Couple Divorce Over Injury Compensation, Reactions

Couple Divorce Over Injury Compensation, Reactions

A news article about a married couple fighting has created an enthusiastic discussion because many netizens can relate to it all too well. A man was burned by accident at work so his wife began to take care of him, waiting on his every beck and call. The couple was awarded 850,000 RMB in compensation, which lead to fighting over how to use this large sum of money. In the past six years, they asked the court for divorce four times, but the judge kept trying for reconciliation. In the end they were allowed to divorce. Many netizens are very enthusiastic in sharing their similar experiences.

Source: Tencent

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  • Foreign Devil

    too bad Csmack is no longer enthusiastic about sharing Netizen comments.

    • Amused

      Yeah, some of these could be A LOT more interesting with the comments :/

      • donscarletti

        Moshang Huakai (flowers opening on the street) 2015-5-28 30767 Upvotes

        My husband is also like this, after the accident I ran backwards and forwards taking care of him, taking care of his affairs, taking him to hospital, when he had an operation his parents weren’t willing to see him, their excuse was that they got dizzy when going to new places, actually it’s was because they didn’t want to take responsibility or spend money! Afterwards, after his operation was finished, he left hospital, his parents were thinking that we didn’t have any money and had debts, so they made us leave! After a few months, the compensation came! Not much, 100K RMB! But his father and mother changed, he also changed, wanted to take all the money, saying me taking it was inappropriate! We are married as husband and wife, when he had an accident, I looked after him, his parents did nothing! I also borrowed money, now the operation is finished, compensation was compensated, I was a stranger again and he kicked me away! HA HA! Thinking about it chills my heart, men say women are materialistic! How can they not think of themselves. Men only say women are materialistic when they have no money, when they have money they are more materialist than anyone!

        Because of this little bit of money, his parents and he argued and fought with me! Afterwards I felt tired and gave him the money left after paying the debts, after he took it, his parents borrowed money, his brothers and family all came and borrowed money and dispersed all the money! The result was, after the operation he didn’t recover properly and needed another operation! But the money was all already wasted, at this time his parents and family like pigs all didn’t say anything and avoided us! He also argued with me that looking after him was my duty and I should find some money to give him medical care! After giving birth his parents didn’t help raising the kids and I already haven’t worked for over a year! Where will I go to to make money? My heart is already cold towards him and his parents! I’m thinking of divorcing him now! You tell me am I materialistic or are he and his parents without conscience?

        陌上花开2015-5-28


        老公也是,出了事故我跑前跑后的伺候他照顾他,一边跑他的事儿,一边在医院伺候他,他父母在他手术的时候也不愿意来看他,借口说来陌生的地方头晕,其实是
        不想管也怕花钱!后来他手术什么弄好了,出院回家,他父母想着我们没钱了又欠债,都避着我们走!后来又过几个月把赔偿跑下来了!不多,就十万块!但是他父
        母就变了。他也变了!要把这钱都要走,说我拿着不合适!我们结婚属于夫妻,他出事我四下跑还伺候他,他父母啥都不管!我还借了钱,现在他手术做了,赔偿赔
        了,就一句我再说也是个外人就把我踢开了!呵呵!想想都心凉!男人总说女人现实!怎么不想想自己呢。男人只有在没钱的时候说女人现实,有钱他比谁都现实!
        就因为那点钱他父母和他跟我闹啊打啊!后来我感觉很累,就把还帐剩下的钱给他拿,他拿了以后他父母也借钱,他兄弟亲戚都来借钱!他把钱都散出去了!结果术
        后他不好好锻炼,还要二次手术!可是钱已经被他糟蹋散完了!这时候他父母兄弟亲戚都他妈的像猪一样不说话躲开了!他又跟我闹说管他是我的义务!让我弄钱给
        他看病!生了孩子以后他父母不帮忙带孩子我已经一年多没上班了!我去哪弄钱?我对他和他父母太心凉了!我现在都想和他离婚!你们说是我现实还是他和他父母
        没良心呢?

        Aiyu (Love rain) (12680 upvotes)

        The man is handicapped, he worries that if lets the woman manage the money she will run away with it, being handicapped he doesn’t have any self confidence, also physiologically abnormal. How can a handicapped person manage money, in a normal household isn’t it always the man makes the money and the woman manages it? She’s so selflessly looking after you, you still suspect her of running away with the money, this is an insult towards such an upstanding woman.

        爱雨2015-5-28

        男的残废了,怕让女的管钱拿钱跑了,残废了就没一点自信了,心理也变态了。你一个残疾人管钱干什么,再一个一般家庭里不都是男人挣钱女人管钱吗?人家那么无怨言地照顾你,你却怀疑人家拿钱跑,这是对一个善良女人的污辱啊。

        tsing 2015-5-28 (11413 upvotes)

        Today I argued with my wife, when the argument got intense, I suddenly thought; why do I, a big man, need to prove myself against a woman? Much less my own wife! So then I apologized to her, my wife was thrilled. After apologizing, her older brother put down his knife, her younger brother put down his shovel, her younger sister stopped pulling my hair, her brother in law also put down his rolling pin, her father dropped his brick…

        tsing 2015-5-28
        今天和老婆吵架,吵到激烈的时候,我突然觉得我一个大男人为什么要和一个女人一般见识呢?何况还是自己的老婆!当时我就跟老婆道了歉,老婆挺高兴的。道完歉,她哥哥把菜刀放下了,她弟弟把铁锹也放下了,她妹妹拽着我头发的手也松开了,妹夫手里的擀面杖也扔地下了,老丈人也把砖头丢开了…

        • 42

          Bravo! Nice post! Shove it up them down their throats, maybe they will shut the f up and quit nagging. People here on chinasmack are indeed frigging too lazy to click on the source link, grab google translation by the balls from the internet and translate the motherfucker, you can go a long way with google translate, but nooooo, they rather depend on translation by the chinasmack editors for which they think they will bend over and serve them 24/7 for free……there is no free meal in this world, wake the f up! and learn some proper chinese and maybe you will start eating better food.

          • Vance

            Yea, but then I get junk email in Chinese.

          • David

            For anything more than a simple sentence Google Translate is shit.

          • donscarletti

            Google translation?

            Ouch man, ouch.

        • Amused

          Awesome man! That definitely makes for a MUCH better read.

        • David

          TY, that was great.

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