From NetEase:

The special “tea willow basket” tool used by the C-cup virgin tea pickers revealed

April 19th, the Henan province Gushi county West Jiuhua Shan scenic area revealed the specialized collection tool “tea willow basket” that its tea-leaf pickers use when picking Kou Chun Cha [literally, "Mouth Lip Tea"]. This tool is made from Xinyang’s famous weaved willow wood and is placed between the breasts during use, to receive the tender tea leaves that the female tea-leaf picker plucks with her mouth. Previously, the information published in the local recruitment ad for tea-leaf picking girls required that the girls have C-cup breasts and be virgins as well. After this information was released, it was reposted on various major discussion forums and caused a great deal of discussion.

Comments from NetEase:

网易上海市浦东新区网友:

So it is like this, indirect kissing, I’m just afraid she doesn’t brush her teeth, and then there will be vegetable leaves in my tea leaves.

网易陕西省汉中市汉台区网友:

So virgins can be played like this, truly satisfying.

网易广东省深圳市网友:

No wonder our leadership likes to drink this kind of tea so much!

网易广东省深圳市网友:

Big breasts, no brains.
Maybe one day some company in some province will hire those with even bigger breasts to collect water. 5000 years of civilization “Breast water is even cleaner and sweeter”.

网易辽宁省朝阳市网友:

I am a leader, let me first drink.

网易江苏省苏州市网友:

What age is this, is it still possible to find something that isn’t a publicity stunt?

网易广西河池市网友:

A big bosom has its benefits.

网易北京市手机网友:

Mouth Lip Tea is second-rate tea. For the first-rate kind, it has to be placed inside the cunt for a day, while the super fine quality kind has to be placed in during menstruation. If there is no blood, it’s fake.

网易山东省淄博市网友:

Henan people sure can think of everything. Pranks, deviant, perverted, [Henan people] can only be looked down upon!

网易湖南省长沙市网友:

During recruitment, how do they distinguish between who is a virgin or not?

网易江苏省苏州市网友:

I wish NetEase would not post this kind of news. Don’t disseminate this kind of bad/unhealthy things.

网易上海市松江区网友:

This is purely a publicity stunt, it is both unhygienic and inefficient, anyone with a bit of brain should go boycott!

网易广东省广州市网友:

There truly is nothing too strange in this big world… What relationship do tea leaves have with virgins? …And what’s the relation with cup size?! …Simple ridiculous~ This was invented by someone perverted, right~?

网易天津市河西区网友:

This industry has an even more specialized position awaiting brother [referring to self] to go apply for: determining virginity and C-cup size!

Tea leaf pickers. Personals @ chinaSMACK.

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From Baidu Baike:

“Leftover Men” refers to the currently relatively trendy over 30-years-old still single male comrades.

From Baidu Baike:

Leftover women: A group of highly educated, high income, older-aged young women [28-35-years old] who cannot obtain their ideal fates [marriages].

“Leftover women” is a new name for those those older young women, who can also be called “3S women”: Single, Seventies (most were born in the 70s), Stuck — single, these people generally have high education and high incomes, and outstanding prospects.

From NetEase:

Recently, netizen “I have fainted!” posted a topic claiming that through the investigation of hundreds of unmarried successful gentlemen they have created leftover men, leftover women rating forms. If the two forms are completed with scores that are separated by around 10 points, then the male-female couple can be considered to be of equal status.

With regards to these two rating forms, most netizens have treated them as a joke. However, while making fun of the person who made these forms as having nothing better to do, many netizens are also taking the test, finding their scores and posting their ideas for altering/improving the rating forms. Some netizens have asked why the creator of the rating forms did not explain the significance of the high or low scores; while other netizens believe the rating form creator’s  use of sexual ability and sexual experience as important factors is extremely unreliable.

