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		<description><![CDATA[On the south side of Hankou Liberation Park in Wuhan, China, one can find a beautiful pavilion of glass and steel amid the trees and bamboo. There is an elevator leading down underground. Where does it go? To a public toilet. &#8220;Roughly 2 million yuan has been invested in the project, it is the largest [...]<p><div style="background: #eee; border: 1px solid #ddd; padding: 15px 25px; width: 600px; margin-bottom: 15px;"><p><strong>"<a href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/stories/wuhan-builds-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-toilet.html">Wuhan Builds 2 Million RMB Luxury Public Toilet</a>"</strong></p>
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<p>On the south side of Hankou Liberation Park in Wuhan, China, one can find a beautiful pavilion of glass and steel amid the trees and bamboo. There is an elevator leading down underground. Where does it go?</p>
<p>To a public toilet.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;Roughly 2 million yuan has been invested in the project, it is the largest and best and most humanised class of public toilets in Wuhan.&#8221; (October 3，Qianjiang Evening Paper)</p>
<p>This luxurious &#8220;humanized&#8221; public restroom was opened to the public at the beginning of 2008 October.</p>
<p><!--200万元的豪华公厕位于解放公园大门南侧--></p>
<p><!--公共厕所对普通中国老百姓来说，其唯一的功能就是给想“方便”的人提供方便。因为是来去匆匆，短短几分种的时间，人们一般是不会计较其豪华程度。造价1万元和200万元的厕所在内急的人眼里都不要紧，只要干净明亮能“完成任务”就行。据武汉市城管局环卫处负责人介绍：“这里地上原有一座公厕，后被拆除。因距园门太近，为不影响公园整体通透绿化景观，他们便将公厕建在了地下，先后投入200多万元，是武汉投资最大、设施最好、最人性化的一类公厕。”可见，其建200万的厕所理由是多么冠冕堂皇。--></p>
<p>From NetEase, &#8220;<strong><a title="【造价200万的人性化公厕】为谁而建？" href="http://bbs.news.163.com/bbs/shishi/100150350.html" target="_blank">[2 million RMB humanized public restroom] Built for who?</a></strong>&#8220;:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">To ordinary Chinese people, the sole function of a public toilet is to provide a convenience for those who “need to be convenienced”. Because people come and go hastily, people usually do not care too much about the restroom&#8217;s level of luxury. A 10,000 to two million yuan toilet is of no matter to those who need to go urgently as long, as the toilet is clean and enables people to “finish the task”. According to officials of the Wuhan Sanitation Department Urban Management Bureau, “There used to be a public toilet in this location but it was torn down. Because the toilet would be too near to the park entrance, and to avoid spoiling the green scenery of the park, it was decided that the public toilet would be built underground. Roughly two million yuan has been invested in the project, it is the largest and best and most civilised class of public toilets in Wuhan.” Clearly, the reasons for building a 2 million yuan toilet are ever so grandiose.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><!--那么，既然是“人性化”，肯定广大武汉市民也希望同样得到政府的“人性化”关怀。就应该在武汉市全面推广“人性化”公厕，不管是大街两边还是城乡结合部位的“贫民窟”，都一视同仁把老式公厕拆掉，建成200万“人性化”的免费公厕，让普通武汉市的纳税人也享受一下星级免费厕所的滋味。首先官员炫耀“ 政绩”的目的达到了，上级来检查看到连大街两边公厕全是富丽堂皇的豪华型，心里肯定很满意。其次那些“土老冒”市民也能开洋荤，他们平时掰着指头过清苦日子，可上的都是星级豪华厕所，心里一高兴，自然会感恩戴德。--></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8230;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><!--不过，话说回来。区区200多万元，对于一个地方政府和一个市政工程来说，都不算什么大手笔。我们并不是因为武汉建一所200万的厕所就给人家上纲上线，更不是为了批评而批评。而是他们这么做不符合实际，在人民生活还不富裕的情况下，如此糟践纳税人的血汗钱，实在不应该。现在城市里的房子是越盖越高，而公厕却是越来越少，凡是进过城的农村人都遇到过上厕所难的问题，内急想找个地方“方便”一下很难。如果政府把这200万盖几十所普通公厕，使广大民众真正有个“方便”之处，或用在改造学校和教育等急需钱的方面，不知有多少人会深受其益。这样利国利民的事，我们的公仆何乐而不为？偏偏拿200余万巨款去修建一所“体面”公厕，我们不得不怀疑这所公厕是为谁修建？--></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">But, coming back to the point, two million yuan for a municipal project and the local government is not considered a huge sum. We are not up in arms because Wuhan has built a two million yuan toilet, let alone criticising for the sake of doing so. We are up in arms because what they (the officials) have done is unrealistic and impractical; especially when there are those who are not well off. To waste the hard-earned money of the taxpayers is truly uncalled for. While homes in the city are built higher and higher, public toilets are increasingly scarce. Every person from the countryside who has been to the city has encountered difficulties when needing the toilet, it was difficult to find a toilet when they needed one urgently. If the government used the two million yuan to build dozens of ordinary toilets to provide the masses with a real place of “convenience”, or used the money to improve schools and education and other areas which need funding, many more people would benefit. Why are our public servants not working towards developments that are beneficial to the country and the people? Using the large sum of two million yuan to build a “respectable” public toilet, surely we cannot help but wonder for whom this construction of public toilets is for.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-03.jpg" rel="lightbox[1948]"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2985 aligncenter" title="china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-03" src="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-03.jpg" alt="The luxurious sinks at Wuhan's 2 million yuan public restroom." width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Comments on NetEase:</strong><br />
