Woman Wants to Sue Husband to Force Him to Sleep With Her

From Netease:

After Half a Year of Marriage, Woman Wants to Sue Husband to Force Him to Carry Out Marital Duty.

After half a year of marriage, one husband takes very good care of his wife, but is not willing to cohabit with her. “Is it possible to have the court force him to cohabit with me?” Ms. Liu asked a lawyer from the Morning Post online.

This February, Ms. Liu (pseudonym) and her husband registered their marriage. On their wedding night, her husband was extremely drunk and Ms. Liu spent the night alone. Surprisingly, on the second night her husband moved his bedding to another room and again the couple slept separately. Everyday, as Ms. Liu argues with her husband because of his habit, but he never loses his temper at her. He is always trying to soothe her and is very considerate of her in the details of everyday life.

When Ms. Liu asks her husband if he has any physical problems, he denies it, but is also unwilling to go to the hospital for a checkup. Feeling helpless, Ms. Liu, who doesn’t want to get a divorce, asked the Morning Post if she could take her husband to court in order to force him to carry out his marital duties.

A Lawyer’s Take

Yao Xiuxiu, a lawyer from the Hubei Peng Law Office, and Ding Yan from Hubei Zun Erguang law office explained that the husband has a moral and legal obligation to carry out his marital duties, but the court is unable to force a man to carry out obligations involving his body. Because of this, the only way Ms. Liu can solve her problem is by communicating with her husband to find the root of the problem so they can fix it the proper way.

Comments from Netease:

战神李源霸 [网易四川省资阳市网友]:

If you like to get penetrated thats fine, but don’t waste other people’s time! I don’t have a problem with homosexuals, but for the homosexuals that are keeping eligible women out of reach, I recommend killing every one that you see!!!

江左闲人啊 [网易黑龙江省哈尔滨市网友]

[Chinese text is a rhyming poem]
Not sleeping with your wife
Means you are definitely gay.
For her, an affair is better
Than guarding an empty room

easonjoey007 [网易广东省佛山市网友]:

I’m sure a bunch of people on this message board will say “Please get in touch with me”.

网易福建省三明市网友 ip:218.207.*.*

There are only two possibilities. One is that his is gay, the other is that his genitals are defective. Either way, it’s unbearable. You should leave him.

网易陕西省西安市网友 ip:36.44.*.*

He’s a gay that is just hiding it so he could be married. [a common practice in China where pressure from traditional older generations has led to many unwanted marriages]

统一100 [网易湖南省网友]:

A gay who is just lying to the woman.

天台村长谭大柱 [网易广东省深圳市手机网友]:

My name is Wang and I live next door, if you need some help just come see me.

痰王 [网易帕劳手机网友]:

I want to get in touch with her husband…

NO.10 [网易河南省平顶山市手机网友]:

He must be forced to carry out his duties!!!

厚颜无耻就是你 [网易吉林省长春市网友]:

Shit, If you still aren’t fucking, just sue to have him forced! Make the police hold him down as you fuck him! Embody our legal state, the dignity of law!!!

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  • Badwon

    Welcome back to the original format… love it!

  • enochrox

    How come no one is assuming shes just hideous or smells bad?

  • WghUk

    Something is definately wrong with him…physically.

  • Zappa Frank

    comments are hilarious…. it’s a kind of sad that is only the first story in months and that likely we will read another one in the middle of the winter…

    • Dan

      only time that I would be glad that

      winter is coming.

      • Zappa Frank

        i guess you don’t watch or read games of throne :)

        • Dan

          Been meaning to… but i never can find the interest. I feel like I should try.

    • Michael Selden

      We’re trying to get out between 1-3 long stories a week starting this month. Stay tuned!

      • Zappa Frank


      • Necrogodomega@aol.com

        Wow, they finally let you do it?! That’s fantastic! Welcome aboard! Bring life back to this once great little site!

  • Foreign Devil

    A marriage of convenience.

  • http://weibo.com/5616302093/profile?topnav=1&wvr=6 DD Bear!

    if he can take care of her well and make a kid with her also allow her cheating then its fine.

  • Dan

    Sounds like he’s either gay or was coerced into this marriage.

    Either way, he’s gotta do something about it.

  • Vance

    This is weird. He sounds like a very considerate husband EXCEPT for this, and it sounds like he didn’t want to engage in sex with her from the very beginning. Like some kind of psychological problem that shuts off his sex drive. He owes it to her to go to a psychologist to find out what is wrong, or if he knows, then tell her. Nice to see the old format.

  • Amused

    Holy Shit!! Netizen comment?!?!?! Is it Christmas already?

  • vonskippy

    Do what they would do in the States, divorce the guy and take all his money.

  • Teacher in China

    Wow! An actual story with translated comments!!! I thought I was seeing things when this popped up, but the elephant next to me said he saw it too.

  • LeanatanHannin

    Why sue? Slap the white privilege out of him.

    • guest

      You do know the husband is mostly likely to be Chinese?

      • LeanatanHannin

        Oh, sorry, I got mislead by the photo describing about the news, I guess it’s insinuating that whites are more suitable when it comes to this case. Yes, those pro-western Chinese husbands needs a good slapping to twist their direction to their own identity and stop being so obsessed about western stuff when westerners don’t give a cow’s milk to Chinese’s culture.

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