s!
    Cartier!
    Black Starr!
    Frost Gorham!
    Talk to me Harry Winston.
    Tell me all about it!

    There may come a time
    When a lass needs a lawyer,
    But diamonds are a girl’s best friend.

    There may come a time
    When a hard-boiled employer
    Thinks you’re awful nice,
    But get that ice or else no dice.

    He’s your guy
    When stocks are high,
    But beware when they start to descend.

    It’s then that those louses
    Go back to their spouses.
    Diamonds are a girl’s best friend.

    I’ve heard of affairs
    That are strictly platonic,
    But diamonds are a girl’s best friend.

    And I think affairs
    That you must keep liaisonic
    Are better bets
    If little pets get big baguettes.

    Time rolls on,
    And youth is gone,
    And you can’t straighten up when you bend.

    But stiff back
    Or stiff knees,
    You stand straight at Tiffany’s.

    Diamonds! Diamonds!
    I don’t mean rhinestones!
    But diamonds (deep, pouty breath!) are a girl’s best… best… friend.

    • linette

      That’s a beautiful song from Marilyn Monroe. I still love her performance in Gentlemen prefers blondes. ;) I want to dye my hair blonde. I think it will match my dark brown eyes.

      MM norma jean was the perfect airhead blonde. So sexy.
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0elOjEMPNrY

      I don’t want diamond. Can I get a condo in HK? hahahaha…lol.

      • Nanny Hiccups

        with a nice enough diamond you can sell it and buy a condo. lol

        • linette

          yes yes yes….lol…

          • Nanny Hiccups

            truthfully, diamonds are pretty worthless if i look at them. but i do accept them lol as a gift. only so i can sell it later and buy what i want. i did that with the ring my ex-husband’s engagement gave me when we got a divorce. I pawned it, and spent the money on frivilous things. too bad he was still paying it off.

          • markx

            Interesting point Nanny, diamonds really ARE worthless.

            They are very, very common and would be quite cheap if it was not for De Beers cornering the market years ago by making themselves the authorized brokers and more recently with international miners agreeing to abide by the whole De Beers registration and certification process (mutually beneficial in that it continues to hugely inflate the value).

            The whole “blood diamond” story is more about keeping the diamond price artificially inflated than about helping anyone.

            My mother was in the jewelery business – a certified diamond bought from an importer/wholesaler would be be issued a valuation certificate often 100% or more higher than the wholesale price. (I’d bet the wholesaler likely paid only half what he sold it for too).

            (An interesting aside – she’d order and they’ve get sent in the mail sometimes $10,000 or $20,000 diamonds sent casually and in advance of payment).

            from wiki: Ernest Oppenheimer was appointed the local agent for the powerful London Syndicate, rising to the position of mayor of Kimberley within 10 years. He understood the core principle that underpinned De Beers success, stating in 1910 that:[15]
            “ Common sense tells us that the only way to increase the value of diamonds is to make them scarce, that is to reduce production.”

          • Nanny Hiccups

            I totally believe that markx. I would say because of that, I prefer almost any other stone than diamonds. rubies? Love that beautiful, vibrant, rich red color. I can see that on my finger, and may even buy one for myself as a Christmas gift.

        • markx

          I’m with ya there nanny, and the green of emeralds, the dark red of carnelian, the bright red (or green or purple or pink) of garnets, clear topaz, even black onyx …. all so nice…mmmm

          • Nanny Hiccups

            I would love something like a black onyx. I like exotic jewelry in general. In the U.S. people are just obsessed with diamonds. i have never seen anything except a diamond on someone. Not even a pearl. To me, it just makes the diamond seem less exotic.

          • DRaYphLy

            Diamond, Rubies, Pearls, Jemmeralds…are all the same. Tivial bullshit women wear to make them feel pretty and Men wear to get pussy from shallow bitches….

          • markx

            Yep, thats how it works Dray, pretty things for pretty things.

            Your problem is, being so bitter, twisted and abusive, that you wouldn’t have any fun even if you DID get some.

