Shanghai Girl Broadcasts Suicide on Instagram, Reactions

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From Mop:

Just saw netizen 夏媛off post this. She says she saw a girl on Instagram who killed herself by jumping off a building because of a guy. Everyone see for yourself…

Young girl, why?

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jojotsai1012: It’s been 12 days since the break up. I’ve gone out, had meals, watched movies, drank, sang KTV with all sorts of guys, and any one of them is more handsome than he is, richer than he is. I say this only to prove that it isn’t that I can’t find guys better than him, much less me thinking him so good looking, so rich. There are a bunch of men with good circumstances around me, as friends who know me all know. It’s just that my heart is unable to accept anyone else. Every time I go out [with them], I end up crying. I force myself to smile, I tell myself “the most important part of being a person is to be happy”, I constantly hypnotize [deceive, convince] myself, but in the end I can’t hypnotize my heart. I don’t understand, if the one you choose isn’t me, why did you give me this much hope/expectations, give me this many promises? If you never thought of having a child with me, why did you let me think of a name? He said before that if his mother doesn’t agree to us getting married, he will date [remain as a couple] with me forever, getting married when we are old. This really is the most romantic words of love I’ve ever heard in my life, but it was also a lie. All of this I cannot forget, can never forget, unless I die.

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jojotsai1012: Turns out all of the nightmares I had those few days were all real. All the things I dreamed of have all truly happened. It’s just that I was blind and ignorant of it all at the time, suspecting and learning of everything too late. In my life, I haven’t done any [seriously] bad things, so why subject me to this kind of torment? Life has been so miserable these past few days. I want to forget all of this, to control my mood and not be crying painfully late at night every night, but I can’t do it, there’s nothing I can do. All of this is too unfair to me, I can’t bear it.

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jojotsai1012: Food is tasteless, there is no sleep in the night [unable to eat or sleep].

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jojotsai1012: After I’m dead, I will haunt you day and night, I will never again leave you.

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jojotsai1012: Don’t forget those beautiful things/memories we had.

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Comments on Mop:

saojiba:

I don’t want to see stuff like this…makes me uncomfortable/sad…

跳芭蕾的大叔:

I just took a screenshot, and there is a comment, I don’t know if it is real, everyone can decide for themselves.

"This is real, we live in the same building, she died Saturday morning. No matter what, how much courage must it have taken for a little girl to kill herself? Hope she will find peace in the afterlife."

“This is real, we live in the same building, she died Saturday morning. No matter what, how much courage must it have taken for a little girl to kill herself? Hope she will find peace in the afterlife.”

浪囝延青:

Motherfucking are there really no good men?

金色蓝猫儿:

I also saw this on Instagram, and I think it must be real. What a shame though, so young, how heartbroken her parents must be. Was a guy worth this?

MOTO琳:

Isn’t this a waste?

艾泽拉斯的虹鳟:

It feels like a Hong Kong horror film.

有点er田:

Dongguan lost one of their finest.

junyijie:

Sign, cherish life.

大眼儿哥哥:

Is this real? Such a pretty girl.

Comments on Sina Weibo:

雪暮月:

The pictures and text don’t match at all, and if she was in a bad mood, would she still still be in the mood to put on makeup, take pictures, show off her body, and then Photoshop [image editing/manipulation] the pictures to post online…? Sigh, really don’t know what she was thinking. A lack of education [instilling of healthy values], her parents bear responsibility.

进击的烤鸭:

A girl that Photoshops herself like this lacked self-esteem deep inside anyway. She wasn’t willing to face her real self. Her being unable to deal with a small setback/problem is also a reason. Too bad, one’s mind cannot be Photoshopped [made better].

羽你一起:

Let me first say! Every post [on Instagram] had so many comments left by people! Were these people all eating shit [useless]! Was there no one around her who went forward to express some concern?! It take just one step [small action] to save a life! Sometimes I really feel people in this society are too indifferent [cold, distant, uncaring, apathetic, disconnected].

Ada_嬄蒨:

Why is it that I don’t see even a bit of sympathy in the comments… Sometimes missing someone deep in the night can really drive oneself crazy…

toyangtosimpou:

Can things posted on Mop be believed?

泪影绰飞:

She had already stopped eating, drinking, sleeping, and lost the will to live, yet she still did herself up and took selfies everyday. What a sick mental state, a tragedy!

JY是膏药:

Hahaha…was she dumped after her boyfriend found out about her cosmetic surgery? Not forgetting to post selfies even in this kind of moment/situation… talk about being really dedicated [to posting selfies and sharing online]!

卖猪肉的小女人:

After seeing her pictures, I really don’t have the energy to make fun of this. I can only say that if I were that guy, I’d dump her too.

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  • Guang Xiang

    Seems awfully fake

    • mlira

      If this is fake, then this is one hell of a long con, because she posted nearly 300 hundred pictures before not taking the plunge to her death: http://instagram.com/jojotsai1012

      Whether it’s fake or not, this ruined my day. I feel truly sorry for her and, if this is legit, may she rest in peace. If it is not, may she seek treatment.