<!--建了那些官员才有回扣嘛--></p>
<blockquote><p>They have to build those before the officials can get their kickbacks. Duh.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--狗日的一群官员--></p>
<blockquote><p>Bastard officials.</p></blockquote>
<p><!-- 估计那个WC造价成本为100万，而那一半的去向在家可想而知！<br />
也许武汉比较富裕吧！建一WC都要200万！不知该地房价怎么样？也许那个WC不是去方便的地方，而是供人观赏的！中国人的生活水平才提高了几年呀！中国人没有成为经济大国的最根本的原因就是这些ZF的无理的置之不理！有这200万难道不能建一个公共书城？或修一条公路？在山区建一所小学？也许后面的三种方法没有那大的焦点！！！！ .--></p>
<blockquote><p>I estimate that the cost of building the WC [restroom/toilet] is one million, and you can imagine where the other half went.<br />
Maybe Wuhan is more rich! Even building a WC needs two million! How are the property prices there? Maybe the WC isn’t really a place for you to relieve yourself; it’s more for people to look at! The standard of living for the Chinese has only been raised a few years! The fundamental reason why China hasn’t become an economic superpower is because of these <a title="ZF = zheng fu = government" onclick="window.open('http://www.chinasmack.com/glossary#ZF','','location=yes,scrollbars=yes,resizable=yes,width=560,height=200,left='+(screen.availWidth/2-280)+',top='+(screen.availHeight/2-100)+'');return false;" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/glossary#ZF">ZF</a>&#8216;s unreasonable ignorance! You could not build build a public library with this two million? Or fix a public road? Or build a primary school in the mountainous areas [where it is typically very poor]? Maybe there isn’t that much focus on the last three suggestions!!!</p></blockquote>
<p><!--造的越贵能贪污的越多呀。我读书的地方还有地方盐都买不起。这社会倒过来了。。。--></p>
<blockquote><p>The more expensive something is, the more there can be embezzled. Where I study, there are places where people can’t even afford to buy salt. Society is backwards/reversed&#8230;</p></blockquote>
<p><!--5. 靠，谁可以相信这个厕所价值200万，我想怎么也至少15万被贪污了，原因很简单，建造这个公厕是为了平帐。--></p>
<blockquote><p>Fuck, who can believe that this toilet really cost two million, I think at least 150,000 was embezzled. The reason is simple, building this toilet can balance the accounts.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--俺还想活久点，不敢讨论领导的决策。--></p>
<blockquote><p>I would like to live longer, so I don’t dare discuss the decisions of the leadership.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--这些豪华公厕是建在官员脸上用来撑面子的，不是用来给小民方便的--></p>
<blockquote><p>These luxurious public toilets were built for the officials’ “face”, it’s not for the people to use.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--有病！病态社会！--></p>
<blockquote><p>Sick! A sick society!</p></blockquote>
<p><!--200万可以让100个贫困家庭过上温饱生活！可以建2所希望小学了！！！--></p>
<blockquote><p>Two million can enable 100 <a title="Sister Says Family Poor, Cannot Find Boyfriend, Leaves " href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/stories/sister-says-family-poor-cannot-find-boyfriend-leaves.html">poor families</a> to live with adequate food and clothing. It can build 2 new primary schools!</p></blockquote>
<p><!--穷人上不起，有钱人不会上--></p>
<blockquote><p>The poor can’t afford to use it, the rich will not use it.</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-02.jpg" rel="lightbox[1948]"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2984 aligncenter" title="china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-02" src="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-02.jpg" alt="The fancy and expensive luxury WC in Wuhan's Hankou Liberation Park." width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Comments on <a title="武汉首座地下公厕亮相造价逾200万元" href="http://comment4.news.sina.com.cn/comment/comment4.html?channel=gn&amp;newsid=1-1-16391112&amp;style=0" target="_blank">Sina</a>:</strong><br />
<!--今年武汉搞笑的事挺多--></p>
<blockquote><p>It seems like there have been <a title="More posts about Wuhan" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/wuhan/">quite a few ridiculous things to happen in Wuhan</a> this year&#8230;</p></blockquote>
<p><!--看了真让人痛心 太奢侈了 为什么不用到医疗, 教育, 养老, 扶贫上面去呢？难道这些都都搞好了吗 还是为了增加武汉的知名度吗--></p>
<blockquote><p>Seeing this really makes people sad. Too extravagant! Why not use the money for medical care, education, caring for the old or helping the poor? Have all these issues been taken care of? Or is it just to increase Wuhan&#8217;s popularity?</p></blockquote>
<p><!--中国还是发展中国家吗--></p>
<blockquote><p>Is China still a developing country?</p></blockquote>
<p><!--武汉人太有钱了，来我们西北花200万建几所希望小学吧，我们这还有好多学生上不起学呢，你们拉个便便也要修那么好的如同你们饭店一样的WC，真不知道这是谁策划的，又是 谁出钱来修建的，可悲啊！--></p>
