I have said before that KDS Forum is a popular BBS for mostly Shanghai guys. KDS means “kuan dai shan” (宽带山) or “broadband mountain” in English. Since KDS is a “mountain,” people on KDS give the guys the nickname, “tu fei” (土匪), meaning “bandits” because In Chinese history, there were a lot of “bandits” or robbers that attack people traveling through the mountains.
Last week, a guy with the online name “lonelypig” started a topic on KDS called “My female coworker also wants to get married. All “bandits” welcome to take a look (picture included):”
She is Shanghainese.
Born 1982, height 165cm, weight 48kg, good appearance, lively, open, and bright disposition, not a LB girl*.
Earns 4000 RMB/month pre-tax, works in HR, only child.
Has had one boyfriend but because he liked to play around, they broke up last year…
Because her parents are pestering her, she wants to find a boyfriend, especially the kind that can get married next year.Requirements are the following:
- He should be older than her, born between 1977-1982.
- Has house or no house is fine, she is willing to work together with him to buy house and car after marriage.
- He must be good to her and will not play around. She has been hurt before, so this is an important point.
- As long as he is not too ugly, he should be fine.
- He is taller than 170cm.
- He does not like to go out to nightclubs/bars. Guys who are healthy and like to exercise will be given consideration.
- He earns more than her.
- He should enjoy watching American television shows. She like Heroes, Lost, and Desperate Housewives…
- He will be respectful to the parents…
That is all for now. If I think of more, I will add them later. Some of the requirements are mine. If I am helping her find a husband, i should be responsible, right? If not, she will blame me if I find someone bad for her.
Many people were interested and there were many pages of comments and replies…
Picture from the front! Picture from the front!
Is the age requirement flexible?
pmpm
Topic-starter, I think I meet all the requirements, can you hook us up?
If virgin…PM.
Thank you! Please PM her contact information. We can meet, and I’m not that bad looking either.
All requirements met, except no money~
I’ve exceeded requirements 1-9
Too bad I also like to play around…wahahaha
She looks pretty good…
So why does she need help finding a husband?
Is the original poster just showing off that he has a beautiful colleague?
Here is an application.
I am 1976…no hope.
Not bad! Worthy of one PM!
I feel like the original poster’s requirements are too low…most Shanghai men meet these requirements…
So many people! I will post a message too!
1. He should be older than her, born between 1977-1982. OUT
5. He is taller than 170cm. OUT
7. He earns more than her. Out
I satisfy all the requirements! Only problem is I am already married!
I’m just here to do push-ups.
No need to think anymore, we can get married tomorrow!
PM PM PM! I have two for her to choose from!
Must be born and raised in Shanghai, “wai di ren” immediately get OUT
Some were not…
Shanghai girl, not interested…, because I don’t want to become a slave…
Why does she look like a Hong Kong gangster’s girlfriend in the first picture?
PM for the second girl. The first one is so scary.
“She has been hurt before, so this is an important point.”
This, I understand…
…so how many abortions?
Look at the bags below her eyes, she has probably been “lived” a lot…
Exactly, one look and she looks like a party girl.
lonelypig posted a second picture…
The first picture was too charming or too monstrous.
Everyone, I present the second picture…
Not a virgin, she is really really dark down there.
I have been with these kind of girls before. In fact, 99.999% of those who have been “hurt” before have been “around” countless times.
*Faint* Earlier, one of my good guy friends sent me her picture and told me she was his steady sex partner. So he was not lying after all! Pretty girls are not suitable wives. Better to marry an average looking girl.
Why would such a pretty face need to search for a husband? Obviously she is a liar. Everyone wake up! Did you guys forget about the other guy helping his “schoolmate” find a husband? We later found out she was a whore!
After this comment, lonelypig replied…
Can you be a little more respectful, okay?
Are pretty girls not allowed to search for husbands?
Do only ugly girls have trouble finding husbands? Has your “brain been shot or crushed by a door?”You are an asshole, coming in, begging to be “flamed.”
If she really is a prostitute…
I’m a student, have ID…is there a student discount?