      • mr.wiener

        I think the suicide was real, but she was very fake.

      • http://twitter.com/joexu Joe

        It’s confirmed from multiple sources this is real, she jumped off from the top floor of her building at about 2am on March 8th.

  • xiaode

    “I’ve gone out … sang KTV with all sorts of guys, and any one of them is more handsome than he is, richer than he is.”

    “the most important part of being a person is to be happy”

    + these pictures

    … I can imagine what kind of girl she is.. or was…

    • Hwoarang5

      shallow,selfish and stupid kind… her life purpose its just to make herself happy no matter the cost of it, nor the feelings of others around her..

      • Progressive Dubstep

        “shallow,selfish and stupid kind” ? i hope you are not referrring to us. what do you think life is, all fun and games? wtf is wrong with you woman. there are other thing that is importance too . i say that she died gracely and showed the world that she died for a stupid cause but she is a human being too, she feels sadness and happness just like rest of the humans do. just because it is right to search about happness you dont have to be a nocholant bitc* .

        • Jan Alfred Nadal Lua

          “If you never thought of having a child with me, why did you let me think of a name? He said before that if his mother doesn’t agree to us getting married, he will date [remain as a couple] with me forever, getting married when we are old. ” Young girl gets pregnant, guy walks out, girl kills herself. Not the parents fault but the guy. Everyone wants to be loved and heartbreak hurts. Not everyone has a good support group or are emotionally mature enough to handle the pain. Sad if this thread is true though.

      • Rick in China

        I agree – shallow, selfish, stupid – in addition to a big time attention seeker – it doesn’t make it less unfortunate, though.

        • Irvin

          it does, she’s no longer part of the gene pool.

    • Progressive Dubstep

      she was praoblay a slut who died for a womenizer …..

  • Germandude

    An overreacting, insecure girl that is heart-broken commits suicide because of a guy that left her.

    Yes, tragic, but where is the news?

    • Progressive Dubstep

      so we meet again old man german man :)

    • Insomnicide

      Well she killed herself on Instagram, that’s pretty new.

  • Nick in Beijing

    Good riddance to bad trash.

    Rich, beauty, broad social circle containing “many rich and handsome men” with an apparently gilded lifestyle (especially compared to the poor, the ugly, and the connectionless). Another weak hearted/weak minded fu er dai bites the dust. Nothing to mourn here.

    • Hwoarang5

      agreed…. these sick fuerdai 富二代, should be ship to famine and slums over the world to experience what pressure of living means… people fight with all they got to survive …

    • Progressive Dubstep

      i guess white people have no compassion?

    • Irvin

      Oh I’m mourning right now, why didn’t I hit that before it bites the dust?

      • Ryo Saeba

        meh.. there are plenty of better ones in China. This one just seems a little off… she looks a little “long” everywhere… maybe it’s the way she takes them pics… I donno..

        • Irvin

          Girls aren’t the only ones like things long, I like things long too, long hair, long legs, long arms…..

  • Zappa Frank

    Darwin’s award

  • The FRED FONG

    she will be famous forever…..bye bye my love…I will never forget you

    • mr.wiener

      I give it a week.

      • Irvin

        I’ll give it a day

  • mr.wiener

    Self infatuated unreal expectations , fantasy land bullshit….I feel sorry for her ,but also angry at her …..stupidity?
    Sad, stupid ,narcissistic crap that made her want to film her own suicide.

    • Teacher in China

      I always have sympathy for suicide victims, even if the destruction they cause in the lives of people around them or (as in this case) their personalities or circumstances frustrate or anger me. I just feel sorry that someone was unable to cope to such an extent that they didn’t realize how many supports they have around them. Serious depression is an awful thing.

      • http://www.richardfordphotography.com/ Richard Ford

        Suicide is a selfish hatred filled act carried out by cowards. She deserves no pity. That only encourages this self centred activity.

        • Joshua Justice

          it’s also carried out by people living with a lot of their pain. but hey, you must be right about everything

    • Zappa Frank

      it was just 12 days she broke up with her boyfriend, only 12 days!… and she was unable to bear it.. Really, how many times happened to you, me or anyone to broke up, pass a shitty month or two …some people even more… and than find out that well, life goes on… I really feel no sympathy for her…. I think this is one of the most stupid suicide ever.. And she was so depressed that can’t even stop to make up and post pictures..

      • Jahar

        12 days is the best part. She really couldn’t believe that after 12 days she still wasn’t over him? I had an ex and I saw her 6 months after we split and it felt like i got punched in the gut and I wanted to go cry.

      • Hwoarang5

        good riddance i say..

      • Progressive Dubstep

        how many chinese girls did you sleep with and played with buddy? sounds like you have been engaging those sort activities regulary. are you happy?