Leftover Women Survey:

1. Age
   23 and under (10 pts); 23-25 (8 pts); 25-27 (6 pts); 28-29 (4pts); 29-32 (1 pt); 32 and above (0 pts)
2. Features/Appearance
   Fair skin, beautiful appearance (10 pts); fair skin, proper/correct features (8 pts); fair skin, features collectively are relatively harmonious (6 pts); beautiful appearance, poor skin (4 pts);  proper/correct features, poor skin (1 pt); poor skin, features not harmonious (0 pts)
3. Height
   165-172 (10 pts); 158-164 (8 pts); 172-174 (6 pts); 155-158 (4 pts); 174-176 (1 pt); the rest 0 pts
4. Weight
   45-50kg (10 pts); 50-55kg (8 pts); 40-45kg (6 pts); height 165cm and above 55-60kg (4 pts); height 158cm and below 35-40kg (1 pt); the rest 0 pts
5. Body/Physique
   Front protrudes, back perky, waist and legs distinct (10 pts); long legs, ample breasts (8 pts); fine and well proportioned (6 pts); airport + proportionate (4 pts); plump and smooth skinned + relatively poor proportions (1 pt); Either long waist and short legs, out of proportion, entire body dull, etc. 0 pts
6. Education
   Bachelor’s Degree in popular major (10 pts); 211 Bachelor’s Degree (8 pts); Associate’s Degree (6 pts); high school or vocational school (4 pts); Either third-rate Bachelor’s Degree or Doctorate and above 0 pts
7. Place of origin
   Prefecture level city (10 pts); average provincial capital city (8 pts); first-line cities (6 pts); county seat (4 pts); small town (1 pt); rural 0 pts
8. Background
   Rich/powerful family (10 pts); high-ranking government child (8 pts); parents have high positions in companies (6 pts); civil servant household (4 pts); relatively well-off (1 pt); the others 0 pts
9. Personality
   Gentle, considerate (10 pts); gentle, a little temper (4 pts), not gentle 0 pts
10. Chastity
    CN (20 pts), Not-CN (-20 pts)

Leftover Men Survey:

1. Occupation
   Profitable entrepreneur (10 pts); small family business (8 pts); back office civil servant (6 pts); medium to high position in company (4 pts); low-level white-collar worker (1 pt), the rest 0 pts
2. Assets
   10 million or above (10pts); 5-10 million (8 pts); 2-5 million (6 pts); 1-2 million (4 pts); 500k-1 million (1 pt); less than 500k 0 pts
3. Height
   178-183 (10 pts); 183-186 (8 pts); 175-178 (6 pts); 170-174 (4 pts); 186-189 (1 pt); the rest 0 pts
4. Age
   26-32 (10 pts); 32-36 (8 pts); 23-26 (6 pts); 36-40 (4 pts); 20-23 (1 pt), the rest 0 pts
5. Appearance
   Relatively handsome (10 pts); proper/correct features (8 pts); average (6 pts); relatively ugly (4 pts);  extremely ugly (1 pt); no such thing as zero points for men’s appearance
6. Education
   Famous university MBA (10 pts); “sea turtle” returnee (8 pts); Famous university Bachelor’s Degree (6 pts); 211 Master’s Degree (4 pts); 211 Bachelor’s Degree (1 pt); third-rate Bachelor’s Degree and under 0 pts
7. House/Property
   N [many/multiple] houses (10 pts); 2 or more hoouses (8 pts); 1 un-mortgaged fully owned house (6 pts); currently paying mortgage (4 pts); paying 3k or above rent (1 pt); the others 0 pts
8. Car
   Audi A6 or better (10 pts); Passat-grade (8 pts); Elantra-grade (6 pts); Peugeot 307, Fit-grade (4 pts); Geely, Chery-grade (1 pt); other 0 pts
9. Place of Origin
   Europe or America (10 pts); Singapore, Hong Kong (8 pts); Korea (6 pts); China city (4 pts); other (1 pt); rural 0 pts
10. Sexual Ability
    No ED (20 pts), ED (-20 pts) [ED = erectile dysfunction]

Comments from XCar:

福虎:

Not single, but I still came in…and I did not come in vain because I have learned something…

08雅阁小星:

…for the last one, I am definitely adding points…I do not even have to think about it.

奇门遁甲:

82 point leftover man flutters/floats by~~

起步爆表:

The points for those cars are hilarious.

Scofield007:

The point setup is seriously unreasonable.
Height, age, appearance, car are not just a few points in the eyes of MM, no less than property, and even no less than assets. A man with tens of millions can buy N amount of A6, so they should at least get several tens of points.
Pretty MM all hold out for rotten old men.

赚钱养家:

Niu person…
Shouldn’t virgin men get added points?

★上山论贱:

Why do non-virgins lose points? Nowadays who wants virgins, they’re like a piece of wood.

可乐:

This topic is too harsh towards women, and the requirements for the men are generally much looser! ~~

Comments from NetEase:

202.108.78.*

Most older leftover women are leftover because they are not CN.
Those who should be responsible should go be responsible.

