Bride Discovers Groom’s Secret Gay Lover On Wedding Day

A Chinese bride demands her groom to explain who this other man is.

A bride in China arguing with a man who claims to be the groom's boyfriend.

The following viral video features what appears to be a bride fighting with the groom’s secret gay lover as the groom tries to explain. On popular Chinese video-sharing website Youku, it has already accumulated over 2 million views in less than 24 hours as it quickly spreads throughout popular Chinese social networks such as Sina Weibo, Tencent QQ, and RenRen.

A copy on YouTube, with our translated subtitles:

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The translated dialogue:

Boyfriend: You shut up, us two were together long before you entered the picture!
Bride: What do you mean you two were together long before I was in the picture?
Groom: Hey hey, don’t get physical, don’t get physical.
Bride: Just who the fuck are you!?
Boyfriend: Shut up!
Bride: It’s my wedding, what are you doing here?! Who are you? Who is he?
Groom: Wait, wait, wait.
Bride: Who is he? Tell me, who is he?
Groom: Let me explain.
Boyfriend: Don’t explain to her.
Bride: What are you doing, what fucking business is it of yours?
Best Man: Enough, enough, both of you calm down.
Bride: Tell me, who is he? Who is he?!
Bride: You come back here!

The secret boyfriend of the groom fights with the bride.

The Chinese groom attempts to separate his bride from his secret gay lover.

Comments from Youku:


If my wife was also like this and had a lesbian xiaosan, I wouldn’t argue, the 3 of us could live together, I wouldn’t mind, ahahahaha! 稀饭


If I may be so bold to ask, is this filming for a TV show/film?????


I really want to know what happened in the end…搞笑


This is fake, it was already said on [Sina] Weibo, this was a scene in a show/film~~~ I will never again believe in love. 难过难过


Homosexual love is very difficult. Being able to pull away the man he loves in public, that’s very brave. If this guy still loves that so-called “xiaosan“, then don’t get married with that woman. As a homosexual, I am very sympathetic. The poor guys!!


Why does everyone call that guy who is breaking up the wedding a xiaosan??? He was the original partner~~ PS: I still feel this video is a little fake~ like it was filmed intentionally~


If they truly love each other, then let them go. This poor girl.


The acting is a bit poor but it was very amusing, ding!


To be honest, I can’t tell how it is fake… I don’t know if it is me who is stupid or others. Does anyone they think it is fake?


This world is so crazy. Don’t know if it is me who is too far behind [the times], or if it is you guys who are too far ahead… 汗


It is always the women who are cheated/lied to, regardless of whether the xiaosan is a man or a woman. The result is always the same.


Truly remarkable, it is that woman who is the xiaosan. Poor thing, though she should be happy too, because if she became a gay man’s wife, think how much more tragic that would have been~ Finally, I want to wish the best to this pair of brave lovers, that they may be together happily~ Everyone be a little more understanding and tolerate~ After all, with life being so short and their love not affecting anything of yours, is having a bit more universal love [acceptance] a bad thing?


Can this be what love is? I believe there is still love in this world, haha…

A Chinese bride demands her groom to explain who this other man is.

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Written by Fauna

Fauna is a mysterious young Shanghainese girl who lives in the only place a Shanghainese person would ever want to live: Shanghai. In mid-2008, she started chinaSMACK to combine her hobby of browsing Chinese internet forums with her goal of improving her English. Through her tireless translation of popular Chinese internet news and phenomenon, her English has apparently gotten dramatically better. At least, reading and writing-wise. Unfortunately, she's still not confident enough to have written this bio, about herself, by herself.


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