Start bidding? 300?
[Deng Xiao Ping: "This kind of topic should be bumped!]
Responding to some of the comments, lonelypig wrote…
She has been pursued by many men, I will not lie.
One Valentine’s Day, she received 10 bouquets…
If I said no one pursued her, no one would believe me…
I also do not know why she was not satisfied with any of them…
10 bouquets on one Valentines’ Day? …are flowers that cheap now?
Eventually, there were so many PMs…
lonelypig’s private message box is already full.
Clearly there’s a lot of demand.
Your PM box is full. Please empty it out.
Sigh, looks a little like a girl I used to like…so I floated in.
I was going to apply but the original poster’s PM box is full. Poor me.
Some replies were very sincere…
Brother, I am also Shanghainese.
Born 1981, height 181cm, weight 70kg, appearance and physical all satisfactory, mature personality and humourous, KDS guy*
Run an advertising company. After tax yearly earnings around 400,000 RMB. have a house in downtown Shanghai, a car with Shanghai registration, only child. Although my qualifications are not that good, I can provide her a decent life.
When I was young and didn’t know better, I had six or seven girlfriends. I was with my last girlfriend for two and a half years and was planning to marry her at the end of the year. But we separated over some small things and it is too late to go back now. It is impossible for us to get back together, so she does not need to worry about that.
Her looks are pleasing and attractive to me, as long she’s a good girl, respects her parents. I am also very willing to take the next step in getting to know her. My parents also hope that I can get married next year, so they can hold their grandchildren by 2010. If we end up getting married, I will definitely thank our Cupid. Could you give me her MSN and contact information through PM. I’ll be very appreciative.
in addition, aside than occasionally drinking for business, I do not smoke or gamble. My few interests include watching American TV shows at home, playing Wii, playing ball with my friends on my days off, or going for a drive. I have been single for half a year now, and am sad that those around me are only suitable to play with but not suitable for marriage. This topic has given me new hope, like rain after a drought.
P.S. With regards to Lost, I’m very familiar with the story, hopefully we can wait for Lost Season 5 together.
Some were very serious…
She talks about feelings now, but in the end it is still about income, appearance, family background, etc. I think she is hoping to find a perfect man. If she marries someone who is not handsome, has no money, or does not have a good family background, she will always feel unsatisfied and regret.
Some were not…
So pretty, much prettier than her.
Age is 67 years older than her.
No house. She should buy the house and car on her own first. Then, I marry her.
Like to drink a little alcohol. After drinking, 80% possibility will hit wife, 20% possibility will use alcohol to rape her.
Height: With special shoes, I can reach 160cm.
If i am not at nightclubs/bars, I am at the mahjong parlors.
No income, I will depend on her.
I enjoy watching American porn, for example the Female Pirate series or Great War Africa series, etc.
My parents have already been kicked out by me. If your parents want to try, they can come live with and see how we feel.
Is there an honest girl like me that can give us a chance? Please PM me for details.
Too old, we want girls born after 1990.
* “LB girl” = Liba Net Forum. It is a BBS forum with a lot of girls and women members who spend a lot of time showing off gifts and money men give them, and complain about men. “KDS guy” probably means he is a humble, funny guy.
Many people in China consider Shanghai girls to be especially materialistic and spoiled. They also say Shanghai guys are weak and controlled by their women because many Shanghai men do everything, such as cook, clean, wash clothes, buy food, carry bags, take care of baby, etc. Of course, Shanghai girls just say Shanghai guys are not weak and they are just “good men.”
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I discovered your homepage by coincidence.
Very interesting posts and well written.
I will put your site on my blogroll.
:-)
My wife frequents 篱笆 and she thought the “LB girl” thing was funny, as did I. Thanks :)
Hi. Let me introduce myself. May I know her name. My name is Vincent Lai who work as QA Engineering Manager, SDP Project Manager via Management Representative. Call or sms me at +60162180768 or +60123388768 or +60123929168 or vincent_lai28@hotmail.com. Hope to hear from her soon.