59.41.70.*

Ha, I have 84!

cdbaofuxiang:

72,
Men’s grade.
Just passed “medium” grade.
I am striving to reach 85 and “good” this year.
90 and above’s “excellent” grade I will not think about for now.

58.82.240.*:

I only got the last question’s 20 points, I have no hope.

113.87.167.*:

Fuck, my girlfriend is 80, but I am only 5 points, what kind of world is this!!

pokyue:

Faint, I am 000000 points.

121.9.216.*:

Very realistic! 99% of marriages are all related with these factors, adding them up and then deciding whether or not to marry. Haha, genius.

qiuyong6177:

55 points, looking for one girlfriend, please send your report card to…

123.152.46.*:

46 points, male, I did not get any points for half of the items, no wonder I am TMD leftover, there was a reason after all.

125.33.146.*:

FUCK! Only 20 points! Looks like I will not be able to find my other half in this lifetime. CAO!

How many points do you have?

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More translated secrets of Chinese people…

From Tianya, “Share your heart’s darkest secrets…do you have the courage?”:

小新家的小黑:

In comparison…
my secret is not at all interesting…
but I still feel compelled to share it…
When I was small…
I once very seriously put a fart in a bubblegum container [a round container with a roll of bubblegum]…
and after having left it in there for many days, I took it out to smell it…
Ah…
Is this not a little deviant…?

阴暗的秘密1:

I have stolen over 10 bicycles, usually throwing away the old one after stealing a new one.

The five women other than my wife that I have had sex with, I cannot free myself from. I may belong to the type of people who have a very poor sense of morality.

Oh well.

阴暗的秘密1:

Allow me to repent here.

I very much regret not being more considerate when I was small, having stolen money from my own parents, relatives, very good friends, classmates, and also from the “auntie” downstairs who always let me eat at their home.

I really wronged them. I have grown up very well now, my family does not lack money, have come back from studying abroad, have a BF [boyfriend] in the judicial system, and have very good friends, but I am unable to forget the bad things I have done in the past.

My heart has always felt very heavy. Other people’s childhoods are always very blessed and happy, but when I think back to my childhood, it is filled with regret. I will continuously do charitable things to atone for my past sins.

To these people that were harmed, I want to say that I am sorry, and hope hat they can all be blessed with happiness. I am truly sorry.

阴暗的秘密:

Beginning from when I was 5-years-old, I automatically learned how to SY.
When I started primary school, I SY every night for 40 minutes.
I estimate so far that I have climaxed over ten thousand times.
I have very shamefully concealed this…I really do not understand why/how I learned this.
Finally, I am a female…

阴暗的秘密:

Actually, mine is not really that dark.
My husband is bisexual.
The first time I met him I already felt he was gay.
At the time, he had a girlfriend.
Later, I directly asked him if he was a gay.
Then he left his girlfriend and got with me…
However, it has already been a very long time since he has been with a man, they were all when he was young.
Nowadays he can be considered the traditional successful figure in other people’s eyes, but when I look at him I still think he is pretty amorous, hehe.

阴暗的秘密;

When I was in junior high, a group of male schoolmates would go to a girl’s home to play during noon. After going for over one month, one day, the leader of the group suddenly told us to help hold down that girl. We chased that girl throughout the house as she ran and soon caught her, holding her down on the living room coffee table. Everyone was laughing very hard, she was also laughing very hard.
After laughing for a few seconds, she stopped laughing, telling them to let go, saying they were hurting her, but we all did not let go, every boy’s eyes sparkling.
Then the leader big brother pulled down his pants and put his JJ in. Middle school exercise uniforms are good, one tug and they come off.
After 3-5 minutes, he pulled out his JJ. I do not know if he ejaculated or not…and then so we would not report him, he had several schoolmates take turns, every person only allowed to insert a few times. At that time, none of us had much knowledge, and were afraid that inserting too much would result in pregnancy.
Then because there were too many people, it did not get to my turn before we had to return to school.
In the end, everyone returned to school to go to class in the afternoon as if nothing had happened. I bet all the people who had participated spent the entire afternoon thinking about that…

阴暗的秘密:

Seeing all these secrets, I am reminded of an old report about a warm-hearted person’s who in his youth wanted to help numerous people who had problems in their hearts and started a psychological counseling hotline but then committed suicide one month later because he could not endure the stress in his heart;

So, other people may not be able to bear the weight of the secrets in everyone’s hearts. Even if we may feel inferior or weak in our lives, we are actually always resisting the darkness in the depths of our hearts. On this point, everyone are survivors and courageous people;

If you are not afraid of being alone or the darkness, can you still be afraid of sunshine and smiles?