            Lighten up mate, and enjoy the wonders of this world.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            wow Markx, I think I like you. Well said. Have some fun. Get it in! While you can still get it up!

            So what if you he has to buy a girl something or pay something on the side. They both get what they want and nobody gets hurt or falls in love. It’s a win-win scenario. If you give me a choice between a man and a thing that makes me happy, I choose the thing. I can always find a man when I need one, and throw him away and get a new one when he becomes boring or poor.

      • Dr SUN

        well there you go boys, she’s yours for a condo.

        • linette

          Dr SUN….please, you can’t take a joke right?

        • Nanny Hiccups

          how much does it cost to buy you? what? a pair of tits bobbing in and out of your face?

          • markx

            Ha! Yeah, that’s all it takes for me …. I’ve always been able to resist ANYTHING …. except temptation….

          • jin

            well if a girl offers their body to “buy” a guy for a night, why not???

      • mr. wiener

        Marilyn Monroe was a “dum Blonde” with an IQ in excess of 130 apparently.

        • Nanny Hiccups

          indeedly. that’s what made her a genius.

        • linette

          MM was very intelligent. She didn’t become hollywood and world #1 for being a dumb blonde. Women love faking being dumb but they are smarter than you think.

          • Kukuku

            A missing keyword here being “some” .

        • BigJ

          What?? you think whores are not intelligent?? The smartest girls are the whores. It’s like that dire strait song” That ain’t workin, that’s the way you do it.money for nothing and your chicks for free” Just change the word”chicks” for “dicks”, and now it applies to females.

      • sern

        ” Can I get a condo in HK?”

        Just go to any Watson’s

    • sern

      And they are good for cutting masonry/stone as well

    • Capt. WED

      dddddddddddddddddddddddddeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

    • jin

      It’ll call you up
      Don’t give it your number
      Oops, too late
      You took your black marker

      Shut up slut, you love it
      Shut up slut, you love it
      Shut up slut, you love it

      (Shut up slut, you love it)

      Cause revenge ain’t gonna kill you, honey
      Revenge is just gonna give you shit
      And I told you because I found the reasons why you’re
      miserable
      And it’s not my fault

      Sorry sugar, you can’t fix this
      I’d stop now if I were you
      You screwed yourself
      Kiss kiss, bitch
      You’re the broken toy
      I’m your glue

      Shut up slut, you love it
      Shut up slut, you love it
      Shut up slut, you love it

      Cause revenge ain’t gonna kill you, honey
      [| From: http://www.elyrics.net/read/p/pretty-reckless-lyrics/sus-(shut-up-slut)-lyrics.html |]
      Revenge is just gonna give you shit
      And I told you because I found the reasons why you’re
      miserable
      And it’s not my fault

      Hate’s gonna hit on you
      Hate’s gonna hit on you
      Hate’s gonna hit on you
      Hate’s gonna hit on you
      Hate’s gonna hit on you
      Hate’s gonna hit on you
      Hate’s gonna hit on you
      Hate is gonna hit on you

      Cause revenge ain’t gonna kill you, honey
      Revenge is just gonna give you shit
      And I told you because I found the reasons why you’re
      miserable
      And it’s not my fault
      I told you because I found the reasons why you’re
      miserable
      And it’s not my fault

  • Neutronian

    Ahh.. The Apple 3 Piece Set, a sort of Deathly Hallows for the Chinese parents.

    next movie title:
    “Chinese Parents and the Deathly Hallows”

    • Dr SUN

      If the girl has any traditional values and any sense of filial piety, she would be lying on her back making the money herself not asking her parents for money.

  • the real thing

    i think this girl should be launched into the sea and fed to the sharks the spoilt little shit, i hope that with an attitude like this she fails miserably and ends up sweeping the streets of Beijing … mother you should kick her out of your house and let her fend for her self… BITCH

  • moop
    • Brett Hunan

      Wow, thats shitty

    • linette

      needle stick sucks. :(

    • El Puma R.

      the HIV virus can’t live for more than a minute outside a bloodstream. So either way it’s VERy unlikely to happen. In south america it was said that people could put needles with HIV in the seats of movie theaters. just pure crap, though you don’t lose anything is you double check.