<blockquote><p>People in Wuhan have too much money, come to us in the Northwest and use that two million to build some primary schools. We still have so many students here who can’t afford to go to school. You guys take a poop and you still need a WC that’s as good as a restaurant, I really don’t know who planned this, and who paid for the construction, so terrible/lamentable!</p></blockquote>
<p><!--5.再花200百万造一座空中公厕，这样天上地下都有了，你们才算牛！--></p>
<blockquote><p>Spend another two million to build a public toilet in the sky, that way there would be one in the sky and on the ground, then you guys would be considered &#8220;<a title="niu = 牛 = impressive, amazing, incredible" onclick="window.open('http://www.chinasmack.com/glossary#%E7%89%9B','','location=yes,scrollbars=yes,resizable=yes,width=560,height=200,left='+(screen.availWidth/2-280)+',top='+(screen.availHeight/2-100)+'');return false;" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/glossary#%E7%89%9B">niu</a>!&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><!-- 不贵！下次把厕所建到半空中，让全世界瞧瞧，那才是本事--></p>
<blockquote><p>Not expensive! Next time build the toilet in the air, let the whole world see it. Now THAT would be amazing.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--我们国家并不富裕，有些贫困地区一年人均收入才几百元，花200万建厕所，难道拉屎撒尿要这么高的成本吗？--></p>
<blockquote><p>Our country isn’t wealthy, the annual income per capita is only a few hundred yuan in some poor areas, spending two million to build a toilet, is the cost of shitting and pissing really that high?</p></blockquote>
<p><!--谁再敢说中国没钱，我一定不放过他！--></p>
<blockquote><p>Anyone who dares to say again that China has no money, I definitely will kill him!</p></blockquote>
<p><!--先不说是不是铺张浪费，有本事就把200多万建设公厕的明细拿出来晾晾，让老百姓来看看值不值。--></p>
<blockquote><p>First, let’s not say it is extravagant and wasteful. If they have the courage, let them bring out the details of the two million RMB used to build the public toilet, and let the public decide if it was worth it.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--强烈支持武汉，比大部分地方把钱都用在买豪华轿车，公款吃喝强多了，不管人家吃多少回扣，至少老百姓也能分享到一点实惠。--></p>
<blockquote><p>Strong support for Wuhan, it’s better than most places that spend money on limousines or use public funds to hold banquets. No matter how much the kickbacks are, at least the ordinary people can share a little of the material benefits.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--11.可以改变200个穷孩子的一生了<br />
只可惜.... --></p>
<blockquote><p>It can change the lives of 200 <a title="Volunteers Visit Homes of Poor Migrant Worker Children" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/stories/volunteers-visit-homes-of-poor-migrant-worker-children.html">poor children</a>.<br />
Only unfortunately…</p></blockquote>
<p><!--武汉那么破，还不如把公交车整修整修--></p>
<blockquote><p>Wuhan is so lousy; it would’ve been better to use the money to repair/recondition the buses.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--13.哎，以后来点太空厕所，谁想上就坐直升机上去。有钱人的天堂。--></p>
<blockquote><p>Sigh, next time let us have some toilets in space. Whoever wants to use it reach it by helicopter. Rich people&#8217;s heaven.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--14.在武汉我不求蹲着多舒服，只希望走路骑车很舒服。--></p>
<blockquote><p>In Wuhan, I do not care too much about how comfortable it is to squat, I only hope to walk and ride a bicycle very comfortably.</p></blockquote>
<p><!--15.回扣不少吧?当官就是好.随便找个理由就能挣钱...--></p>
<blockquote><p>Lots of kickbacks huh? It’s great being an official. You can just use any reason to make money…</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-04.jpg" rel="lightbox[1948]"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2986 aligncenter" title="china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-04" src="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/china-wuhan-2-million-rmb-luxury-public-restroom-toilets-04.jpg" alt="People exiting Wuhan's 2 million kuai public bathroom." width="400" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><strong>See more posts about Wuhan, China:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a title="Child Labor In Wuhan, Chinese Argue Good or Bad" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/pictures/child-labor-in-wuhan-chinese-argue-good-or-bad.html">Child Labor In Wuhan, Chinese Argue Good or Bad</a></li>
<li><a title="264 Hubei Students Denied Bachelor Degrees" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/stories/264-hubei-students-denied-bachelor-degrees.html">264 Hubei Students Denied Bachelor Degrees</a></li>
<li><a title="Witnesses Say Wuhan 519 Woman Bus Driver Insulted Girls" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/stories/witnesses-say-wuhan-519-bus-driver-insulted-girls.html">Witnesses Say Wuhan 519 Woman Bus Driver Insulted Girls</a></li>
<li><a title="Wuhan Female Bus Driver Violently Beaten By Passengers" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/videos/wuhan-female-bus-driver-violently-beaten-by-passengers.html">Wuhan Female Bus Driver Violently Beaten By Passengers</a></li>
</ul>