Come to papa. Let me know where I can send your plane ticket to America.
Vincent Lai Yoon Chong
No. 11 Jalan BM 1/10 Taman Bukit Mayang Emas Petaling Jaya, 47301 Selangor,
How you people belive all this crap? The picture is not real, and was created in 3D max.
So she (or her “male coworker”) basically wrote a Craigslist ad and didn’t bother to hide her agenda. I’m not saying that guys are any more or less skeezy than girls about their intentions when posting CL personals but if you read them, you’ll notice that women often have a similar laundry lists of requirements for the type of men they want. It’s very shallow.
All I gotta say is, honey, if you’re serious about looking for a lifelong partner (romantic or otherwise), stop making it sound like you’re making a dinner order. No one, regardless of gender, wants to feel like they’ve been reduced to a collection of bullet points.
WOW, SHE SURE IS PRETTY, BUT SOMETHING TELLS ME THAT THERE IS MORE TO THIS GIRL THAN WHAT MEETS THE EYE. ARE YOU SURE SHE IS NORMAL, I MEAN SHE’S NOT AN AMPUTEE RIGHT?
I fit all the requirments, live in the united states though(michigan). If she’s willing to relocate, let me know. Get ahold of me-if not,good luck.
This is yashwant kumar working in shanghai in Indian Restaurant as a computer operator, and looking a girl for marriage, dob is 16 feb 1974
I meet all items:). Can you contact with me?
Wrong way to try to find a partner! You will get many nonsencical response from this kinda of publicity. Sometimes it is better to travel, move from place to place and meet many people face to face and get to know them this way rather than getting surprises from messages.
I wanna fuck her in the poop-chute with my BIG Chinese COCK !!!
Isn’t that an oxymoron? “big chinese cock.”
You do have some good about you, you are smart and understanding, you have made your choice on what you want in a man, no bars or clubs, that will be difficult although i am not into bars either, i am a little over your required age limit, born 1972. Any how i have a girl she lives in shanghai, and me in Australia a little far away, but we are hanging in there to be together soon…. Good luck on your conquest..
iam a boy of 25 years from nigeria and iam working with one of the internation organization with a very good income seek ing for young china girl to marry her age most be from 16-21years
Hi, Sadiq, so you have come here with your 419 methodology ? Shame on all Nigerians !
What a pity ! a chinese lady so fatuated with foreigners,I myself is a foreigner ,but will not advise you to choose from other countries, you would be looked down upon, as you can not make it in your country .
No foreiner would like to marry you, because you are of a prostitute than of a genuine person . Fake Lady ! Look at you ! Do you think foreigners are stupid as you are ?
meets all the requirements , except was born in 1983. is it ok? how can i contact her?
Im interested.
But it bothers me that someone has all these “requirements”. Isnt this what 12 year old girls do? Usually once you mature out of your teens, you drop your fantasy-boyfriend “wishlist” and realize that happiness is not about anything other than the chemistry that two people share, period. NONE of these “requirements” will bring her any happiness whatsoever even if she found a man who met every single one. He would still cheat on her, he would still lie to her, he would still neglect her, and he would still be a selfish, unthoughtful dickhead.
But based on her list of childish and superficial-shallow requirements, SHE prolly wouldnt meet MY requirements which are simple; a down-to-earth good hearted girl. Notice how all her requirements are about superficial and materialistic things, not like “honest guy” or “caring guy”, she just cares that you like certain TV shows, LMAO, no wonder she gets “hurt” by guys, im sure theres a million uber-players who like to rub one out to episodes of desperate housewives!! She should date them! Oh they cheated on her? how!! they liked american TV shows, they shouldve been great guys! Didint you know the TV shows you like tells girls what kinda guy you are???
This chick comes across like a 12 year old school girl who is incredibly self-centered and stuckup. Slap her upside the head and tell her to grow up, if she does, tell her to email me and see if we have any chemistry, cause thats all that matters.
She can drop me an email mallardpharma@safe-mail.net
By the way, I meet all the requirements, but I sincerely doubt she’d meet MY very simple requirement — a decent human being.