  • Silence

    promotion advertisements need be a part of responsible for the girl’s and mother’s tragedy. these advertisements are so fatastic and fashionable and put an bad, abnormal values on the youngers mind, which force them to show off their belongs.

  • Nanny Hiccups

    Oh you are sly! Whatever …

  • Nanny Hiccups

    speaking of phones, samsung just won in court over apple today ha. The korean courts ruled in samsung’s favor.

    http://finance.yahoo.com/news/seoul-court-rules-apple-infringed-025543802.html

    http://finance.yahoo.com/news/court-bans-apple-samsung-products-skorea-031423679–finance.html

    The Seoul Central District Court ordered Apple to remove the iPhone 3GS, iPhone 4, iPad 1 and iPad 2 from shelves in South Korea, citing they infringed two of Samsung’s telecommunications patents. The court also ruled that Samsung infringed one of Apple’s patents related to the screen’s bouncing back ability and banned sales of the Galaxy S2 and other products in South Korea.

    Sales of devices recently released by Samsung and Apple — including the iPhone 4S and the Galaxy S3 smartphones — were not affected.

    The court also ordered the two parties to pay monetary compensation to each other. Samsung must pay Apple 25 million won ($22,000) while Apple must pay its rival 40 million won.

    • linette

      The korean courts ruled in samsung’s favor………….
      This pretty much don’t require you to read the story.

      • Nanny Hiccups

        I know, like totally a no brainer hehehehe. hell would have frozen over if the korean court ruled in favor of apple lol

  • vince

    @ Linette, Eattot and Nancy Hiccups I’m curious as to what you girls think a decent guy should be like? Is it a guy that is faithful, honest but unable to spoil you or would a sugar daddy of questionable morals be preferable? I hope you girls realize that a lot of women are fighting for rights to be considered equal to men, that means that they wish to be treated as equals as well.
    I’m sorry to have to say this but you girls shouldn’t act like God’s gift to mankind and that goes for the guys too, in any relationship there should be an equal contribution from both parties especially if both are capable of doing so.
    Let’s say if you put a guy in this position whereas he expects to be treated as you girls would then I would assume that he would be called a douche, so why a double standard?

    • wafflestomp

      Because they have a vagina. It’s a blessing these days with all the court settlements and legal issues.

      • vince

        That may be true, but it takes two to tango :P

        • kw

          something different for today..
          men vs women..

          anyway,it takes two to tango..
          but majority of men crave for it more than majority of women..
          i don’t think we are going to win arguments against the girls..
          i will leave it to you..

          • kw… Cravings…ahhh cravings. It does take love and knowledge of a fixed woman to plot when they’re at their horniest. IMHO when a woman is horny and in love, she can be hornier than a man. This is why some guys who can’t commit are quite bitter… Women as you say are complex but beautiful “must-have” devices, just like products from Apple or Samsung.

          • vince

            @richardnorth I would have to say you have a valid point there! ^^

          • kw

            yah,nice quote..
            i am not sure where did you pull that from..
            or maybe currently you are writing a book on sexuality..
            haha..anyway,nice one

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Richard that was very insightful lol and very true. I don’t want to waste any energy on the wrong person. I feel sorry for the man I finally really really like enough to get it on. He’ll never get any rest lol

      • Dr SUN

        lol, pussy power !!

        • markx

          Ya onto it there Doc:

          Truly the most powerful known force in the universe!

          • mr. wiener

            Seconded, the higgs-boson be damned. Pussy power is the dark matter holding the universe together.

          • linette

            ….Pussy power is the dark matter holding the universe together…..

            Mr.Wiener. hahaha..you are killing me. Have you thought about writing comedy skits?

