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‘China Does Not Have Any Men Suitable For Me’

Pretty Asian girl holding glass of wine.A Shanghai Jiaotong University female’s views on marriage.

Author: Self-professed leader of the Jiaotong University football [soccer] cheerleading team.

I am a female student of Shanghai Jiaotong University. It’s my first time writing a post. Please don’t laugh at my bad writing.

Everyone has an ideal in life. Some wants to become a hero, some wants to become rich, some other desires to become a leader. So what about me? My greatest wish in life is to marry a Western1 man. Some might say I am very vulgar, or even a turncoat, but I am a very traditional girl. To me, the most important thing in life is marriage. There is a very trendy saying currently, that studying well is not as good as marrying well. Marrying the right man is more important than anything else.

Some might ask, “Are there not enough good men in China?” Sorry, I have not considered before. As for the reason, don’t be impatient. Sofa, stool, the floor, take your pick, and listen to this girl’s reasons one by one.

I. China does not have any men suitable for me.

I am a very distinct/outstanding girl. In terms of academics, I am studying at a famous university, have an excellent academic record, and I am not one who wears thick glasses or sticks her head into books like a high-IQ geek. I have an excellent figure, an amazing look and a cultivated style of conversation. I am the leader of the football [soccer] cheerleading team. I took part in the local beauty pageants many times. I also have an interest for music, dance and art. Additionally, I often write some gossips for the newspaper. In summary, I am an excellent girl in every aspect. But what kind of man should I marry? There are lots of boys who are pursuing me, and most of my friends have boyfriends as well.

But when they graduate, they either break up, or they start talking about marriage, about family matters and where to settle down. They talk so seriously about everything, expect for love which is the most important thing in a marriage. I am very passionate about my life, I wish to have both a excellent materialist and spiritual life. Sorry that I can’t find that on a Chinese man. Marry a schoolmate, eventually become a white collar in a company? Can that afford a house?

I want to have a huge living room, big enough to be like a small salon. I could be together with my friends talking about anything under the sun, savoring high quality wine. Even the bathroom must be big enough to fit in a large bathtub, for two people, so I can put on some gentle music and spend a romantic night with my beloved husband.

Also, the guy I marry must at least have enough money to buy a car, right? Or am I supposed to go to work by bus everyday? It is like in a freezer in winter, and in a microwave in summer, and within a few years a beautiful young girl will become a dark-skinned granny. Besides, are you guys really willing to let a white-collar beauty like me be pushed around by those dirty migrant workers?

China definitely does not lack rich men, but have a look at what kind of people they are. How many of them succeeded due to their own effort, ability or honesty? If they are not brick-moving labour contractors, then they are coal-digging boss from Shanxi, or they are corrupt. They are neither civilised, nor do they have a good bearing. How am I supposed to converse with them? To be honest, they will regard it as art if you are able to hum a few lines of pop music.

When they have money, they will go out eating, drinking, visiting prostitutes, or gambling. Just trying to live a peaceful life would be difficult. There are already people coming to the university to pursue me, extending their arms to give me business cards showing that they are some CEO, chairmen of the board, high-ranking bureaucrats, each of them wealthier and more arrogant than the other. Some even directly suggest me to be their concubine. Oh my God! I may not be an exceptionally beautiful woman, but I am at least a young and beautiful girl, who worked very hard for years to get into a prestigious university, and I can only be a mistress?!

II. Western countries have better living conditions.

Even if a rich single guy, outstanding, elegant, and falls in love with me, hmph hmph, this girl [referring to self] still will not really want to marry him. To be blunt, I just want to marry into the West. The Western world I have seen in television and movies is simply like heaven: clean streets, elegant buildings, pure air. Regardless whether bustling cities or quiet villages, everything seems to be so peaceful and harmonious. Regardless their academic background, everyone is very polite.

