Bride Discovers Groom’s Secret Gay Lover On Wedding Day

A Chinese bride demands her groom to explain who this other man is.

A bride in China arguing with a man who claims to be the groom's boyfriend.

The following viral video features what appears to be a bride fighting with the groom’s secret gay lover as the groom tries to explain. On popular Chinese video-sharing website Youku, it has already accumulated over 2 million views in less than 24 hours as it quickly spreads throughout popular Chinese social networks such as Sina Weibo, Tencent QQ, and RenRen.

A copy on YouTube, with our translated subtitles:

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The translated dialogue:

Boyfriend: You shut up, us two were together long before you entered the picture!
Bride: What do you mean you two were together long before I was in the picture?
Groom: Hey hey, don’t get physical, don’t get physical.
Bride: Just who the fuck are you!?
Boyfriend: Shut up!
Bride: It’s my wedding, what are you doing here?! Who are you? Who is he?
Groom: Wait, wait, wait.
Bride: Who is he? Tell me, who is he?
Groom: Let me explain.
Boyfriend: Don’t explain to her.
Bride: What are you doing, what fucking business is it of yours?
Best Man: Enough, enough, both of you calm down.
Bride: Tell me, who is he? Who is he?!
Bride: You come back here!

The secret boyfriend of the groom fights with the bride.

The Chinese groom attempts to separate his bride from his secret gay lover.

Comments from Youku:


If my wife was also like this and had a lesbian xiaosan, I wouldn’t argue, the 3 of us could live together, I wouldn’t mind, ahahahaha! 稀饭


If I may be so bold to ask, is this filming for a TV show/film?????


I really want to know what happened in the end…搞笑


This is fake, it was already said on [Sina] Weibo, this was a scene in a show/film~~~ I will never again believe in love. 难过难过


Homosexual love is very difficult. Being able to pull away the man he loves in public, that’s very brave. If this guy still loves that so-called “xiaosan“, then don’t get married with that woman. As a homosexual, I am very sympathetic. The poor guys!!


Why does everyone call that guy who is breaking up the wedding a xiaosan??? He was the original partner~~ PS: I still feel this video is a little fake~ like it was filmed intentionally~


If they truly love each other, then let them go. This poor girl.


The acting is a bit poor but it was very amusing, ding!


To be honest, I can’t tell how it is fake… I don’t know if it is me who is stupid or others. Does anyone they think it is fake?


This world is so crazy. Don’t know if it is me who is too far behind [the times], or if it is you guys who are too far ahead… 汗


It is always the women who are cheated/lied to, regardless of whether the xiaosan is a man or a woman. The result is always the same.


Truly remarkable, it is that woman who is the xiaosan. Poor thing, though she should be happy too, because if she became a gay man’s wife, think how much more tragic that would have been~ Finally, I want to wish the best to this pair of brave lovers, that they may be together happily~ Everyone be a little more understanding and tolerate~ After all, with life being so short and their love not affecting anything of yours, is having a bit more universal love [acceptance] a bad thing?


Can this be what love is? I believe there is still love in this world, haha…

A Chinese bride demands her groom to explain who this other man is.

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  • thunderkat211

    Suprised a story like this hasn’t appeared even sooner.
    They will probably stay together because I bet when they married, they probably just did it to please the parents….just like every other fake marriage in China.

    • Andao

      *just like every other marriage in China


      • Jaycee

        so all chinos are gay???

    • jin

      you idiots dont know anything, and act like you know everything ^^ just so you know not all marriages in china are arranged marriage ROFL.

      • Irvin

        lol agreed, I don’t know a single friend or anyone I associate with had an arranged marriage. However alot of marriages do happened due to pleasing of parents.

        Or at least get their approval and blessing. But then this phenomenon isn’t exclusively chinese.

  • ##BlothaLonely##

    This is the best story on ChinaSmack this year, so far..

  • The Other Guy

    Time for her to jump off a building in her wedding dress.

    • tengu

      Not another one jumping., they’re exhausting me!

  • The Other Guy

    What the groom does in the bedroom is not lonliness, but gay sweaty buttsecks.

    • “What the groom feels in the bride’s vagina is not friction, but fiction/loneliness.”

      There, FIXED it for you, two jokes for the price of one meme.

  • The Other Guy

    One day she’s going to viciously beat up and strip down one of his gay lovers on the street.

  • I’ll be the first to say: staged. Don’t know what they are selling, maybe it’s to raise awareness of homosexual rights, but no way on the hallowed graves of three generations of venerable ancestors does a Chinese bride show up on her wedding day without an entourage of family members/bodyguards preventing something like this happening. Where are they? Standing behind the cameraman so we 2 million Youku viewers can have an unfettered view?

    Help me out, comrades: while the boyfriend is as gay as a tree full of robins, the groom couldn’t tell a second asshole from a glorious hole in the public bathroom stall, amirite?

    • GodsHammer

      The family must be shocked rigid by this…or This must be a university acting class / film project. The exercise is to put this on the internet and collect data in the form of responses…

    • Patrick

      Yeah I have to call bullshit on this one. The gay lover runs off hand-in-hand with the groom. He should have topped it off with a pink polo shirt and checkered shorts with fake korean glasses – would have made it more plausible.

    • tengu

      Looks staged or a stunt of some sort.

      “…gay as a tree full of robins…” may I use that with appropriate attribution?

    • guobao2

      Definitely fake. I was onboard (Chinese people can be incredibly loud in public) until he grabbed his hand and they both ran. Sorry, too many straws,,

  • chengdude

    Ooooh yeah, Smack is Back! Who needs Springer?

    • McCurry


    • Thats right comrade, the SMACK is BACK!

      I was reading this article,

      and this song came to mind…..

      So Happy Together
      -The Turtles

      • Tony Leung, Leslie Cheung, Argentina – but it was all a long time ago . . . .

        • NO…..

          Smack are you Back?

          I love you!

          Secondary Song of the Article

          Never Ending Story
          -Within Temptation

          got a signal?
          got 50c?

  • She was all “WTF you mean I’m not getting a house?”
    This looks like one of those “viral videos” that push a product at the end that get posted to ChinaSmack, but there was no product.

  • Alex

    He just did it for the lulz.

  • eddie9684

    wtf is wrong with people if this video/news is even true… gosh..

  • 宝贝王

    Dear Chinasmack,
    你们的网站是一样糟糕的美国脱口秀节目。为什么这么生气许多妇女的故事?我想了解更多关于疯狂的中华文化, not Jerry Springer show!

    • anon

      One, your Chinese sucks.

      Two, this video falls under the category of “crazy Chinese culture” (though of course not exclusively Chinese) so you’ve answered your own question.

  • Irvin

    Well what do you know, the third leg has a third leg LOL

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    STAGED! You know why? Because there are not such things like gays and hookers in China..

    • monyxie

      not gays but GEE-YOU.

  • pepsi

    gotta love the constant references in the comments to previous chinasmack articles hahahaha

  • Jess

    I really don’t like guys who wear white tuxes. Nobody wear them, please!

    • tengu

      Bad tie and belt as well…

  • Rod

    Sounds like a Korean TV show I saw once…

  • Carl Hungus

    It’s a Faaaaaaaake!!!!

  • Lee

    LMFAO… gay people are sick…

  • kai chang

    haha drama drama drama….

  • Sieta

    So it does happen in real life then! Yikes!

  • Wow. She looks so angry after learning this that I bet she could take them both out…

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  • fx

    staged for sure.if it’s not.the groom is a pussy and i would beat the shit out of those two bitches if i was the bride