    • linette

      The most important of course is faithfulness and reliable. Also most women want to marry equal or above, not below in terms of financially. Especially if she is thinking of reproduction. Women don’t want men that they have to financially support. I have seen a lot of men expecting working women like me to financially support them. I don’t mind but he must have his own goal and work hard toward his goal and achieve something useful. He can’t rely on me especially when I am going on maternal leave. He needs to be able to provide for himself, me and our child, at least at the same level I am able to provide for myself and my child while I was working.

      When a woman has a baby, she would like to stay home a bit and not worry about working full time. The man will have to provide for those years.
      If both of the parents are working, then they have to hire a nanny to raise the kid. It will be very hard on the poor kid not seeing her/his mom all the time. :(

      So yes, my definition of decent man, like many women, is a man who is my equal or above. Who loves me. He is faithful and reliable. I will do the same for him. He will be my one and only for life to raise our child together. We will grow old together and share. I will jump off titanic for him. hahaha…..lol.

      Do I make sense? You don’t agreed?

      • B*tches, Leave

        To be fair – I expect my lovely wife stay always pretty … by that I mean not get fat and lazy at house work. Like if you would leave your man once he loses his job, starts to drink and takes your money, I would cheat (but not leave) on my wife once she gets fat, unattractive, not cleaning the house, not taking care of me, disrespect me, etc. You dig, hon?

        • sern

          You reminded me of something a guy once said to me I (think he was Italian). Essentially, fat girls are for marrying & having children because they won’t cheat. You can then find a good looking girl for a gf.

      • Alex

        Why can´t the man take a paternity leave and/or stay with the kid after the mother has recovered from the birth?

        • Nanny Hiccups

          Alex, i don’t know why but in the USA a father can take paternity leave. If he’s with a great company, they won’t look at him differently.

          I do think children belong with their mommies. She is there to love the child and only the child. Fathers are only there to protect the family and pay for stuff.

      • vince

        @ Linette Yes that sounds reasonable, so I agree with you.
        @Alex well it’s a bit hard cause the child usually develops a closer bond with the mother than the father, trust me I know.

    • Nanny Hiccups

      @vince, to answer your question, what a decent guy would be like. I don’t really know. I’ve dated different guys.

      I dated the crazy guy (my ex husband who screamed and cried all the time)
      I dated a police officer (who beat me up when I was 18 years old, he was 26, actually, he beat everyone up)
      I dated the cute popular guy who used to be a party promotor. He was actually boring because all he thought about was parties and going out every minute of the day and socializing.
      I dated the older guys. Don’t know what they do for a living, and don’t care.

      I don’t know what a decent guy really is, they are all annoying. Maybe someone who doesn’t seem unstable (mentally, physically, professionally). Someone who is caring and intelligent, and self-sufficient. Someone with a sense of humor who makes me laugh or smile.

      Do you know this type? Nope. I don’t. Maybe he is the guy some girl already married. the only thing out there are stupid leftovers that nobody really wants.

      • vince

        hmmm now I can understand your view on men but nancy all I can say is that you’ve met the wrong men, but that doesn’t mean you should lose faith in all men, give it another go and you might find the right guy. Good luck.

  • DRaYphLy

    Can we get a CHina smack app… this shit is too good!!!!!

  • wafflestomp

    Materialistic bitches like Nanny should be avoided.

    Interesting how it’s women who demand all these apple products, and really it’s not surprising. Women only seek to use most men for materialistic and monetary value. As soon as an upgrade comes along, see ya boy!

    If you want love, a Chinese girl isn’t your best bet. Go find some nice euro/north american girl who will be content with a middle class lifestyle.

    • B*tches, Leave

      It’s sad, but true. Why would a Chinese girl go through all that trouble and marry a foreigner? Obviously because of his wealth. Some guys don’t realize it, because they think they’re not wealthy, but the average pay of a foreigner is way more than the average pay of a local. You all know it, when you see a foreigner is married to a Chinese girl, there’s no love there … never was. I don’t even want to mention the beautiful Chinese girls. They’re real sharks.
      I know it’s difficult for lots of guys, since there’s not much choices here, but please don’t lose control, don’t date Chinese girls. But if you’re already in a relationship and you think I’m talking shit, just google it. You’ll be amazed.