阴暗的秘密:

When I was in university taking my test for post-graduate studies, I lived with two already-working female schoolmates in a two-bedroom apartment. The two of them lived in the big bedroom, and I lived in the small bedroom. Everyday I was preparing, they went out to work. They treated me very good, because we already knew each other from school. They would always help me by washing my clothes and cooking for me.

However, every day I secretly went into their room, took out their NK [内裤, "nei ku," underwear], and SY.
“Han,” I just want to say “sorry.”

阴暗的秘密:

The “me” that others see is pretty much “perfect”: My grades are good, master’s degree student at a famous school, physically beautiful, good personality, like to joke around, and interact with other people very harmoniously. However, to this day I cannot forget my own status as a non-virgin. Yes, intellectually I understand this is not a big deal, but my family upbringing does not think this way. Moreover, I have read online that everyone says men definitely look for virgins for marriage, and if I am not, my marriage will not be happy.
So I always pretend I am a virgin in front of other people, and have a bad attitude towards the previously boyfriend I had broken up with. I know he still loves me, but I already do not love him. I know that both sides have responsibility for us ML, but I cannot help but take my frustrations out on him, feeling that had he not continuously asked, I would not be this way. He is still confused why my attitude is so poor [towards him]. He personally believes he did not do anything to wrong me, that we we loved each other, and even if we broke up, there is no need to be this way! But I cannot do that. I have even thought of going to a city where no one knows me to get hymen surgery, but I also do not want to cheat other people, especially my future husband.
I am very miserable. I cannot go back to my previous boyfriend just because I am no longer a virgin, because I truly already no longer love him. However, I cannot go cheat my future boyfriend simply because of this. Now, I am afraid to even date, just because I am afraid he will raise that kind of request [to have sex].
I feel there is a good chance I will be single for the rest of my life.

阴暗的秘密:

I really love my husband, but because we are living in two different places and I cannot endure being lonely, I have habitually cheated.
Before marriage once, after marriage once.
My husband knows everything, and we just performed the divorce procedures.
But I know I really love him, except I am embarrassed to redeem myself/save the situation.
Why am I so despicable? I really want to just die and forget about it.

Note: Many of the these usernames are the same because people are using a public/shared account to post their secrets so no one knows their normal Tianya username.

To be continued…

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From Tianya, “Share your heart’s darkest secrets…do you have the courage?”:

阴暗的秘密:

In front of everyone, I pretend to be very simple. I even let my best friends think I am so simple that I am completely ignorant. In reality, I am not simple at all in my heart. Even a little evil!

阴暗的秘密:

First let me say that I am a girl, but I like children, and especially like playing with little boys! I have succeeded many times, and was scared and nervous!!

阴暗的秘密:

When I was small (before school age), I once played sexual games with a neighbor’s child, the kind where we took off our clothes and just randomly touched each other. I tremble just thinking about it…and even more frightening is that last year he suddenly asked me if I still remember, and I could only pretend to be stupid and say I forgot it all, and be disgusted for so many days…

In elementary school, I used to steal the pretty erasers and pencils from classmates because I did not have money…

I have never had a sexual climax, every time was faked.

My mother treats me very well, truly very well, but I just cannot feel love for her.

阴暗的秘密:

Others all think I am gentle and pure, but in reality I am not at all.

I really like to play hard to get with boys, but in reality I do not like them one bit, and feel they are very disgusting and annoying, but I like to drag them along.

I do not know if this is inherited, my father divorced my mother when I was in junior high. He was very promiscuous/unfaithful, changing one girlfriend after another.

Although I am about to be 25-years-old, I have not yet had a boyfriend, but I definitely enjoy playing them in circles.

Actually, I know I am very insecure, I do not know how to get along with people I like. At first there is nothing we cannot talk about, but once I start to like him (her), I lose confidence in myself, and feel that they will leave me, and the relationship between the two of us will become very worrisome.

I think I will probably be single for the rest of my life. but actually this is no big deal. I hope I can make a lot of money in the future, and live a comfortable life by myself.