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<p>Originally posted on <strong><a href="http://www.chinasmack.com">chinaSMACK - Hot internet stories, pictures, &amp; videos in China</a></strong></p></div></p>

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		<description><![CDATA[From Mop, &#8220;Friend Was Raped, Who Can Tell Me What To Do?&#8220;: I have a good friend, a girl, who is to be married on October 1st. However, just before her wedding, this unfortunate incident occurred: The night before the Mid-Autumn Festival, when everyone was basking in the festive mood, my friend was raped. The [...]<p><div style="background: #eee; border: 1px solid #ddd; padding: 15px 25px; width: 600px; margin-bottom: 15px;"><p><strong>"<a href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/stories/netizens-discuss-if-reporting-rape-jeaopardizes-wedding.html">Netizens Discuss If Reporting Rape Jeopardizes Wedding</a>"</strong></p>
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<p>From Mop, &#8220;<a href="http://dzh.mop.com/topic/readSub_8792313_0_0.html"><strong>Friend Was Raped, Who Can Tell Me What To Do?</strong></a>&#8220;:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I have a good friend, a girl, who is to be married on October 1st. However, just before her wedding, this unfortunate incident occurred:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">The night before the Mid-Autumn Festival, when everyone was basking in the festive mood, my friend was raped. The vicious man even used his phone to take pictures of my friend after she was violated. My friend tried to take his phone to delete the pictures but was unsuccessful – she was even beaten really badly.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">The same night, she told me what happened over SMS and my first thought was to call the police. However, there is a lot to consider:</p>
<ol>
<li>She is getting married in October, if this incident is made public, it is very possible that it will affect her future.</li>
<li>The police chiefs of nearby police stations in the area are either colleagues or friends of her future father-in-law; if she reports this incident, her father-in-law will definitely find out. Whether or not her public servant father-in-law (who is a very traditional man) can accept a “shamed” daughter-in-law is unknown. Indeed, gossip can be malicious.</li>
<li>She is afraid of hurting her husband and how the incident will cast a shadow on their relationship.</li>
</ol>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If we don’t call the police, the criminal remains above the law and this will also be a worry:</p>
<ol>
<li>It is very possible that this criminal will continue harming other girls, and nobody would want their loved ones to be the next victim.</li>
<li>The criminal has pictures of my friend.  Maybe in the future when her life is stable these pictures might surface and be used for extortion – after experiencing such trauma and finally being able to move on with life, nobody would want to get hurt a second time.</li>
<li>If she remains silent about this incident, she will always remember this incident everytime she looks at her husband – even if she is the victim.</li>
</ol>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Dear Moppers, please don’t take this incident lightly as an unhappy love affair; because it truly is unfortunate. This didn’t happen to your loved ones so of course it’s easy to take it lightly.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Please think about how to handle the situation to alleviate her pain~~ All of you who visit Mop please don’t be perverts!</p>
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<p>This story was first posted on Mop about a week ago. There are over 1800 comments on Mop. Here are some:</p>
<blockquote><p>Call the police</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>The person involved is the writer of this post. She plays around and then spins a yarn on Mop to gain sympathy and even tries to be righteous, bitch!</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>If she doesn’t call the police, it’ll be even worse when her father-in-law finds out!</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Call the police, and she must be honest with her <a title="More posts about husbands." href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/husband/">husband</a>. If he doesn’t accept you, it means that he doesn’t love you as much as you think he does. If he comforts you and accepts you, then you really can be with him for life.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Must discuss this with her husband<br />
Let her husband decide, it’s better to explain now than it is later. The husband then discusses it with his father. Let them decide if they want to call the police.<br />
I’ve already said, not reporting this can lead to a situation.<br />
He might want your <a title="More posts about money." href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/money/">money </a>after you get married.<br />