Chemistry is just as important as respect in a relationship.
People in love should build each other up.
How a person spends their time says a lot about them.
Do they enjoy exercise? That can help elevate mood and help maintain a reasonable body weight. (unless pregnant).
Does the person think independently? Or do they steal from competition, constantly needing to be guided?
When and why do they enjoy intellectualism?
Is it all to seduce the other sex? Or were they like me,
a woman who said she’d never marry, write for a lifetime and will die to the happy end because she knew young how to define herself (and it wasn’t simply with kitchenware and bitter tattoos.)
What television shows a person finds engaging does tell much about them, especially why and how they perceive them.
There is a whole helluva lot of indecency on this blog, and it isn’t the chinese people’s fault.
The filth, the power plays, some outsiders I dare say want to rule everything. Funny thing is, they pose as pro democracy. This is the biggest indecency of all.
I am a good looking. reliable. Intelligent and self-secure professional man with a good sense of hum our. , attentive, and full of life and energy. I am also considerate. Sociable. I am genuinely wanting to settle down if the right person comes along. I like everything with nature. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage
looking for a lovely girl. active. optimistic. gentle and virtuous. kind. sincere. quiet. nurturing. Sensation .loving. artistic. lovely children. attractive. feminine. intelligent and potentially marriage
Hetlr979@hotmail.com. .
I live out in china, looking for marriade, fit into your age range and speak mandarin. Also have enough to buy a house, nearly.
wotyuwant@yahoo.co.uk
=)
Most of the rich guy is playful. I don’t think you will get a nice and honest husband. Who’s replying your mail their wish is bout sex to satisfy them cause of your image and look. My suggest to you is to talk with your parent and give them a little understanding. I believe all the parent hope they daughter get happiness when after married. I from Malaysia. All the best.
Hi i really like asian girls because they are so sweet and reliable with their husbands thats why i am email u so that we will chat with eachother to exchange their views
Thank u
Hey!!! listen up everybody first of all you people should try to understand nature everybody is responsible for his/her own destiny, what ur destiny is made up is not what others are.Some people are made for other side of the world while some are made for their own world, being pretty or ugly,rich or poor,healthy or handicap cannot determine a relationship,so girls mind how u recommended for husband for that stupid yakub dont u ever insult my country nigeria again foolish person
good day senator thank u very much for ur comment on that foolish man yakubu how can he dear insult my great country nigeria
she is so pretty but don’t belives in picture its depand to her nature .i like to friendship with , like to friendship with me contact this id taurus_tu143@yahoo.com
i m lover to china n japan girls
Baby i think you are the right woman i have been looking for, I was born in 1977,feb 2nd I love a chinese girl.Baby you are the one happy to see you.
For every girl like this one in China, there are a 1,000 more in the same situation. The problem is that “true love” takes time, intelligence, maturity, and patience to achieve. I wish you the best of luck in your pursuit for a good man.
Hi, you can call me Sou from Sou Tadayoshi.
Currently i have income of RMB 26,500++ a month.
I am interested to know you better. I didnt go out at night except for going to temple and excercise.
I didn’t go to bar or any life night at all.
Though i am 1984 year born. I hope we can be friend and have a chat or email, it never hurt to get new friend everyday.
I am 175-180 in height. I am not skinny nor overweight. I do not know about me having double eyelids. i will present picture when we have a chat.
I also do not think i have big eyes. I didnt do hair colouring too and i dont mind you do. Its your right.
I do have a dog, it is white highland terrier type pure breed with certificate. Again i am though not shanghainese. I do have big house around 1 acre all around, it is not mortgage. I do have car BMW, Mercedes, Alpaht, and another 10 car more or so.
I am very patient though i’m still human.
contact me on my Email. soutadayoshi@yahoo.com
or you can add me on your Yahoo Messenger, if you do have one.
