Adopted Shanxi Woman Finds Biological Parents

Adopted Shanxi Woman Finds Biological Parents

A woman in Shanxi has always known that she was adopted, and at 21 years old has decided to search the Internet for her lost family. After going through every method available she finally found her biological parents, who gave her away because it was their only option. Many female Chinese netizens who have also been given away by their family think that there’s no reason to find one’s biological parents, as they didn’t love them. They believe that their adopted parents are their real parents, as they’re the ones who treated them well.

Source: Tencent

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  • adopt others’ kids is too dumb.
    you never know what the gene is…

    • mr.wiener

      You don’t go in for a “Nature vs nurture” argument I guess.

      • Vance

        There are many ethnic Chinese in the world today because of adoption. There are a lot of families here with two American as apple pie parents and a Chinese as…well you guys probably can add the best word here more than I can…child in tow.

        • also i do not understand these people adopt kids from other race. it’s too strange.

          • Vance

            It happens all the time here. I think people try to match race whenever they can, and some will only adopt from their own race, but when people cannot have kids the natural way and they really want children, they often do not care about race.

    • Jahar

      Yeah. Imagine someone wanting to give a parentless child a better chance at a happy life.

      • there is a girl in my village, her parents brought her up, but just became her slaves. lazy as fk. even others can see how sad her parents are.
        some girls even grow up in decent family, after grow up run away with guys or become whores, turned out their mom were whores so threw them away.
        some high level parents try to educate their adopted kids but find out these kids are too dumb, really can not help.
        i will never even consider it!
        waste money and time maybe only bring a disater!

        • Vance

          Those situations still seem to me more like issues of parenting. Why did those parents LET their child enslave them? Yes if the mom is a whore or a slut, the daughter will learn that from her mom. Sometimes kids are not smart no matter who raises them. You are right that there is some risk that a child you adopt may have genetic defects that they do not know about because it is not their own genetic line, but the risk of genetic defects can also happen to any biological child as well. You never know what a person is like until they grow up.

        • Jahar

          you think that’s just because they were adopted? These things happen with children who aren’t adopted.

    • Vance

      Most of what your children will be like is in how you raise them.

  • Foreign Devil

    We can’t see translations of Chinese netizens comments anymore on here. . but at least we have Super Bunny! to give us the Chinese point of view :)

    • Vance

      Yea. CS should never again ban her. In fact, they probably should give her a few lottery tickets as a stipend. (I think that is the compensation she would appreciate most.) She is one of the fun parts of this site now!

      • mr.wiener

        She has to play nice like everyone else, but some people just can’t help tease the b…erm, dog.

        • ?????
          you mean who is dog????
          say it clear!!!!
          also i do not have to be nice at all! i even do not care if you block me again or not! 
          this site is lame as fk already, i do not care at all!

          • mr.wiener

            Eattot…all right I was mean …I apologise.
            I feel a certain sneaking affection for you as many of us do here at Cs. I am saddened about what this site has been reduced to,but that is ok also. I intend to see things through until the bitter end.
            You tell us all the time that you don’t care… but you keep coming back to tell us that,so I think somewhere under that growling exterior of yours you do care.. That’s ok too. Maybe I’ll see on other sites in the future.
            Take care hon.

          • 。。。。。

    • you did not get enought yet?
      go fk yourself!

  • donscarletti

    I always feel sorry for adoptive parents in such situations. I do not blame people for wondering about their biological parents, but loyalty to the people who took them in and raised them to adulthood should be enough for them to willingly suppress such desires.

    I have even seen un-filial pieces of shit revert their surnames to that of their biological parents. One I met even convinced his wife and children to change their surnames as well, which is plain disgusting.

    I think Steve Jobs was a great example to all adopted children. His biological “father” was a rake and he made it damn clear who his real parents were.

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