        • Zappa Frank

          Chinese girls I slept with? just one, my wife..
          I’ve never played dumb any girl in general.. simply sometime happen to leave or to be left..

      • whuddyasack

        Yes, the suicide was foolish and impulsive. She obviously wasn’t ready for a relationship and neither was the boy who promised her the world. People pre-25 are simply more impulsive than those older than that. However she was under 20, and around the same age as college students in the West. Most older people I know see anyone in their teens mere children and for good reason. Most haven’t the life experience and maturity to handle very painful and sudden emotional pain.

        What I think was that she was a lonely soul and her ex was the only person who she cared about or cared about her (that’s what she thinks) and that is why according to her, inspite of all he’s done, she still loved him to the end. I think rich people like her living away from their parents have very few if any real friends. She might not even have any she could relate to or confide with and that’s why when he left her, her world ended. I heard that loneliness can be unbearably painful, even more than cancer.

        I think the reason she made up and posted those pictures/videos prior suicide was more than her just being a you-know-what. She was still trying to reach out to him in her own way, and it was a cry for help!! While there was not much signs of sadness from those photos, she admitted that she couldn’t eat or sleep and cried every night. To me, it seemed like she was begging her “prince” to come rescue her.

        I think the fact him not responding positively/remaining silent was the final straw and was what ultimately pushed her to the edge. She shouldn’t have burned her bed.

    • Irvin

      Different people have different ways of getting attention, Da vinci paints, Steve Jobs make phones, Charles Manson kills people, and people like her without any of the talents above kills themselves.

      • mr.wiener

        Killing people is a talent?
        I don’t think Charlie actually did any killing, he got his family to do that, I s’pose that would be his talent, managing a thrill kill cult.

        • Irvin

          People are dead who wouldn’t be if it weren’t for him, weather he holds the gun and pull the trigger matters little, but anyway that’s besides the point.

      • yuzuri_winnie

        And YOU post comments on the Internet.

        • Irvin

          SIR YES SIR! glad you can grasp the obvious.

    • http://twitter.com/joexu Joe

      I’m surprised no one mentioned she freaking set fire to her bed and could’ve torched her whole building, pretty irresponsible.

      • mr.wiener

        tru dat.

    • Surfeit

      Why people look at what they don’t have, over what they do have, is always beyond me.

    • http://mikeabundo.com/ Mike Abundo

      Misery loves company. Post online, and the whole world becomes company.

      • mr.wiener

        Um…nice avatar, why aren’t I surprised you’re in the Philippines?

    • whuddyasack

      Yeah, I feel sorry for her and her parents. And what she did was impulsive and foolish. I think the only reason she posted all of that online was to fill the emptiness in her once her boyfriend left her. I think those selfies were her own way of crying for help and think that inspite of all the glitz and glamor, she was truly alone.

  • Teacher in China

    Is that last picture on her instagram? How did it get posted? Is it pretty easy to enter someone else’s instagram and post a pic?

    • http://twitter.com/joexu Joe

      no last picture posted by someone else

      • Teacher in China

        Ok, I was like “It’s clearly fake, who the hell took the last picture!” Clearly, I need more coffee in my system…..

  • The FRED FONG

    Never once did she consider or mention her family….her parents must be proud…that they raised such a considerate daughter

    • YourSupremeCommander

      I feel for her family, but not so much for this low IQ FB iPhone slave.

      • Progressive Dubstep

        +1

  • Insomnicide

    If there’s one thing China’s not in shortage of, it’s men. Men willing to please women. Men eager for a girl like her.

    She killed herself because of one guy, when there’s thousands if not millions of young men better than her ex-boyfriend. The real victims of this tragedy are her parents, who spent all their time and efforts raising her only to lose her at such a young age.

    • donscarletti

      What China’s in shortage of is attention, with 1.4 billion people attention to most individuals is spread thin. She had to sacrifice her life for it, but she got it in the end.

      • Progressive Dubstep

        i guess she is a martyr for us?

        • A Gawd Dang Mongolian

          Or an early entry to the 2014 Darwin Awards.

          • Surfeit

            That’s a top comment.

    • Irvin

      I really feel no pity for people like her, we all been through break ups and heart breaks, we don’t kill ourselves for it.

      There’s more than one fish in the ocean and more than one tree in the forest. If she’s too shallow to see that then perhaps she did us a favor by not fucking up our gene pool more.

      • yuzuri_winnie

        Have some sense and compassion. People don’t kill themselves over break ups. It is a mental state (depression) that grows over time, getting worse when a person doesn’t receive the necessary care and attention they deserve. It’s not just the ex that was the problem here, most likely she was raised by parents who were too cold and distant to show her that she is loved.

        I hope no one helps you when you become suicidal given your personality. I’d normally try and have sense and compassion, but not for deliberate assholes like you.

        • Irvin

          My my, you have a thing for me don’t you? I had no idea you harbor such strong emotions for me, but don’t worry I’m worth it.