阴暗的秘密:

When I was small, my grandmother [paternal] was not good to both my mother and I.
So when she left [died], I did not shed a single tear. Watching my father, mother, uncle [paternal], and aunts [paternal] all crying so painfully, I surprisingly snickered a little…

阴暗的秘密:

Many times, I really dislike my mother, extremely so. But at the same time I also feel she is really pitiful.
The reason I dislike her is because her temper is too bad, always thinking she is right, and is unwilling to listen to reason. But as I have discovered that as I get older, I am becoming more and more like her. Now I do not know if I dislike her or if I dislike myself.

阴暗的秘密:

I once did some very yellow, very violent things to a MM whose intelligence was not very high. This is the deepest secret I conceal at the bottom of my heart…

阴暗的秘密:

When I was at home during summer break in junior high, the son of a Sichuan auntie neighbor downstairs was not yet 1-years-old, could not yet speak, and was especially fun to play with.

On morning, several neighbor kids and I together asked the auntie to let us carry her child home for us to play with. Auntie agreed.

We carried that child back to my house, and took turns holding and playing with him. When he became my turn to hold it, I sat on the sofa, and carried the baby in my hands. Suddenly, the kid’s head tilted back and I was unable to hold his body in time, so the child’s head hit the ground!

The child immediately began crying loudly, I picked him up in a panic, and fortunately he was not bleeding on his head. The child would not stop crying loudly, and no matter how we tried to calm him, he would not stop crying.

The sounds of the crying alarmed the auntie downstairs, and auntie asked loudly from downstairs: What happened? Why is the child crying so terribly?

I and several other children were all a little at a loss, and at once yelled lies back: “Nothing! He just peed! (he did indeed pee in his pants before)

After auntie heard this, she at once yelled for us to bring the child down.

After that, I continuously wondered, did the child become retarded after hitting his head??? Because he could not yet speak, it could not be known. But who would know later when he grows up?

Not long later, that auntie’s entire family moved back to Sichuan, and my family also moved to a new house, and we never saw each other again.

Over 20 years have passed, and I often think: that child has grown up by now, has he become an idiot? If he really became stupid after being dropped, would not that auntie be in so much pain? And I would be that one person who was most responsible!

This thing has been continuously buried at the bottom of my heart. I have never dared to tell anyone before.

阴暗的秘密:

My boyfriend is unfaithful to me, so I vow that I will definitely marry him, and make him wear a green hat [be a cuckold] for the rest of his life.
We will be getting our marriage license in May this year.

阴暗的秘密:

When I was small, I was sexually harassed by my stepfather.

At that time, I was in fourth or fifth grade, and my breasts had begun developing a little.
During summer vacation, I went to my mother’s place to spend the holiday.
He was always touching me, lifting up my clothes and sucking on my nipples.
He would also often stick his finger into my private place when I was sleeping and jerk it around. It hurt and was uncomfortable.

But throughout my memories, he never raped me.
I was scared, and did not dare to tell my mom.

Later after starting junior high, I resisted. The moment he touched me, I yelled at him, threatening him that I would tell other people, and he never touched me again.

10 years have passed since this matter, and I have been continuously distressed with whether or not I am still a virgin.

And I also especially hate him. My mother also kept yelling at me, saying I treated him badly, saying that he treats me very well.

But even as I cried and said I hate him, I could not speak out what he had done to me.
I think my mother still thinks the reason I hate him is because he caused my parents’ divorce.

Now I also have my husband and the first time we did it, I discovered that I was still a virgin.
It was very painful and I bled a lot, but the stress/pressure in my heart did indeed lessen a lot.
But I still hate him [the stepfather], and also am still very wary of men. Of course, except for my husband.

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Another thing [secret] is that I hate my mother.
She betrayed my father, found such a piece of trash, who even wanted to violate me.

Ever since I was small and as I grew up, she never looked after me, always throwing me to my [maternal] grandmother’s house and would not come to visit for long periods of time.
Later, they [mother and stepfather] had their own son, and she cared even less about me.
All of my life’s biggest decisions were figured out by me, she never once cared.
When I had fevers and got sick, my grandmother [maternal] would ask her to come, and she would avoid me, afraid I would infect her.
I hate her, but now…
I am still afraid of affecting her family and thus suffer in silence, and she still yells at me for not having a conscience/being sympathetic.
Heaven/God knows.
As a mother who never cared for me from the beginning, how can you expect me to be affectionate to you now?

—————————————————

This is my suffering, I cannot share.
I can only bear it alone.
No matter how close the friend is, none of them know. They all think I have a happy, whole family.