Based on this MM‘s [my] abilities, I could of course be a woman who lives in a villa, but so what? Even if we can afford a villa, can we buy clean air? Isn’t there dirt and dust everywhere in this country? The rural areas are better, but I don’t want to go there. Wouldn’t it be weird, if while I am sun-bathing in a bikini at my swimming pool a bunch of farmers outside the fence carrying baskets of dung stare at me? Tibet indeed has very pure air, but please, this girl is afraid of high attitude sickness.

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I especially dislike the current living environment. Every home has anti-theft doors, and despite having lived in the same building for years, everyone is awkward every time they meet each other. Many people can’t even be bothered to bring their garbage downstairs, piling it up in front of the doors in the summer stinking. Sometimes I even wonder whether I am not living together with a bunch of cavemen. Rice has poison, milk powder will result in big heads, pork is from floods, oil is from the ditches, just thinking about it makes me terrified.

Sorry, you want me to love you, give me a reason first? Don’t have any? Start loving foreign countries. The American “home town” [sic], France’s vinyards, Spanish coastal towns, British medieval villages, it could be any of those. One of my schoolmates went to study abroad in Canada, and brought his/her father there for half a year. and when he came back he would whine: “Ai, that [Canada] is really a place fit for people to live.” Don’t give me any excuses, if you want my love, you have to give me a reason, right?

The costs of living in China is too high. We spend like Americans and earn like Africans. My parents worked hard to send me to university, so I should repay them and take care of them right? Even I become a high-ranking white-collar, would the salary really be that high? My parents are getting old. If they become ill and hospitalised, what can I do about the excessively expensive medical bills? Western countries have universal health care. Especially the job market in China, there is nothing to be praised. Each time I see the over-crowded job fairs, I almost get a heart attack. Dear me! The job fairs are rather like WW2 Omaha Beach (Normandy on D-Day). I am a delicate girl, how can I squeeze through these smelly guys?

As a modern woman, the first task in life is to survive, study and get into university, find a job, save money for a house, and save money for retirement. Which one of these does not require slaving away? Isn’t it tiring? If my fellow schoolgirls did not become dark-skinned grannies after graduating, they found a rich person to marry, and allow their husbands to go out eating, drinking, visiting prostitutes, and gambling, pretending they do not know, why suffer?

Pretty Asian girl.

III. Western boys are all very excellent.

Having said this much, that the environment is good, material things are good, this third point is what I value the most: I simply like Western men. Ever since I was small, I liked watching Western movies, such as Roman Holiday” or “Gone with the Wind,” and I liked watching the Westerners in the movies, their faces are all so sharp and distinctive, especially their charming coloured eyes, their straight pronounced noses, their tight smooth lips. Moreover, the majority of Westerners are tall, have strong and handsome physiques, and always so sexy. Then I look at the Chinese guys around me: Ignoring the small eyes, they have lumpy noses, thick lips, and if their skin is tanned a bit, they look remarkably like Africans. Those who have been educated almost all look malnourished, making me worried whether they can protect me or not. Occasionally, there is a muscular man, but despite having grown a head, they did not grow a brain.

Many college guys are pursuing me, and other guys in society also often ask me out on dates, but there are not many I like. Each of them either look like a soy sprout, or like Ultraman [character from a Japanese TV show], each of them unkempt, and at minimum each of them do not pay attention to their own image. Many of the guys spit in public, I particularly dislike people who do this. Only little children and animals defecate and urinate everywhere, and spitting in public is not much better than defecating and urinating in public, so at most they count only as half-civilised.

The majority of Western men carry themselves elegantly and well, because they received good education from when they were small. In our city there are McDonald’s and KFC restaurants, and I often go there with friends to eat. All the Western men in the restaurants seem to have good upbringing, opening doors for others to enter first. Chinese guys, the moment the door opens, they rush towards the counter, often colliding with people exiting, as if they were the reincarnation of someone who starved to death in their last life. The Westerners1 who enter all stand in line, Chinese men rush up in a crowd, surrounding the counter shouting their orders. as if they haven’t eaten any food in a long time. And without being ashamed, they throw their trash wherever after eating, but those Westerners would fold up the waste paper in their trays, making it convenient to dispose, and what they haven’t finished, they throw go dispose of in the wastebins by themselves. The two are simply are not the same level of people.