  • YourSupremeCommander

    So it wasn’t his looks… It wasn’t his money… hmmm… let me think… hmmm…

    Got it! Must be his big d–k!!

  • comradewang

    I blame Disney and Korean soap operas feeding girls unrealistic expectations of so called “love”. I feel real bad for her parents….all these years raising her…just to see her kill herself over a guy, tragic. smh

    • Jahar

      Disney? Really?

      • comradewang

        lolol, i say that half jokingly of course.

        • Jahar

          I agree about the korean dramas though. Half my students think korea is really like that.

          • Guest

            really like what?

          • Jahar

            romance and perfect love with perfect men

        • Irvin

          Disney makes superheroes movies now. The last one I saw fucked up new york with a big green guy beating the shit out of a god.

          • http://myanimelist.net/animelist/NoeMoeLa NoeMoeLa

            Hulk? Meh gay

          • Irvin

            You have something against muscular green men? lol

          • http://myanimelist.net/animelist/NoeMoeLa NoeMoeLa

            Topkek no.. u just reminds me with dat green muscular man

          • save00us

            Your here too

          • Zappa Frank

            I know, about superheroes your avatar is second to no one.. even if he is still in B class

          • Irvin

            lol it’s amazing how they made such a concept worked, I mean they could easily write themselves in a corner.

        • Duncan Fisher

          So do romantic comedies. Television and film should never be taken seriously.

      • Progressive Dubstep

        you mad princess?

      • Probotector

        Little kids are into Disney somewhat. Haven’t you seen the disney princess motifs on their school bags?

    • Progressive Dubstep

      +1

    • Rick in China

      “all these years of raising her”

      Raising her, well, if they did a half assed job of raising her I don’t know that this would be the scenario.

    • Stamos

      Disney??? No.

    • Stefan Xu

      why couldn’t the guy just stay with her.

      • Irvin

        She didn’t give him a chance, she’s dead now.

      • Zappa Frank

        Evidently she was crazy… That guy is indeed lucky

    • Wodowsan

      Makes sense. anything bad happen in China, blame it on those damn foreigners.

      • comradewang

        hahaha, I would blame it on Chinese dramas and cartoons too..but they aren’t any good. Korean drama and Disney happens to be the most influential ones.

        • Wodowsan

          I assumed you have listened to Chinese pop music? It’s like country music always about unrequited love. How many Chinese myths have the lovers killing themselves at the end?

    • prin12

      why is everything koreas fault? and disney?? Shes a grown woman, she must be able to differentiate between a fantasy drama and real life? such a pity RIP.

      • http://aileilei.tumblr.com/ El Puma Reloaded

        Drug the kid !!! sedate her now !!!

    • http://aileilei.tumblr.com/ El Puma Reloaded

      You mean raising them to watch disney and soap operas, go to KTV and drink with rich guys? xD

    • katie k

      Disney doesn’t make people commit suicide. Mental illness does. Untreated depression does. Millions of girls around the world have been watching Disney princesses be swept off their feet by princes since Snow White came out nearly 80 years ago, and how many of them commit suicide when a boy they love leaves them? I know, it’s nice to have a scapegoat, but there just isn’t one. Sometimes brains go wrong. Sometimes we don’t see the signs or see them but do nothing. You’re right, it’s tragic.

    • http://thinsiqnificant.wordpress.com/ alice.

      Well in a way, she SHOULD be clearly old enough to know the difference between reality AND Fiction. Seriously, despite the PS, she seems pretty enough, and could have went out with a better guy, (she wrote that she even was with handsomer, and richer guys?) sigh.

  • wnsk

    So fake and yet so real.

    • Irvin

      it’s it really fake? of fakely real?

  • Jahar

    I’m interested in knowing how this will affect the guy that dumped her 12 days earlier.

    • Jahar

      Also, an above poster referred to her being “brave” enough to kill herself. Is this thought of as something that takes bravery? Back home we usually call it an act of cowardice.

    • Zappa Frank

      if he was a foreigner I would suggest to escape asap or will be found guilty of something..

  • Gerhana

    a little poetic but mostly narcissistic. She express her emotion but somehow she seem too shallow. Perhaps she copied someone else’s sentiment and make it her own. I dont know… the suicide seems a little plastic, it lack the noir i-die-for-love feel to it. i give it 3/5 because I think its fake. An elaborate play to fame. (read this with Bruce Willis’s Sin City voice, doesnt it sound cool? lol)

    Well, I do hope its fake. A human life is a human life. No life is lesser or greater than others.

    • Rick in China

      That’s awesome – while I do agree with you, are you seriously giving a suicide a star rating? :P

      • Gerhana

        its what she wants, though I am certain she is disappointed by the result. Ha Ha.

        • Irvin

          Indeed, people that truly wants to die for the sake of dying don’t post so many pics and stuff before they do. They rather just die and no one finds out.

        • Surfeit

          3/5 – quite generous!

    • Mighty曹

      Haha.. two thumbs up!

