Daughter Gives Father Box Of Condoms For Father’s Day

more-shanghaiist-125x125From Shanghaiist:

“Belated gift ideas for Father’s Day: Condoms?”

[A] 13-year-old Chinese girl gave her single dad a box of condoms as the “ultimate gift for Father’s Day.”


According to Netease, the father who received a box of condoms as a present from his daughter on Father’s Day posted a photo of the letter that his daughter wrote (with the condoms next to it) online:


First of all, Happy Father’s Day! I am going to give a very special present today; I hope that you will not be mad at me! Hehe! (Pig head)

I know that you have been working hard in and outside of our house. You have to go on business trips often while taking good care of me. For your health and happiness in life, I bought the newest style of condoms for you! I have seen the same brand that you bought before in your drawer! (Heart)

I hope that you understand my heart! Haha~ Again, Happy Father’s Day! I also hope that you will find a pretty girlfriend soon! Hehe~ Relax, I won’t tell mom!

Your well-behaved daughter, Wenwen.
June 21st.”

Since the photo has been posted online, many netizens have expressed their feelings towards this incident. Some of them resented that the father did not respect his daughter’s privacy and posted the letter online; some others are surprised that the child is so precocious. However, most of the people are approved of what this lovely daughter did for her dad,

Your daughter is very understanding of you! She is afraid that you are lonely and asks you to find a girlfriend, very caring.

Your daughter wants you to find her a mother.

Don’t scold your daughter! She is so cute!

People seem to like what the girl did for her father. However, in most cases, Chinese still have doubts about condoms — the condoms can surely prevent STD and pregnancy, but does approving condom using mean to support premarital sex?

more information at: Shanghaiist

Note from Fauna: Here are some more translated comments:

网易广东广州越秀网友 [joycesun96]:

I used to treat them like balloons. One time, I found one in a pile of garbage, and I really washed it clean and played with it like a balloon. It was only after I got married and saw my husband use it that I finally realize what they were. However, kids these days are probably not as stupid as we were back then. Actually, 13-year-old kids should know about these things at their age. As parents, we should be calm and at ease [about these things].

网易山东济南网友 [guoairong010]:

I feel like this is a soft advertisement, or an advertorial, for some condom brand, or that website is intentionally making fake news/playing a hoax.

网易浙江台州温岭网友[1111] ip:61.153.*.*:

China National Pig Brand [pun for Chinese National Football Team]. Can go 90 minutes without shooting.

网易山东烟台网友[2009的反对] ip:221.214.*.*:

Forward-thinking. Maybe in the future it will develop to the point where she helps her father put it on?!

网易江西景德镇网友 [hua1204] 的原贴:

[Responding to above] Your heart is perverted/abnormal, aren’t you promoting incest here? Truly mentally retarded.

网易广西南宁网友[天山] ip:116.10.*.*:

[Responding to above]


When it is used as a contraceptive, use it with insiders; when it is used to protect against STDs, use it with outsiders.

In Chinese, there are two names for condoms: 避孕套, bi yun tao, and 安全套, an quan tao. The above comment is a joke using these two different names and purpose for condoms.

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  • poyo


    “I used to treat them like balloons.”

    I used to do that when i was young
    i did not know the true purpose of it

    • The worst part is that she picked up it from the friggin’ garbage!

  • donsushi8

    hope daddy won’t get sick when he fucks some bitch behind mama’s back. harmonious society.

  • mechanized

    yeah whats with the i won’t tell mom deal about the girlfriend…….. i hope they are divorced. geez

  • fireworks

    How about throw in a year’s subscription to PB or PH.


  • Oceanna



      Is engineering world empire not enough for you? Do you really want to own everything? Asshole.

  • krdr

    Beautiful! What a subversive marketing! This girl rocks. First, she cares about her mother health, second, her father will never cheat again.

    What bugs me, is how this pic get online. I don’t think that father upload it.

  • shanghairocks

    She is quite some experienced it seems :D

  • laowai

    Once a girlfriend caught me cheating by taking a condom count and realizing there was one missing. Tried to convinced her that I did not cheat by telling her I stubbed my big toe and could not stop it bleeding. Without any band aids in the house had to use a rubber to stop the blood flow!!!

    • ~YuUkI~

      LOLL ok im not saying that that was a good thing that you did but that excuse made me LOL hahahah

  • Icedew

    Pretty sure its the daddy’s girlfriend that found the letter and post it online. Some Chinese girls are that insane to check every draw you have to see what you have. Its like impossible to hide presents from these kind of girls. And I think this dad unluckily found himself these kind of girls who found his letter.

  • ~YuUkI~

    lol young ppl these days (wait a minute, im a “young ppl” too lol. Yes my mom did tell me that i know too much. I’m only fourteen. I found a box of condoms in my dad’s drawer 2 years ago and i knew what it was. Actually i knew everything about sex and stuff ever since i was 10. It’s freaky how much we know. My mom actually asked me where i learned the word “Sexual intercourse” and i’m like “It’s called SCHOOL.” Hahah and she was like “*sigh* western schools now adays…i never learned such things when i was small!” btw, im asian too.

  • warped0ne

    First of all, she’s not encouraging her father to cheat on her mother, the very first line of the post is “13-year-old Chinese girl gave her SINGLE dad a box of condoms as the “ultimate gift for Father’s Day.” (my CAPS) I think it’s a fairly nice gesture. She’s saying, “Dad, move on with your life, I won’t get mad if you’re with someone other than mom.” A lot of adults aren’t able to say that to divorced parents, let alone 13 year old children.

    I did find one thing very disturbing though, 2 of the last 3 Chinese comments;

    “Forward-thinking. Maybe in the future it will develop to the point where she helps her father put it on?!”


    “When it is used as a contraceptive, use it with insiders; when it is used to protect against STDs, use it with outsiders.”

    Incest, promoting incest, and condoning incest, is really screwed up.

    • procrastinatoroftheuniverse

      i think they’re joking around. it’s the typical incest joke you would find on reddit. they’re not promoting it but you’ve gotta admit, this is a bizarre situation and people are responding with bizarre jokes.

    • Mother is dead.

      Article says he is a SINGLE father.

      > First of all, she’s not encouraging her father to cheat on her mother,

  • Tea

    Response to above: I agree with everything you said, BUT unfortunately, the last sentence in the letter said,”I won’t tell mom”. That makes the whole thing disturbing. =/

  • Bill

    “When it is used as a contraceptive, use it with insiders; when it is used to protect against STDs, use it with outsiders.”

    I agree with this. A Chinese girl that I slept with 1 month after she came to USA gave me an STD. Luckily antibiotics cured that.

    • procrastinatoroftheuniverse

      you’re the dumbass that didn’t use protection though. we’ve been learning since we were kids in the US in sexed class. how did it still not get through your brain after all these years?

  • jin

    ehm did you people even read it??? she said that her father have to work and take care of her at the same times. meaning that her mother is probably dead?

    • It says he is a single father at the TOP of the article.

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