      • B*tches, Leave

        One of the many simple tricks to see how much your girl really cares for you:
        – In the morning tell her that you need a new shirt. You don’t have any good shirts.
        – In the afternoon give her money and tell her to go shopping, because you’ll be busy with work.
        – It’s a good sign when she comes back with clothes for you. It’s a so-so sign if she gets for herself loads of stuff and for you just something. It’s bad if you get nothing, because, you know, you’re rich and can buy it yourself.

        • GodsHammer

          Or you can just be a black guy and that is usually enough to void all the ‘i want a green card’ bitches as well as the lames. If a woman loves you she loves you for real, not because her mom thinks it’s a good idea. lol…

        • Nanny Hiccups

          I would buy him a hat for his bald head.

      • wafflestomp

        There are always exceptions to the rule, but it’s rare. Not just that, but everyone who is able to leave China is trying to leave China, it’s just the immigration process takes forever (5+ years for most countries). Marrying and moving is way better.

        Women marry and have kids young for their parents. They rarely if ever marry for love, and the chance they love someone who their family will accept is slim. So, just marry a foreigner and get the fuck out of here. Oh I’m a citizen now? Time to take you for everything in a divorce if you piss me off!

        • B*tches, Leave

          Well, yeah, plus the alimony for the kids, you know, but it’s everywhere like that.
          But why take half if you can take everything? Marry an old fart and wait (or ride him extra rough) until he bites it. When I see these couples on the streets here, all I think is “don’t look, don’t look, a gold digger with a knife and an old guy with a target mark on his head, don’t look”.

    • Dr SUN

      I don’t think its fair to call them “materialistic bitches” woman use what’s between their legs for their financial security.
      Most Asian women consider sex as “giving up something” (their meat) and they should get something back for doing so.
      I tend to look at it as being more honest. Ask any chinese girl what they are looking for in a husband and a sexual velocirapter isn’t on the list.
      House, car, financial stability and responsibility are.

      note ( love is not )

      why do you think Chinese wives are so happy that there are 10 million + prostitutes – because then they don’t have to do it anymore.

      • B*tches, Leave

        Pssht, it’s supposed to be a secret, man, GOD! >.<

      • Alex

        Use sex to get material valuables – prostitution.

        • jeffli

          I prefer to use shiny bling bling baubles to trade for some serious sex satisfaction. including ropes and tupperware and feather dusters.
          There is naught nor ought there be nothing so exalted on the face of gods grey Earth than any ming ming’s little “cheeks” glowing bright red like a monkey stopping traffic

      • I dunno about that Sun. I’ve never found any of my Chinese girlfriends to have any aversion to sex or act like it was a chore or something. Quite the opposite, in fact, and I don’t think I’m Dirk Diggler or anything but I’ve had my back looking like raw hamburger after some weekends.

        And I got the scars to prove it :-/

        • tai wai

          Second.

          Chinese girls really enjoy sex. They just aren’t allowed to admit that.

          • Northerner

            Third.

            They are dirty. In all senses.

          • mr. wiener

            Angel at the table, devil in the bedroom. It’s the truth.

          • Nanny Hiccups

            Mr. weiner, i’ve heard “lady in the kitchen, a whore in the bedroom”.

        • Dr SUN

          she still won’t sleep with you after you show her your post ,lol

        • Dr SUN

          LW “tiger girls” are a different sort, not representative of most.

          • tai wai

            Tiger girls?

            The ones that sell Tiger beer?

            Seem normal enough to me.

          • Thor

            And don’t you think “thai girl” sounds pretty much like “tiger” ? There must be a reason.

          • Thor… There was a Tiger beer ad in the mid 90s which ended in the Aussie drawl “give than man a Ti-gurrr…”, specifically meant to sound like Thai girl.