Hi! lovely, I LOVE YOU,I MISSING YOU TOO MUCH COZ YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL & I KNOW U HAVE GOOD MANNER ALSO. ME FROM NEPAL, I WANT TO MARRIED WITH U. CONTACT ME: santoshda7@yahoo.co.uk. 977-9845175536 ok! TAKE CARE I LOVE YOU.
hello , Shanghainese.
will you marry me. i did never ever go nightclubs in my life, my born is 1981, i m studing in australia, and i got temporary residence in aus,i have also hurted by someone she was an malaysian girl if you would like to contect with me just my email ashwin_thukral24@yahoo.co.in
UGLY GIRL CAMERA ANGLE!
be careful ^^
hi this is sabir pradhan from kathmandu Nepal i’m not a play boy i’m a caring boy i also have got same problem just like ur’s if u accept me then u don’t get any problem in u’r future
I am looking for marriage from beautiful girl
you can help me ?
plase hurry up and notify me
hi this is sunil i am from nepal.i like to marry with poor girl.who don’t have enough money so i want to married to you.
I am big black african boy with big black penis i want to have sex with you I am very rich :)
Hi, if you are serious… My name is Zac, I live in Australia, I’m 173cm, if there is anything else you want to know just ask… My email is the_tenkin@hotmail.com
Geez, how did this article turn ChinaSMACK into a 3rd world dating service!? I’m guessing most of these commenters are not actually readers, but just googled “I want to exploit some young Chinese girl who’s being pressured into getting married and probably has the maturity of a 12 year old; because either a) my own country’s culture is so repressive I can’t find a date or b) I’m a loser.”
…Anyway, that’s how I got here. But seriously, anyone who provided contact info in a comment here should be mercilessly humiliated.
LoL! I wonder if the personals section was added because of all of these comments.
No…I think it’s Fauna’s way of telling the trolls on here to get a life.
how are you my name is princewil am for cameroon very indresded in your add so pls this is my Email don.prince97@yahoo.com fell frri to me
thanks
am looikg for a gril or a woman in china
1) 97 is your birth year?
2) i would prefer a grill because barbecue is fun
I am good hearted and hard working man from Nepal. If i get to marry u then i will not hurt you in any matter. If u r intereted then mail me in lama.sher.pa@hotmail.com
any girl wants to marry with me so contact me on arfan_cheeta@live.com waiting for response
Will she marry a mature Canadian and live in Toronto?
hi
i m single male 22 i m seeking one nice female for merry with me i m muslim my name is adil malik i m frome pakistan
hello my friend .I am iranian.my name:sepenta patkan.age:20y.be friendly with? I LOVE DARLING
heloo Liver girl.Heart me,mavourneen,I mind to you I LOVE YOU
sure…why not :)
(To this girl seeking marriage in this way)
You know your probably gonna end up with a guy who just wants your body.
(Sadly there are many of us that are like that)
At least get to know a guy like a few years or something, to know them for them, not just the act they might put on.
If your looking for a, Quick fix marriage. then good luck to you.
It may work out it may not.
they may just want a trophy wife (looks pretty, does what he wants when we wants, cooking cleaning sext etc…, perhaps more of a servant than a partner)
Or you could find the man who is right for you, treats you well, values you and your opininon, faithful, loving caring, always there (no matter what) you know “the one”
It seems more like a coin toss, but if you get to know about a guy research him etc… then you could find out if he is the one you want to spend the rest of your life (If your not the divorce type)
Hope this helps
Not sure if this will reach that lady
Yeah it might be good to look for a Man, but the thing is why are you ‘advertising yourself in such a manner?
Surely the men you would probably end up with are those who just see you as a peice of meat,
Not to mention those who might just live off you.
Yeah thankfully we are not all like that, but often (not all) ladies make these type of mistakes, and ends upgetting hurt, learning the hard way.
You want get burned if you don’t play with fire.
Even if parents want you to get married and stuff, you should do that for you NOT loyalty/obedience etc…
Nobody can live your life for you.
If you have been hurt before in the past, perhaps you should wait a while, get over the hurt, heal, instead of jumping in to another relationship with out recovering first.