Preposition you with sexual favours<br />
It’s possible that when you give him the money he will rape you again.<br />
You might satisfy him this time but he might want more money in the future.<br />
Rape again.<br />
An endless cycle; until you call the police or one of you drops dead.<br />
My understanding so far…</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Must call the police, don’t hesitate.<br />
Just have to consider that she is a woman, must definitely call the police or she will be helping the rapist escape punishment.<br />
If her husband <a title="More posts about love." href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/love/">loves</a> her, he will definitely understand her and love her.<br />
If he doesn’t love her then she might as well not get married.<br />
Don’t bear this by yourself and let it become a lifetime burden.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Hire a contract killer<br />
Being reasonable in this society is useless.<br />
You can only survive by being more ruthless than others.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>To be honest, when I see posts like this I can’t be bothered to comment. A large number of women and their various inattentions in daily life have given lechers ample opportunity. If they really care about themselves, their <a title="More posts about family." href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/family/">family</a>, they should learn how to protect themselves. Since this has happened already, I believe the most viable option is to discuss it with her boyfriend, and the call the police. Don’t be afraid, because true colours are revealed in difficult times, if you remain silent, you won’t be able to face other repercussions in the future. A man who truly loves you will bear this burden with you, and let that criminal face the consequences he deserves.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Life is just like rape, since you can’t fight it, you might as well enjoy it. lz, what do you think?</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>If there’s too much consideration, it’s simple, was she a <a title="More posts about virgins." href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/virgin/">virgin</a> before the rape?<br />
If calling the police is a must, then you’ve already delayed enough.<br />
If not, why bother calling the police.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>1: Call the police and ask the <a title="More posts about black society." href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/black-society-triads-gangs/" target="_blank">black society</a> for help (What’s important is to find the pictures)<br />
2: Break up with the boyfriend! (The boyfriend and his family don’t want to live with the shadow of her incident). Also, how was she raped? Please choose:<br />
A: She ran into a bad person after finishing work at night! (Worth sympathising)<br />
B: Was she raped by someone she knew? (That’s not good)</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Let her think it through, Writer<br />
Lots of rich men’s wives still go for male prostitutes, just take your friend as a prostitute.<br />
She fucked a guy for free, so…<br />
I don’t think it’s wrong.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Use violence to deal with violence, it might not be any use to call the police…<br />
It might cause more trouble.<br />
After all, the police in real life aren’t as responsible as the ones you see on television</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>I’d rather you really tried to resist<br />
What I’m trying to say is, a man who truly loves you does not care about your virginity, but you women will never understand.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Ask someone from the black society to get rid of the rapist…</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>She can hide if no pictures were taken<br />
But if pictures were really taken I suggest she call the police immediately, or else two days later <a title="Caught: Chinese Middle School Students Having Oral Sex" href="http://www.chinasmack.com/2008/pictures/caught-chinese-middle-school-students-having-oral-sex.html">it will be all over the internet</a>.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Call the police!<br />
If you call the police, you might lose your husband, and everything in the future. If you believe you can hide this for your entire life and not call the police, can you really do that? The pictures are in someone’s hands, you won’t know when he’ll come looking for you!</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>I suggest not to call the police, even if you do call the police there isn’t much you can do, you’d also be kicking up a fuss. To the police, these trivial cases aren’t important because even if they solve the case they won’t get much credit.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Call the police. Traditional values will be the death of you.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>The main thing is her husband’s attitude, if he is understanding then it’s alright to call the police.<br />
