A post online has lead to heated debate. A women from Shanghai said that she and her JiangXi boyfriend returned to his village for a festival, but immediately after seeing the food she wanted to break up with him. She expressed that her parents were against her being with an outsider, especially such a poor one. The top comment, with over 10,000 “likes” said that they had a similar situation with dating an outsider. But her Mom was supportive, and told her that raising boys isn’t easy, so as long as they treat her well it’s fine. In the end this commenter married her outsider boyfriend and they have an eight-year-old son together.