    • Ryo Saeba

      While I agree with most of what you say except for “A human life is a human life. No life is lesser or greater than others.”

      If something like the movie 2012 ever happened, do you think any of us will even make it on one of those boats? That’s a little extreme but there are certainly people out there way more important then us. Especially people with power and wealth. Their life, to those similar to them, are certainly more important then most of us here.

      • Gerhana

        well you may think that way but I dont want to because, while it may be logical but i think its inhuman. I believe Lao Tse saying that thoughts become words, leads to action, characters and destiny. If there are people who are more important, then who are less important? who should decide those who are important and less important?

        • Ryo Saeba

          Inhuman, perhaps. But that’s how our society have always been. The rich and powerful are always “more important” then the poor, and we’re all just somewhere in between.

          Heck, even you are bias towards who’s more important. Let’s take your family for example: You probably (should) value them more then any stranger on the street. If you had a choice to save a family member’s life or a strangers, you wouldn’t flip a coin on who to save (human life being equal and everything). You would not hesitate to save your family. In essence, you have chosen that your family members are more important then other people’s life.

          • QZ2347

            I appreciate your thinking, but keep in mind that – throughout history and across cultures – without less important people to farm crops, make tools, provide goods and services, etc. the important people really wouldn’t have much opportunity to do “important” things~

  • Hwoarang5

    Just don’t understand kids these days… too much dumb influence from movies.. fail love, take life..there people fighting daily just to stay alive all over the world, yet, weak minded fools like them choose to quit everything in life just because they couldn’t get the love they want… pathetic…. love is not being possessive,… here is where i say good riddance, the world need less idiots like those.

    • Irvin

      While I’m not condoning her actions, taking your own life does take more courage than staying alive.

      • Ryo Saeba

        How would you know? No one here have done it. I think it just takes the right (wrong) state of mind. I doubt she felt courageous when she jumped. More like sad, confused, angry, and heartache. All of which she just wants to stop. I’d say she was a chicken shit and lack courage to face them all and get the fuck over it.

        • Irvin

          I tried bungee jumping and just felt it took more courage than turning food to shit.

        • Irvin

          Well, I did went bungee jumping. It’s not exactly jumping off a building but it was close. And I just felt it took more courage, even knowing that I’ll live through it and someone will pull me up, it still takes more out of me than eating and shitting (the basic criteria of living).

          I can see the virtue of living through hardship as having endurance, maybe even determination, but there’s nothing courageous about it. Your just continue doing what you did yesterday and the day before that.

          While embracing death, taking the ultimate step, one that you know there’s no return, go against all your genetic and social programing to do while not knowing what’s on the other side or IF there’s a other side……. That takes courage!

          People always respect life, but I don’t think they respect death enough. It’s as much part of life as living.

  • xiaode

    I have just found a picture of this guy in the instagram blog… hahahahaha…. seriously…??
    … ok, why not.. chinese girls also like these poodle dogs… which I can´t understand as well….

  • kenhansen

    Fake like everything else you see in China

  • Lei Feng’s Hat

    Once these nut jobs cash in their virginity for a boyfriend, if the relationship ends…things, more often than not…escalate to DefCon 5.

    On more than one occasion I’ve seen young women who have apparently snapped (probably owing to a relationship problem) out in the middle of one of the ring roads, staggering about, just waiting for a oncoming car to mow them down.

    Unfortunately, I could never turn into their lane in time to help…

  • maybeabanana

    unintelligent camwhore… maybe thats why! All that’s important is to be happy? yeah know nothing, ignorance is bliss, care for nothing but vain societal bullshit. this is where pink spoiled princesses can end up. hearts mashed and brains mushed.

  • aaron

    still feel that this is just another publicity stunt

  • nqk123

    too much fairy tale kdramas from korea?

  • བོད་

    This is the quality of shanghainese people. Selfish and inconsiderate.

  • Progressive Dubstep

    jeezzz the nerve of this girl, why die for him? get him back by sleeping with his good buddies.

  • Zappa Frank

    This is not a mental problem…this is not a thing that need clinic or medicines.. she was just left by her boyfriend.. like happen daily to millions of people in world. She felt like EVERY person that had been left..
    You are a child before 16 or 18, but she was more than 20, living alone, not a child anymore.. you have to be responsible for your action at some point. Did I do something stupid in my 20s, yes, more than once and probably i’m doing even now stupid things.. but nothing so stupid as suicide for being left…
    She wasn’t able to bear this… neither for 12 days!…simple as that… Sincerely I can only be sad for her parents and friends, but not for her.. if she cannot bear that few I think this is really natural selection that is going on..

    • http://twitter.com/joexu Joe

      She was purportedly born in 1995, so that kind of make her a child

      • Zappa Frank

        19 years old a child…
        we have a different opinion about this.
        To make it clear, it’s not that I don’t think this is a tragedy… but I also think that she did something really stupid and that at her age she should be able to bear something like that, because life can be a lot worse than that few..