The family should be secondary. She was raped, the wrongdoer was the rapist, it’s unavoidable and I think it is understandable.<br />
If I was her father-in-law I’d let her call the police.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>She should first tell her future husband because what he thinks is important. Good job, Writer!</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>1. Calm down, don’t call the police, look for evidence (if any) and retain it.<br />
2. Tell your husband, because of no alternative reasons, postpone the wedding to avoid her husband accusing her of lying to him.<br />
3. Call the police when the rapist surfaces again, or you could directly seek him out with the help of others, beat him to a pulp, and then call the police to catch him.<br />
4. Be honest with your husband, see what he thinks and then decide if you get married.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Get <a title="More posts about marriage." href="http://www.chinasmack.com/tag/marriage/">married</a> first.<br />
The rapist is a stranger, so it will be hard to find him in a short time. Never tell your husband, bear the pain yourself, don’t let your husband be affected by your incident during the happiest time of his life. Find some other way to find the bastard and use violence to deal with violence!</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>You didn’t call the police immediately after it happened so forget about calling the police.<br />
The days will pass.<br />
It’s no big deal even if your luck is good.<br />
I’m guessing you can’t convince your friend either.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Sad, I’m so sad.<br />
Why is it always women who get hurt~~~<br />
Physically<br />
Psychologically<br />
Customary values dictate that women are victims.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Believe me~ If you call the police, not only will you not catch the bastard, you will also expose your personal tragedy, and at that time you will be paying double the price for your actions.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Looks like only the black society can handle this, if you’ve got money, anything can be done!</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>If she totally doesn’t know the rapist, then don’t call the police. Even if she calls the police they won’t be able to find him, so what’s the point? It happened so long ago already.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Call the police. It’s better to be honest than to live a lie for the rest of your life. It is also a test for her man.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Secretly hire a contract killer, ask for a professional, don’t leave any traces, don’t have an aftermath, finish the job neatly, happiness for life!</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Prepare to break off your engagement~~! Call the police, if the guy doesn’t understand then don’t get married~! This involves your life, think over it carefully.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Simple. If there weren&#8217;t any threats from the guy then forget it. If he didn’t threaten you it’s no use calling the police.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Get married, get pregnant and then call the police.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>You were forced to make a mistake once, don’t make another mistake. Call the police, be honest.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>Looking forward to seeing these pictures on the net…</p></blockquote>
<p>The original topic was later updated with the following:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Thanks to all of you for your suggestions. My friend has chosen to forget and let go. She is determined to walk out of the darkness of this incident. I admire her strength and courage.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">At the same time, I would like for everyone to take the high road and not discuss this incident further.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/loneliness-dark-window-blinds.jpg" rel="lightbox[1380]"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1750" title="loneliness-dark-window-blinds" src="http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/loneliness-dark-window-blinds.jpg" alt="Alone in the dark by the window. Picture from: http://hi.baidu.com/scssi/blog/item/56a8b00a37045e1b95ca6b8e.html (through Google.cn)" width="493" height="539" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Images: </strong><em>These images were found on Google.cn and are not directly related to the original post.</em></p>
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