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Furthermore, some Chinese men lack a sense of independence, only knowing how to revolve around girls, living like a super nanny. I feel they don’t have a self, sticking their thoughts on girls all day. Getting on the bus, they scramble for a seat, then busy themselves trying to give it to a girl, not caring about the elderly or children beside them, that I am embarrassed to sit down. This kind of men I also look down upon, revolving around their girlfriends before marriage, revolving around their wives after marriage, revolving around their bosses at work, and revolving around the kitchen after work. No thoughts, no temper, my god, I would be afraid of the son I have with this man being like his father, a model citizen so obviously cultivated by an authoritarian country.  What girl does not like a man with personality and courage?

Western men were all raised in an environment of independence. They have independent thinking, not like Chinese men, who are parrots.  Take my schoolmates for example. When the government talks about Japan and China’s good bilateral relationships, they like Japan. When the government promotes nationalism, they shout about attacking Japan. Each and every one of them are brainless, played like monkeys by others, yet still thinking themselves to be high and mighty. The whole lot of them a bunch of “pig headed men.”

There are some things I cannot say in real life, so I can only say them online.

Pretty Asian girl on steps.

In summary, I simply want to marry a Westerner, at best an American, but European is not bad either. As for  criteria…I am not very demanding, it is no big deal even if his education is lower than mine, and no specific requirements about his work…isn’t the monthly salary for washing dishes at McDonald’s over a thousand USD? This can still allow him to buy a car and house. If this isn’t possible, I will just find a divorced man and be willing to be a stepmother. Besides, Western children have a strong sense of independence, at least they will not let me always clean up after them and cater to their every whim, right? If even this is not possible, Japanese or Korean men I would also consider, I would even consider marrying a Korean or Japanese. At worst, they will not cook for me.  No matter what, I just want to leave the country and go to the West, if not for freedom then for money.2

I admit I am very worldly, but I don’t consider my thinking to be wrong. I am not hurting other people, I just want to live a better life, whether it is materially or culturally. I watched an American show “Desperate Housewives.” That quiet village, clean streets, green lawns, and elegant, polite neighbours, and I knew, that is the kind of life I want.

This story has actually been on the Chinese internet for some time, maybe a year. It will occasionally reappear and there will be new comments by netizens who have not read the story before. Copies of the original Chinese can be found on Xinhua and Baidu.

Notes:

1 She used the words 老外 [lǎo wài] and 西方男人 [xī fāng nán rén] here interchangeably which literally mean “old foreigner” and “Western men” respectively. I consistently used the word “western”, although “老外 [lǎo wài]” of course would theoretically also include Korean or Japanese. But it is usually applied to Westerners or countries with a similiar political or cultural system.

2 The original Chinese words used were 选票 [xuǎn piào] and 钞票 [chāo piào] which mean “vote” and “banknotes” respectively. They both end in the same character, literally saying “voting slip” and “money slip”.

Comments from Baidu:

Clever, very clever!!! Only one sentence, nothing more to say.

First: With this kind of mindset, even if I was rich I would not want.
Second: This kind of female, is suitable for being a walking corpse [rotten, useless person]
Third: Counting three generations upwards, your ancestors were all peasant farmers. According to your thinking, all of your male ancestors would never be able to get a wife, so please tell me where did you come from?
Fourth: After letting the dogs fuck you ten thousand times, let then every Japanese do you. Go become a comfort woman for the Japanese.

After reading that, I am speechless. But I forced myself to write a reply, for the dignity of Chinese men. I tried hard not to immediately curse you, but in the end I cannot stop myself. You are simply a woman who did not get enough dick in your last life, what damn qualifications do you have for scolding Chinese men, including all the men in your family, and of course your own father. I imagine your dad would be pissed to death after reading this, and even if he did not die, he would become an idiot because your dad is also a Chinese man. You have grown up wasting how much of the country’s resources, and have you made just one day’s contribution to the country after graduating? Instead, you deny/reject your own ancestors, you “white eyed wolf” [someone who bites the hand that feeds her]. Had he known you were like this, your dad should have held back three seconds so he could ejaculate onto the wall instead, to save me from being pissed off today because of you, wasting my time to replying to this post.