So while I am cheerful and lively in front of people, I am always very depressed when I am alone.
There were many times I wanted to commit suicide,
but I was always afraid of worrying my [maternal] grandmother, so I constantly and painstakingly tempered myself,
taking my introverted personality and changing it to be very extroverted and humorous.
But when I am alone, my mood is still very low and depressed…
and I cannot stop crying.

Right now my problem is that I cry too much, and I easily lose control and start crying.
I still think I need to go see a psychiatrist.

Note: All of the these usernames are the same because people are using a public/shared account to post their secrets so no one knows their normal Tianya username.

To be continued…

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From China’s largest forum, Tianya:

“When writing this essay, I considered several titles. For example, “Women are suited for playing, not suited for loving”, and others. However, none of them matched my meaning and, including the current title, none are ideal. Writing this essay, I know I will be reviled but I still want to write it anyway. The reason is because what I am saying represents a phenomenon in current society and notions of love.

A modern man needs three weapons: Money, charming appearance, and a way with words. Women these days looking at men, look to see if he has a successful career…which basically means how much money he has. The more money you have, in women’s eyes, the more successful your career. Even if you idle at home all day, so long as you have unlimited money, your career is still considered successful. If you do not have money, then you need to be super handsome in the eyes of women.  Why super handsome in the eyes of women and not in the eyes of men is because how women see things is different from how men see things. If you do not have money but you are super handsome, that is your capital, and lots of women will come love you, only, those that love you, most will not be with you for long and when the novelty has worn off, they will leave you and go look for a husband, or return to their wealthy husband. These kind of women are usually beautiful women. Why do they leave? Because you do not have money. If you do not have these two things, then you must practice your way with words. What women like to hear, are sweet words and honeyed phrases. Even if they themselves know they are lies and ridiculously false, they still like it. If, of these three, you have none, sorry, in general, you have been given the death penalty by women. Finding a wife will be hard. If you find one, it will be others’ leftovers. Of course, there are also miracles, so it depends on if you are a lucky guy. Do not say what you have is talent, because without money, you are just straw [a friend, something there in a time of need]. So what if you can make airplanes? No money, nor handsome, even prostitutes will not look at you.

I want to emphasize: It is not the fault of women, it is the fault of the times we live in! (So that people scold me less, I can only say it this way.)

Let us now say why women are used for play. First, an old story: On a television show, an invited guest said to the audience: Money is all-powerful, there is nothing money cannot do, and it can even buy “love.” Soon after, he performed a test, saying to the audience: “All of the men in the audience, I will now offer you 50,000 RMB as long as you agree to give up your girlfriend or wife. If you agree, do not raise your hand. If you disagree, then raise your hand. Take note, I want you to be honest. Now, I offer 50,000.” The result was that all of the men in the audience raised their hands in refusal. At this time, the guest again offered: “500,000!” This time, there were some people who did not raise their hands, 500,000 after all was not a small number. The guest again counted off: “5 million!” It was over, in the whole audience only one person raised his hand, refusing to give up his girlfriend. However, this man’s girlfriend stood up and said she is willing. When asked why, her explanation was: “A man who can give 5 million for a woman truly loves her.” Hehe…it turns out that love can be measured by money. This woman believes that if someone will pay 5 million for her love must really love her, not knowing that her poor boyfriend gave up a 5 million enticement for her. Is the love purchased by those with money sincere? Haha…by now, everyone should know about a certain celebrity, whose family has money, produced so many love pictures [Sexy Photos Gate], affecting dozens of people, in the name of “love.” Is this celebrity’s love sincere? Surely, this “sincerity” is too promiscuous, yes? 5 million, this amount, is an astronomical figure in the eyes of the poor, but in the eyes of the rich, it is just the price of a dog. It is just for fun.