        • nickhz

          in china 19 years old is a child. they start their adult lives very late compared to a lot of western societies. it is a completely different situation for a young chinese person at that age

          • Zappa Frank

            I don’t think is relevant.. however I don’t agree with this vision of 19 years old in china or somewhere else.. you still have 19 years old of experience and you are not justify for this kind of things even at 6 years old.. This is a suicide for a love affair, like happen everywhere in the world among adolescents. And they are all tragic but stupid..

          • Irvin

            What really constitute as “a child” in your mind besides where they are born? I know people in china start fucking as young as 13.

          • mwanafa

            I’d like to disagree with you on this one, be it China or elsewhere, there are people, many people who are slow.
            This person you are calling a child, I call her adult, why? because she had a boyfriend, were going to KTVs, living alone and sh!t(pun intended), I am not sure a child does those things.

      • Irvin

        I saw kids younger than her inventing early detection system for pancreatic cancer for under a dollar on TED. And this bitch is 19 and kill her self over a guy……….

    • Irvin

      I blame it on love songs, some of these love songs make you wanna kill yourself even on a good day. Or at least refuse to open the windows when you have a gas leak.

  • Progressive Dubstep

    asd

  • loki

    looks like some lucky guy dodged the bullet with that one…

  • Progressive Dubstep

    dd

  • Ben Hao Chong

    I would say when ppl are too free and have very little commitments, they tend to have so many time thinking about love and relationship, if u have mouths to feed tomorrow morning, u would have save your precious time to have enough time to sleep and get up to work the next day to provide for your family, and u just don’t have time to think about all these shit anymore

    • Irvin

      Or get a cat, the shit you have to clean up, the mess they make, peeing on your bed, sleeping on your face will keep anyone busy enough without time to commit suicide.

      • whuddyasack

        Based on her instagram photos, she had a cat/cats. Didn’t seem to do much good.

    • Ryo Saeba

      But those people brought those onto themselves. If you can’t afford children, then don’t have children. Plan ahead. Be independent first. So many Chinese are brainwashed into having a child that they do not think of the consequences for them AND for the child’s future. Kids are born in a 10 feet deep hole and most will never dig themselves out.

    • Zappa Frank

      even hobbies can help.. it is not that you have to fight for life else you turn in something like her.

  • Timeless Love

    dreams will always come to an end..

  • FYIADragoon

    Seriously, post 90s spoiled brats are the only thing that makes me feel better about American post 90s. You’re rich, attractive, popular, and because of one lost relationship you off yourself? The misplaced priorities of these spoiled brats never cease to amaze. And seeing as all of that was given to her by her parents, still not a single word of regret towards her failed responsibility as their child? Reality was obviously far too heavy for this weakling.

  • Zappa Frank

    divorce is after years, a marriage and maybe children. It’s not comparable with a break up with a boyfriend..

    I don’t think that has any relevance that she is chinese, this kind of things happen everywhere, but even if we assume that she is like a 15, than what? a 15 that suicide after love delusion is not stupid? it is still stupid for me..

  • Zappa Frank

    Can you explain me how are you supposed to know something i don’t know about the difference in thinking of boys and girls? are you boy and girl in the same time to have a unique experience?

    She was just left.. we are going to make this thing bigger than what it is.. what she felt is the same of milions of people.. and her choice to end is the most stupid choice, because there is no other definition for a suicide in young age, with no problems …. she did not even bear this burden that long, only 12 days.. So can you tell me.. is not stupid to suicide because after 12 days only you still fell bad after your break up?

  • commander

    Few would claim that the break-up is not hard if they really love lovers.

    But getting into adulthood means is to build inner strength to overcome adversity that came and will come on us.

    The split up with her ex boy friend must have had a tremondous, and lasting impact on her, making her falsely believe that there is no such a thing as can substitute for her old flame.

    Half right and half wrong.

    She’s right in that no one could replace him because no one can become her boyfriend.

    But she was misguided when she thought that there is no hope in the world where she and her boyfriend is no longer together.

    We all know that humans have to shoulder their own share of burden in life, regardless of whether you like or not.

    After undergoing ups and downs, joys and sorrows, a person grows mature enough to vaguely feel what their life is like at the end of the day.

    Adversity makes people spiritually strong, and figure out how to get over what seemed too overwhelming to be endure.

    In this sense, her suicide is tragic.
    The break up is each and every person has to get through, though its intensity in sorrow can vary vastly.

    She thought that the anguish she was in is unparalled. But what she never know is that her death can be grief of equally unspeakable proportions, especially to her family.

  • carlstar

    I might care but the blatant whoring out is just pathetic. “life is so hard for me, being a beautiful young girl with money” splat.

    Surely she could donate her body to science or to some lonely virgin.

  • Peter Pottinger

    hahaha fuck i wouldnt want to have a gf like this either, crazy!!

  • Mighty曹

    She was dead serious about ‘haunting’ the guy. Chinese believe in wearing red to die in order to become a ‘fierce/powerful’ ghost. Anyway, she was dumb if she really killed herself for that funny bow tie wearing skinny wuss.