Everyone has the right to choose their own life. As a Chinese, her being able to write out all of this is also not an easy thing to do, so it is possible that Chinese men really have let you down. I don’t know if you wrote this post in one go, I think it is not bad, and demonstrates your writing talent. But have a closer look at your essay: Everything you know about what is outside of the country comes from movies and media. I don’t know whether you are still studying or already working, but I want to say that nothing in the real world is absolute. Where there are good people, there will also be bad people; this is a very balanced world. Furthermore, have you done the calculations? How much wealth can you create? Everyone is clear about what they want, especially someone who has received higher education like you. Marriage is not like dating, marriage is even less a joke. Who do you think would look for a recent graduate who, other than being well-educated and pretty (this is what you said, I have never met you), cannot create any value? I say this without implying anything else, only wanting to say that if you want to reach your goal, should you not first consider for a moment where your own worth is?

Having your own dream is a virtue. For human being, he (she) has even more charm. But the form of this kind of dream must have a kind of self-sketched ability, and not something that goes by the book. This dissertation/thesis is a bowl of “hui guo rou” [a Chinese dish of recooked pork].

What a lamentable person! What reasons caused this outcome? This is a problem worth pondering by every Chinese person!

I neither support or am against your thinking. Everyone has the right to choose their own life, just like those in the red-light districts working the night shifts. They themselves are very happy, they do not have to do anything, yet they can get anything. From their perspective, I can understand them. After all, there are people in this world who have self-respect and self-love, and those who wallow in degeneration, and can sell their dignity and soul to chase material comforts, people who live life one day at a time.
Everyone has their way to find happiness, it does not need to be the same.
But I still want to ask you, do you believe in lifelong love? Although I have not found it, I believe in it!

Comments from 6park:

Continue your daydreaming! A foreigner would not give money to you!
He thinks it’s his money. If you want to spend money, earn your own! Haha…

Don’t get upset. Put her abroad for five years, and then let her see whether foreign men or Chinese men are good. She still has this good image about abroad like from the early 90s.

Obviously, this woman has never seen real foreign men.

Support! That’s a girl with a strong character.

Foreign men also drink, gamble and go to prostitutes. Them having money doesn’t mean that you can spend it.

Trash woman.

Pretty Asian girl sitting down bending over.See more views on love and marriage by Chinese women and netizens:

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Images: These images are not of the author. I am not sure if the author added the pictures to her original post or if other netizens added them when they reposted her essay. Some of the pictures were stupid so I did not include them here but I include two. One is extra – Fauna.

Written by Fauna

Fauna is a mysterious young Shanghainese girl who lives in the only place a Shanghainese person would ever want to live: Shanghai. In mid-2008, she started chinaSMACK to combine her hobby of browsing Chinese internet forums with her goal of improving her English. Through her tireless translation of popular Chinese internet news and phenomenon, her English has apparently gotten dramatically better. At least, reading and writing-wise. Unfortunately, she's still not confident enough to have written this bio, about herself, by herself.

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  1. 墜落的中國女人
    上篇: 从小脚女人到世界公交车!(华人必读)
                
            这是一个很沉重的话题,当你来到欧美发达国家的大街上,看见太多的中国女人和白人男子在一起,却很少看见中国男人带著西方女人逛大街。中国女人在西方的形像,从五四运动之前的小脚女人到今天的世界公交车,还不到一百年的时间,这到底是什麼原因呢?
                
            我在德国和法国生活了十八年,对此感触颇多,谈谈自己在欧洲的所见所闻所思吧:
                
            一、海外女华人与老外的性行為的歷史和现状
                
            1、“二十年以前很少见到这种情况!”
                