Everyone loves beauty. Men love beautiful women, and women are the same, they love handsome guys. If a guy has money, is handsome, wherever he goes, he is what women talk about. Ancient emperors, having listened to the malicious talk of others, have killed those loyal to them and have lost entire countries. These kind of people are many. Sweet words and honeyed phrases are what everyone loves to hear, especially women. Men, when listening to sweet words and honeyed phrases, can differentiate what is true and what is not true. Most women, simply cannot, sinking and throwing away a lifetime of happiness. How many women have ran to you crying, always saying they were deceived by the same men they originally claimed were so good and great. Why did it suddenly change? Haha…when they were so good and great it was because they had not yet succeeded in playing you. Once they had played you, there is no more novelty, no more taste, so of course you must be discarded. Actually, women think this kind of man is good not because of what the man actually does but because of his mouth and petty favors. The men that would really love you would not so casually make you promises, because he wants to become in your heart a true man, only wanting to give you the most dependable and secure happiness. The man who truly loves you will not simply hang his love on his lips, he places it in his heart. Those men that hangs their love on their lips all day, they do not even remember how many women they have gone to bed with. From their experiences with so many women, they have become proficient. They know what to say to what kind of woman and when to say it. Let us say, they understand very well what every woman wants in her hearts. This kind of man appears to be very gentlemanly because of all the many women he has practiced with. Women do not know that the men who really love you will not coax you to be happy temporarily because he wants to give you a lifetime of happiness. When he gives you a lifetime of love, what sweet words and honeyed phrases are necessary? A man who really loves you will use actions to show you his love. Men who only want to play you, other than sweet words and honeyed phrases and petty favors, what else is there?

Women are like a bottle of alcohol! When a man plays with you, he will treat you like a beer that he throws away like an empty bottle after he is finished with you. When a man loves you, he will hide you away like an expensive wine, using his entire life to sample you. But, women do not accept this, women will say, “The love you give me is too suffocating that I cannot breathe” (these are the words that some women often use when breaking up with men). She needs relaxed circumstances, haha…in the end, it is because she cannot resist outside temptation.

This kind of women, upon being discarded, shouts that she was deceived! In reality, these women knew from the beginning that the men playing them were artificial. Only in the end, like a beer bottle that has been drank and thrown away, do they act like they were hurt so others can feel bad for them and think they are “good women!” They did not care about the forever and ever, they only cared about what they once had. Many are the women who shouts like this. Only after being thrown away do they cry and curse.

True, in this world, there are innumerable good women, far more than men. However, good women are not perfect either. Because the men who play women, they all know that good women are precious. But, these men are too powerful. Good women, who cannot possibly be their match, easily fall into their traps.

Then, feel sorry for these good men. Their entire life, they may only love one or two or three women, but, amongst them all, some will never be a woman’s first love and some will never even have their own wife’s heart. Their true love is quietly given, no flowery language, only plain, honest action. Nothing exaggerated, only laborious footsteps. They took the empty bottles and carried them home, filling them with water and filling them with flowers, so that these bottles once again have life. But, bottles with life, how can they be satisfied with quietly enjoying life on a balcony? What she wants is a colorful life. So, now, maybe it is the men who get hurt more than the women!

Woman always use these words to keep down their husbands or future husbands: “Do you really love me? If you really love me, then you will not care about my past.” These words are words that every modern woman knows how to say. They make it seem as if a man who cares about her past must not really love them. The men who really love women, will not only love a woman’s present and future, they will also love your past. True, men under the pressure of the present times, must say “I do not care about your past.” In reality, when one’s wife is sound asleep, whose heart does hurt to death? Men have a virgin complex, but it is not simply because of virginity itself, but rather because of a woman’s first love. Women only know how to say “men who care about a woman’s past are bastards, trash!” I want to ask women, who is it that will be with you for the rest of your life? It is a man who truly loves you. It is not those men who play you.  You would rather give your most beautiful youth to men who only want to play you, and would rather not save it for the man who really loves you? A person’s youth is a treatsure, otherwise, women’s youth is that expensive!

Laughable!!!

Men are like a cup of water. If someone spat in this water, would you still want to drink it? Then, women are the same. Women, are like a blank piece of paper, for men to paint and write on it! A perfect love is like a fine scenery painting, it may have wind, it may have rain, but, without wind and rain this painting may not have life. Life is the same way! A good man may not have money, may not have a handsome appearance, may not have a witty mouth. But, he is the sunshine in the middle of the wind and rain! But, you are a piece of paper covered with footprints and no matter how excellent a man is, when he cannot paint a perfect painting, he will feel regret in his heart.

In general, I cannot count the number of women playboys get. But, men who love women, their entire lives may be lonely and miserable.

So, women are to be played, not to be loved!”

Some of the replies:

Those who can afford to play should play. Those who cannot afford to play should love.

I feel the same way, though…your mom is also a woman.