My name Master yasir elahi 20 years old live in karachi pakistan i’m seeking girl rich!beuaty!and friendling
ya.master@live.com +923052249490 +923422818508 +923212826308 +923212826308 +923213553011 +923078553039
I can understand exactly where she’s coming from. Having had a couple bf’s previously, the traditionalist idea of a husband and a future has faded a great deal for me. My ex-bf of 3 years was a caucasion guy, he was fazed by the idea of marriage, preferred to rent rather than mortgage and the idea of a future together was very far from his mind and overlooking all these points, he still liked to “keep his options open”. Honest genuine men are hard to find these days. On a recent date with a Malaysian Chinese, he split the cost of our coffees. Extraordinarily stingy; I was happy to pay for the both of us but I payed with my dollars and cents and he payed for his own. These experiences have caused me to lose hope on men.
I’m a 22yr old Chinese abroad(from Shanghai) studying my final year in a prestigious university with an almost certain job offer to look forward to. I live in my own apartment and earn a very good income even currently, working part-time and renting out the 2nd bedroom in my apartment. I also do volunteer work on the side for a variety of causes.
I’m a good looking girl with a very easy-going personality. 166cm 55kg well proportioned and very loyal. Once I fall in love, I give my heart and soul. Having given my heart to the wrong person previously, I’m seeking someone who lives up to standards.
I’ve discovered that what I want most in a partner are traditional ideals that every Chinese girl is seeking for. Older, taller and earn more than me, is similarly educated, is interested in marriage within a couple of years, have strong family values and who is dedicated to building a future together in material assets and in the harmony of our relationship. Most of all, must be genuine and not play around. Please contact me if you are interested: vivalicious99@hotmail.com.
bleh bleh bleh bleh
you ave an issue Chinese people and Japanese People .
That’s not a girl it’s a Child that doesn’t know the life .
You have discusting taste . It’s forbidden to make sex with children or to look at them in a desire way .
Be men don’t be afraid of adult women ,go to Hunt the girl with personality that look like adult .And that already had 15 boysfriends .
The girl that know the men .
It’s a challenging situation .
She will compare you with the others previous 15 boys .
Not a children face that just want to see a cartoon in the cinema .
You are all weak children hunters .
She’s 27 years of age. East Asian people tend to look younger than Caucasians because our face tend to mature less and the guys have have a lot less body hair.
http://www.chinasmack.com/wp-admin/viewPic.php?url=http://img.club.pchome.net/upload/club/other/2008/7/16/pics_dingbob_1216213365.jpg&areaId=1&clubId=15
hahaha…what a douche!
She had me until “Desperate Housewives”. How the fuck can anyone watch that shit? (I hate Lost and Heroes too.)
I am Saeed from Iran. do you like to marry an Iranian boy?1
thanks
Saeed: bohlol1960@yahoo.com
Probably not if you’re a muslim and if you’re hairy.
Why do pretty East Asian girls tend to go for pretty-boys instead of hairy macho men with sexy bulky body?
Wow, since the last time I looked at this thread: It’s gone cancerous! What’s with all the dating ads?
Hey, just so you know Iwould marry you today if you wanted look me up on facebook
Hi
I am Iranian. do you like to have a marrage relashionship with me?
Saeed: bohlol1960@yahoo.com
pls add me at msn williamlee@live.com.my
im from malaysia…
I have full sincerity with you this is my mobile number 00923009114854 just call me and we will marry.
i am an engeenering .i am 37 years old and i want marieed with a good person not with one pretty ,ineed to be a loving togeather…..
and i want she be a chinees girl
i am mario i needed to on good person i dont need to pretty girl but i love beautifuly but personality in veri important for married i want soon come to china for living and working ensaneazade1@gmail.com
The guy who started this post, I’ll fuck u up if I knew how u look like and saw u on the streets in real life. I bitch-slap ur sorry wanna-b pimp lil bitchass til u start crying and begging me to stop.
And then I take them hoes from u, Bietch.
Oh yea, I meet all them requirements too.
hi
Im khan.my age 26.i leve london im loking girl friend
07787483072.