             八十年代和九十年代初出国的中国人,以温州人和公派出国人员為主。
             温州人很排斥和老外婚嫁,即使是现在2008年,如果有温州女人嫁给老外,她在温州人的圈子裡面也会遭到排斥。
             八九十年代出国的温州女人也有极少数嫁给老外的(不超过当时在国外的温州女人总数的5%),这些极少数的嫁老外的温州女人,当年也都是為了居留身份嫁老外,后来基本上也都和老外离婚了。
             现在欧洲的温州男人比绝大部分老外都有钱,基本上没有听说温州女人嫁老外了,即使有,也很少很少。相反,现在已经有不少温州男人娶了西方女人。
             我不是温州人,也不反对中国女人嫁老外。但我在这个问题上很佩服温州人,他们是海外华人的最大群体,却是女性嫁老外比率最低的群体。
             还有,当年公派出去的中国女人很少,思想也没当今开放,跟老外的也不多。
                
            2、十多年前是小女人发疯!
                
              九十年代后期开始,大批年轻女孩通过各种方式到西欧,这些人大多是65-75年左右出生,来自祖国各地,经歷了改革开放后对西方国家的极端崇拜的年代,加上当时中国和西方经济差距太大,中国连高速公路和超市都没有。一来到欧洲,就被西方彻底征服了,碰见西方男人,真的是自动脱裤子。当时德国的华人圈子裡面的流行话是这样的“扛洋枪、舔洋炮,躺在床上学洋叫!”
                 我和我老婆都是中国人,在北京结婚后一起出国定居的,对中国人圈子裡的这些事情太清楚了。当时,我们在德国,我感到了作為中国男人的羞耻,她感到了作為中国女人的悲哀!
                
            3、现在是老女人发疯!
                
             现在要说的是最近5年,大批45-55岁的老女人,偷渡到法国,他们90%来自东北,少数来自青岛、河北、内蒙等地。她们居然就站在大街小巷卖淫,白人黑人阿人都可以,让人非常气愤。如果你不相信,请要你在巴黎的朋友座地铁4号线去saint-denis strasbourg站出来,看看肯德基麦当劳门口有多少中国老女人!这裡不是红灯区,是巴黎的普通街区,法国的电视台都曝光她们好多次了!
             还有,她们通过各种途径勾搭法国六十七十岁的老头,和他们结婚骗取身份和钱财,但是即使她们和法国老头结婚后,同时还在外面卖淫接客!你们可以想像吗?
            4、搭伙—-最让中国男人羞耻的方式!
                
             这是一种新兴的海外华人性方式。来这边的很多中国女人白天去卖淫或者做别的工作,但由于语言不同交流困难,精神上需要中国男人的慰籍;在这边的中国男人大多数做厨师做苦力,不可能找到外国女人,性欲无法发泄。因此,很多中年男女做起了临时夫妻。一间狭小的房间裡面通常有好几对这样的中国人,他们通常来自中国北方。这裡,中国女人是绝对老大,如果她们不喜欢旁边的中国男人,随时可以一脚踢开!因為后面排队的很多!中国女人出国后,如果想做爱,西方男人中国男人随便找,范围很大;但中国男人出国后,西方女人绝对看不上他们,他们只能找中国女人,否则就只能手/淫泄欲!我曾经听说有搭伙的中国女人对枕边的中国男人说,我是看在同胞的份上,看在我们都是中国人的份上,可怜你们这些男同胞,才和你上床的,如果你让我不高兴,请赶快滚! 这就是搭伙!中国男人在这裡只是太监而已!
                
            5、最近五年,海外中国女人和老外之间的性行為的价值取向开始走向多元化!
                