Looks like China’s notion of equality still has a long way to go…

Actually, women have already developed the idea of gender equality. Only when it comes to marriage, they suddenly forget equality and want the men to provide the house and the car. Strange, huh?

Women eh………fuck first then talk!

This may not sound good, but you have indeed pierced a sore spot for many women, hehe.

At first, when I looked at your topic, I thought you were a playboy, but after reading the content I realized you are just a sad man who cannot get a woman.

As a man, I have no power, no influence, and no money but I have never lacked women nor can their quality be considered poor. Although I too envy the beautiful girls that ride in sports cars and envy those men who can enjoy such beautiful girls, I have never thought the choices women make were somehow wrong.

According to your view, what women like is not the man but money, enchanting appearance, and sweet tongue.  Since you do not have these, you say women have eyes but cannot see, so they do not choose your kind of men, the men who are like gold hidden in the sand, right?

I believe those three things you mentioned are exactly the distinctive features of excellent men.  Who would not choose the good? Who does not like the good? Even when you are buying fruit, you will choose the freshest, most pretty ones. Moreover, when you pick a girl, do you not pick the pretty ones also? If I gave you a girl that looks like a pig, would you like her? Similarly, when women pick men they also have standards and I think their first standard would naturally be to choose men who have money and if their own capital is not enough then they will settle for someone who will be good and honest to them, or maybe some simply prefer those that look handsome. What is wrong with this? Furthermore, I strongly support women choosing those who have money, because most men are are unfaithful, those whose feelings can last decades and not change are too few. Getting money is the most practical thing to do. Do not entrust your happiness to a man, money is far more reliable than men!

One more thing I want to say to the original poster, this world can not be a fair world. Those good things, good resources are usually concentrated in the hands of a few. If you are a mediocre man, then you have no qualification to demand to have a good woman. In my opinion, here is a guy without any ability using a bit of so-called sincerity thinking he can sit there and do nothing waiting for beautiful women to throw themselves into his arms. Consequently, has developed a vengence against women because if he cannot eat the grapes the grapes must be sour.

Lastly, let me ask you a question: Can you love one woman for the rest of your life? What if around you there are constantly outstanding girls appearing?

Hehe, cannot afford to love, can only fuck.

You just got dumped, am I right? Either you you are mentally disabled or you have no money, are ugly, and you do not know how to coax women, doomed to be a 40+ year old man no one wants.

Not being able to conquer other people, in my opinion, is a difficult problem. There are in fact many women who will love you for your money. But, if both sides are willing there is nothing wrong. You clearly know they only want you for your money and you are willing to use money to exchange for other’s body, neither side owes the other. Who is playing who?

Written very well!
What a genius!

Men are still animals,
but long have women not even been animals.

The original poster says it very well. Women, these things! They made me renounce the being a good man!

Actually, men are the same. The women you love wants to play you and the women who loves you, you want to play. People are all used for play, no matter if they are men or women.

The original poster frankly thinks his mother is his father’s plaything.
His mother can get his father’s respect, but cannot get her son’s respect.
Original poster, do not play your daughter, just a friendly reminder, do not develop the habit of playing, or else you cannot control yourself.

Women.
When you love her, she plays you.
When you play her, she loves you.
Previously loved,
Was played before.
Now only plays,
No longer cares about loving or being loved.

I have always believed that men and women are not the same species.

It is better to own a dog than to keep a girlfirend.

Only saw the title…
I appeal to everyone to all go play with LZ’s wife…

Women without prospects are those who get played by men. Men without prospects are those who get played by women. LZ, let me ask, how many women have played you?

Today’s society, playing you is not the goal, the goal is to play you to death!

I admire a saying: Women are like dogs, he who has the ability can go take them for a walk!

Who here was not birthed by a dog and raised by a dog?

Woman = mom = older sister = younger sister = daughter.

Men who play women with money can only exchange for her body, but women who play men: they play with your money, they play with your body, and at the same time, they play a man’s heart to death. Shit, who knows who is playing who…

What do you think? Do you think women can only be used for play and not used to love?

See also:

• Pretty 1985 Shanghai Girl Wants Double-Eyelid Man
• Pretty Shanghai Girl Seeking Husband for Marriage
• ‘I like being a kept mistress, my life right now is great!’

Note: The pictures in this post are not related to the post from Tianya. They are a series of pictures called “Authentic pig man and anti-mainstream pretty girl’s sexy photos” that I saw in early July. Many Chinese were disgusted or angry that such a man could be with such a girl.

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