    • Insomnicide

      Wether you believe in the religious stuff or not, she would still make an impact on the guilty conscience of the guy. So in a way, she would ‘haunt’ him for the rest of his life.

      • Mighty曹

        You are right, in a romantic way, but ask any Chinese about suicides in red.

        • zaww

          you scared me

          • Mighty曹

            My red cap? lol

    • mr.wiener

      Well spotted, I missed that. More melodramatics.

      • Mighty曹

        Never buy a woman a red dress.

    • Guest23

      Pretty messed up how people still tend to go with superstition, there’s almost little to no help for suicides there.

      http://seeingredinchina.com/2012/02/21/dying-for-justice-suicide-in-modern-china/

      • Mighty曹

        A big part of the problem with teen suicide is that within a Chinese family issues are not openly discussed between the children and parents as in western families do. Teens struggle until they reach a breaking point.

        • whuddyasack

          This is a very big problem actually. Sadly, I think the only way to prevent this is better education, changing the core of what they watch and read and perhaps most controversial of all, prohibiting them from having relationships until a much later age.

          • Mighty曹

            “Puppy love” is the most harmful for kids. The first love being the first hurt like the world is coming to an end.

          • whuddyasack

            Uh huh. Puppy love, first love. Remember that song by Cat Stevens, “The First Cut is the Deepest”?

            The first cut is the deepest’
            Cause when it comes to being lucky, she’s cursed
            When it comes to lovin’ me, she’s worse

            Ironically, it appears that the poor girl really loved cats. There are plenty of comments understandably criticizing her for “whoring out” and having the self-indulgence to post countless dolled up selfies. It’s simply human nature. Yet even without words, the reason why she posted those are clear. She simply wanted her ex to notice her, in each of those, she was begging for him to come back to her.

            While I feel for the parents and believe they lost the most in all this, they also had the most responsibility in raising their child to be well-rounded. And yeah, guys shouldn’t make promises when they can’t commit. No offense.

          • Mighty曹

            People need to understand that the ‘whoring out’ is just another way that someone suicidal is reaching out for help and not to be taken lightly. May she RIP.

          • whuddyasack

            True. People can be extremely shallow, and “victim-blaming” has been an internet staple for ages. They look at the girl and think ***** without realizing that there could be many reasons and circumstances to such behavior in the first place. In all honesty, it looked more like she was trying to win “him” back. So sad…

            If I were a Chinese citizen, I’d see this suicide as a national disgrace and push to stop all similar events as much as I can. This is a nation-wide problem, and honestly I think steps should be taken by the whole nation to address this. China’s suicide rate is not only one of the highest on earth, in total numbers it is the highest. And the suicide ratios in China is truly unique, not like anything anywhere else. It is the only country in the world where women commit suicide at a higher frequency than men. It’s a shame that opportunists use this as another lame opportunity to bash the country rather than feel any genuine compassion for the victims.

            Ignoring all the comments talking about “fakes”, “plastic” or “hoax”, I think one truly rings true to me. Not just for the deceased but the whole nation as a whole:

            People need to be taught from an early age that your sense of self-worth cannot come from other people’s approval. It has to come from within – striving your hardest to be a better today than you were yesterday.

            http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2582395/Did-hundreds-people-ignore-girls-cry-help-Chinese-woman-appears-post-suicide-Instagram.html

            And I think that is the root of the problem. People in China need to know that they are worthy and never doubt their value for a minute. They don’t need to worry about what others think of them or perceive them, just aim for perfection and things naturally follow.

            Well, I’ve been spending way too much time dwelling on this article but I just needed to get it out of my chest. Truth be told, suicides have always saddened me and I needed to talk about it somehow. Just moved with pity, over someone I do not know for reasons unknown. Sometimes I don’t understand myself.

            So thanks for reading my rants. I’ve really enjoyed the interactions and you’ve helped me out a great deal. I think I’m now able to move on and be my old self again.

            Which unfortunately is something this girl will never experience. May she rest in peace.

          • Mighty曹

            People won’t understand until something similar happens to one of their loved ones. Hahaha.. no problem. I enjoy reading your ‘rants’ and interactions. Glad you’re able to move on and be yourself again. Now…. back to those ships. Have you seen any rare, never-before-seen photos of old ships that you can share ? :)

          • whuddyasack

            Thanks. To be honest, I’ve enjoyed your sense of humor as well.

            And it’s true. Same thing is happening in shanghaiist now with the MH370. There’s been articles and more articles detailing the obvious agitation of the Chinese families and the usual low-life, uncouth and utterly pig-like commentators there. Of course the families would be frustrated. It is their loved ones, and their loved ones are still missing. So far, I’ve refrained from commenting as I don’t want to be a part of the filth, though I’m tempted to sweep the trash once they’ve reached 100 such articles!! So far they’ve only managed 80. ;-)

            Yes, back to ships all I can say is you are a true buff (I can actually feel your fiery passion there). Sadly, I wished I had enough knowledge to give a good account of myself but as it stands, it’s obvious I’m the type of employee that sees a job as merely a job. I probably wouldn’t know which photos are never-before-seen and you probably would know more about it than me. But I do know which ones are rare hahaha. Your enthusiasm is highly infectious. I’ll try to see what I can do, no scanner and all.