             2005年后,风云突变,80后的女孩子和欧洲人结婚的急剧减少,同居的急剧增加,现在法国的中国女留学生,50%以上和老外有过性关系。因為我最近十年在巴黎,知道一些情况。他们大多数是留学生,很多来自国内富裕家庭,她们不缺钱,驱使她们和老外上床的是对西方男人的好奇心理和对异国恋的不切实际的追求。甚至还有国内富商的女儿在海外包养年轻漂亮的鬼佬!反正是大千世界无奇不有,一切都在与时俱进!!!
                
            二、外国男人和中国男人的评价
                
            1、鬼佬对海外中国女人的评价:世界公交车(le bus mondial)
                
             老外也不傻,他们对中国女人的想法也看透了,知道她们要绿卡和财產,于是老外也学精了,只和中国女人恋爱上床,不结婚。现在的中国女人把身体奉献给老外,除了性,什麼也得不到。当然,还得了一个外号:世界公交车。随时可以上车,随时可以下车。
                
            2、国外的中国男人怎麼看待和鬼佬上床的中国女人:
                
             一句话:和老外上床是一条不归路!在中国男人眼裡,不管是和老外恋爱还是嫁老外,反正都是上床。很多中国女人和老外恋爱分手了,或者和老外离婚了,才感觉到中西文化差异的巨大,才知道还是中国男人好,这个时候她们就想找个中国男人结婚;可是几乎没有中国男人愿意娶这样的女人,因為她已经被鬼佬干过了。因此,和老外分手或离婚的中国女人只能接著找老外,没有回头路!
             这裡的原因不是处女情节而是民族情节。很多中国男人寧愿找个和鬼佬离婚的鬼妹,也不愿意找和鬼佬离婚的中国女人,因為中国男人对中国女人的要求和对鬼妹的要求是不一样的。
                
            三、必须回答的几个问题:
                
            1、肯定有人说:中国人太多,林子大了什麼鸟都有,说中国女人是世界公交车是以篇概全!那些和老外上床的中国女人是少数,大多数中国女人是好的!
             我同意你的观点,但是你要知道老外看中国女人就是通过海外的女华人和他们到中国后认识的中国女人,这些女人大多数整天都想著和老外上床,你说人家老外怎麼想?
                
             2、有人肯定会说:中国女人现在和西方男人上床,主要是因為我们太穷了,以后我们中国经济发达了,中国男人有钱了,这些事情会减少的!
              错!!!这个世界上人均收入比中国低、福利比中国差的国家还有很多,人家的女人為什麼不当世界公交车?比如说,印度、巴基斯坦、印尼、孟加拉、尼日利亚、巴西等,都是人口大国,生活水平都比中国低或者和中国差不多,為什麼没有西方人说他们的女人是世界公交车?
              还有,1949年以前中国遭受外敌入侵的一百多年中,中国那麼衰弱贫困,也没怎麼听说中国女人嫁老外、和老外上床,当时就算有这样的中国女人,数量也是很少很少,為什麼?
              世界公交车并非专指中国女人出国卖身,而是说中国女人太喜欢和白人上床,包括和鬼佬一叶情、和鬼佬恋爱、和鬼佬结婚、和鬼佬交友等等!!!!中国女人太容易脱裤子,简直让全世界人民目瞪口呆!我认為中国女人和老外上床,主要是中国传统伦理道德观念被完全破坏的结果,金钱和绿卡是第二位的因素。
                
            3、有人肯定会说:本文作者是大男子主义和民族主义,居然不能接受中国女人和老外上床!有人还会说,跨种族通婚有利于人种的优化!
             我的回答是,从生物学和社会学的角度考察:全世界的男人对本国女人和外族男人上床,都有排斥心理,中国男人已经是宽容平和的了!俄罗斯出台法律保护美女资源、印尼出台制度要求外国男人娶印尼女人需要交纳保证金、阿拉伯国家绝对禁止妇女外嫁、东欧某国的华人富商娶了选美选出来的该国小姐导致其经营的超市被烧毁、犹太人限制妇女外嫁…………太多了!
             中国男人太宽容了,从未有过禁止本国女人嫁外族的事情吧! 相反,我们还有昭君出塞、文成公主进藏的伟大歷史!中华民族是很包容的民族!问题在于,大多数中国女人和老外上床时,其基础并不是爱情或感情,而是其他的东西!这是我们中国男人无法接受的!
             关于人种优化,在父系社会裡,主要靠娶外族女子才能实现;中国女人和老外上床,大多数是不生孩子的,即使生孩子,也是优化了鬼佬的人种,并没有优化中华民族的人种! 至于说中国女人和鬼佬上床可以传播中华文化,我认為说这话的人自己也不会相信的!
                