            Many many women down here in Singers who are a quarter or half Thai set against Chinese genes. Certainly nothing to complain about aesthetically…

        • linette

          ….my back looking like raw hamburger after some…………

          hahaha. you are so funny. LW you are such a bad boy. I’ll stay away from you. ;)

          I love being a whore in the bedroom. I like it dirty. hahaha…I do have to admit it’s fun to dress up in lingerie and spike heels and perfume. But it has to be with my potential husband. My one and only. ;)

          • Linette Most locals from East and South-East Asia want to experience the 6″, 7″, 8″ and 9″ erect Caucasian penis. I’m just sayin’.

          • DAK

            And many of those locals will be sorely disappointed by the unmet expectations of an erect Caucasian penis reaching 7″, 8″ and 9″ – just sayin’.

        • Ryo

          Put it this way, if they don’t like it, you are not doing it right.

  • heminator

    Stupid bitch!

    • Getrealson

      I don’t know why but after reading all the comments I got to this one. Short and sweet. Pissed myself laughing! well done!

  • Capt. WED

    I got a retinal display.
    rectally.

  • 平凡人

    A bunch of spoilt brats; what’s the big deal of making to college? Especially in China when many college are not accredited. Well if they make it to the top few like Beijing, Fudan, Tsinghua, etc., maybe the parents can consider. The top few Universities in China are not even ranked top 30 in the world.

    • tai wai

      Not even top 40, you mean.

      • jeffli

        I hear they’re not bad for teaching Chinese, but a 5 minute MBA from university of Kenya Mbangbang branch campus holds up better.

      • 平凡人

        Yes, you are right, not even top 40. Well, I guess it does not matter for them because there are so many college grads in China and a lot of them hold a Masters degree; act like big f**ks.

  • Jack

    A one-set banana will do! No way to get a 3-set apple, only green and red…

  • Northerner… You say that Chinese women are dirty in all senses of the word. However, I personally believe Chinese women are not into anal sex, either one-off experimentally, or every week.

    • Northerner

      Richard

      To paraphrase and misquote Woody Allen and his shrink.

      ‘So you think anal sex is dirty?’

      ‘Only when you do it right.’

      I disagree with you but refuse to be drawn out, provide anecdotes or pictures as supporting evidence.

      • Northerner, dude… I appreciate your candour. True, anal sex is not some kinda sin or anything. It’s just that when – like all us dudes – see a cute sphincter hovering above during “69”, I’m not gonna ruin its symmetry. Yeah I got my Brown Wings in the 1990s. Haven’t been interested since I was younger… Plus I don’t think my knob would fit in my GF’s anal socket without pre-loading with KY in a silicone sealant gun, after roto-brushing. Too much faffing. Cheers again… Have a great night!>/b>

        • Northerner

          And a good evening to you Sir. Keep that nose clean.

    • jeffli

      @dicknorth
      +++But why would I want to go hang out with a dude whose apartment or house looks like crap?+++

      maybe they are, maybe they aren’t.

      • jeffli

        typo;-
        +++I personally believe Chinese women are not into anal sex+++

        maybe they are maybe they aren’t

    • mr. wiener

      The only time I asked my wife for something like that she said she’d buy a strap on to use on me if I liked….
      I never bought the topic up again.

      • Northerner

        Feisty, indeed.

        You missed the chance to convince her it was the most sublime physical and spiritual experience you had ever had.

        And one that simply, quite selflessly, HAS to be reciprocated.

        • jeffli

          So Northener ……… [southpark moment where every blinks]

          you take dildos in the a$$!
          you like anal probes
          you gay

          • Northerner

            No Jeff.

            I was simply guiding Mr Wiener into a world of rectal pain.

    • balls!

      I wont generalize about all Chinese women but out of the ones I met…..many more than a few were game for it. Some cried, some bled, some asked me to stop (which I did)…..but most tried to take it like a trooper. The ones who did not cry (too much) all took ATM. These were not hookers or bar girls. Normal girls. Many girls in China (and everywhere else) want much more than a 7 minute missionary bang with doggie tossed into the mix when the dude gets tired.

      I will gladly provide my services to relieve them of their sexual dissatisfaction and frustration. I stopped being surprised by how many girls in China do not know what an orgasm is.

      • Dr SUN

        your not supposed to stick it in their ears.

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