          • Mighty曹

            Hey I haven’t been going to Shanghailist regularly like I used to. Let’s go hang there and sweep some trash. hahaha…

            Yeah, there was a point where I knew all the major warships specifications like length, draught, beam, displacement, hull numbers, armaments, etc. Reading the history of a ship is like seeing a person’s birth, employment (deployment), and death. It’s always amazing and inspirational to read, “she fought gallantly and survived two torpedoes and sailed back to home port on its own power. On (date) she was laid down to rest (or scrapped).”

          • whuddyasack

            Let’s go hang there and sweep some trash. hahaha…

            A partner in crime to join the ranks eh? I feel like I’ve just hit a jackpot hahaha.

            So that’s your secret. Treating ships like a human being. No wonder why you’re never bored ;-)
            Something lonely men with cars can do, I suppose.

          • Mighty曹

            Haha… partners in crime. That would be fun.

            Noooooo…. I’m not that way to ships as some guys are with their cars the call “Baby”. Hahahaha…

          • whuddyasack

            It sure would be ;-P

            Yeah but that’s because you are a big hit with the ladies hahaha. I think I should apologize to all those guys passionate about their cars. That’s real lurve they feelin’ lol

          • Mighty曹

            I’m not boasting nor denying but… yeah… I am (or was). LOL

          • whuddyasack

            Was… what happened? XD

            I suspect it had to do with your ginormous red cap. ;-P

          • Mighty曹

            Hahahahaha… ginormous, yes. Red cap, no. LOL

          • whuddyasack

            I think I know what you’re hinting at, but no just no hahahaha. That’s actually something Asians are just not endowed with. Was I close? ;-P

          • Mighty曹

            Well, I’m not at liberty to furnish ‘evidence’. HAHAHAHA.

          • whuddyasack

            Great minds… think alike hahaha. No, no, you can keep that ‘evidence’ to yourself.

          • Mighty曹

            lmao!

  • བོད་

    I think that girl found out her bf was a homosexual. I heard a similar case in Chengdu, where the wife threw herself out of the balcony after finding out her husband was having an affair with another man.

  • Guest

    Two thumbs up!

  • Irvin

    Lesson here people: [in fake russian accent] “don’t get too attach to things, learn to let go”

  • TAKE5

    Ever been with a beautiful but crazy girl? The boyfriend knew she was off and she proved it. Sad, but true.

  • http://myanimelist.net/animelist/NoeMoeLa NoeMoeLa

    Meh such a waste..

  • Irvin

    I’ll say, if you don’t want people to judge then don’t post shit on instagram and end up in the news. She wants attention and now shes got it.

    • yuzuri_winnie

      Wow, talk about victim blaming. The more I see your comments, the more I’m disgusted by you. I bet you’re one of those people who blame rape victims as well. People do not ask to be judged, people JUDGE. So if you’re the one judging her, well, blame yourself. Because you could have responded kindly to her situation, but you chose not to like the idiot you are. You’re disgusting.

      • Irvin

        Oh I judge her without guilt or reservation, she did shit and I call it, so what?

  • Rick in China

    Poll: The boyfriend gave two shits when learning of the suicide:

    A) Yes
    B) No
    C) Never learned of it

    • YourSupremeCommander

      D) LOL’ed while banging his new chick.

  • YourSupremeCommander

    I bet you the BF was sooooo glad that he did not end up marrying this psycho bitch. It would have been 3 ruined lives instead of 1 had they married and had a child.

  • Marcus Black

    Rampant narcissist. China doesn’t have institutions to help the mentally unstable. This is why you find many beautiful women with mental issues roaming China. You only discover this when you get involved with them. I personally find people who are engrossed in social media to be narcissistic. They are just trying to fill the emptiness and cover up their boring existence. It is…… what it is *sigh*.

  • zaww

    I have to say does your religion teach you what torlerance is?
    May her soul rest in peace!

  • SimpsonsGoldenAge

    Pathetic, also her boyfriend looks like an effeminate dolt

  • Foreign Devil

    China is full of girls like her. I’ve been victim of their drama before. The guy is lucky to get out. Had they married.. Her mental issues would consume all his time. Urban china can be a very dreary and grim place. A spiritual deadland.

    • xiaode

      Urban China girls? No! I guess she was typical SHnese… (as the title says: “Shanghai Girl…..”)

  • Glass Heart

    …so 12 days after the breakup she started looking for a new guy? she seems like the type who use her looks to try and take advantage of a guy.

    sounds like the ex-bf made the right choice of leaving her.

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