            4、也许还有人说,本文作者是吃不到葡萄说葡萄酸的人,有本事自己去干洋妞呀,中国男人的性功能不行!中国男人没有本事搞外国女人,还限制中国女人和老外上床,太狭隘了!
              人种间性功能的差异,你去看看海特性学报告吧!其实总体上的差异很小的。我还认识几个华人男子找了黑人女孩子,他们也没觉得黑人就特别性功能强。
              现在西欧确实是中国女人和老外上床的多,中国男人和老外上床的少。為什麼呢?不是人种差异,而是男女差异!西欧是强势文明,中国是弱势文明,男人是强势性别,女人是弱势性别,从来都是强势文明的强势性别搞弱势文明的弱势性别!这就是為什麼中国女人想取得居留身份,走婚姻的路很容易,而中国男人走这条路却很难!因為中国女人找个大她20岁的法国老头嫁了就一切搞定,可是中国男人总不能為了居留身份去找个大自己20岁的法国老太太吧!就算你愿意,人家也不愿意啊!这正好说明西方国家也都是父权社会。
                
            5、还会有人说,全球化是大势所趋,跨种族婚姻会越来越多!中外通婚会越来越普及!
             我完全赞同这种观点,问题是现在白人和黑人通婚中,白男黑女和白女黑男各占一半,这才是正常的全球化之路;而白人和黄人通婚中,白男黄女占了90%,这怎麼算全球化呢?最多只是性殖民主义化呀!  
                
                
            四、对海外的港台女性和名运分子在性方面的一些看法:
            1、以前一直以為香港女子很开放,现在才知道香港是个很传统的社会,深受中华文化影响,香港本地女子嫁给老外的真的不多。也许是因為香港自身经济发达、也许是因為殖民地的原因、也许是因為没有经歷大陆那样的文化断层,香港女人在这方面堪称中国女人的表率!
                
            2、 台湾女子嫁老外的特别多,和大陆一样。曾经听一位台湾的导游说,凡是外国旅行团来台湾,都会安排他们去买春,让台湾的小姐赚一笔,但前不久大陆的旅行团去台湾旅游,他们却不安排这项业务,因為他们觉得让大陆男人上台湾女人让他们的心理承受不了;我终于发现,原来台独分子為了树立台湾人对大陆人的优越感,无所不用其及;台湾人可以随时上大陆女人,台湾女人却不能被大陆男人上,只有这样才能保持这种虚无縹緲的优越感;只是现在台湾经济低迷,看来台湾人的优越感也保持不了太久了。当我在国外看见大批台湾女子让鬼佬上时,不知道台湾人做何感想?
                
            3、名运分子当年跑到西方,他们的老婆或女友基本上都找鬼佬了,这些名运分子很多都无真才实学,工作也找不到,口袋裡没钱,还整天大叫自由民主人权;他们是不可能找到西方女人的,因為他们在西方女人眼裡永远都是劣等的东方男人;中国女人也不屑找这些穷鬼;他们白天高喊自由民主人权,晚上只能靠手银满足生理需要。我想对这些人说,什麼时候你们靠自由民主人权这些口号搞到了西方女人,我就相信你们的这些口号;否则,说再多也没用!当西方女人用种族主义眼光看待你们这些名运分子时,你们的这些口号太苍白无力了!
                
            五、对海外中国人的几点建议:
            
            第一、关于西方的性霸权。
             曾经有人问我,中华民族伟大復兴对普通老百姓有什麼既得利益呢?我现在举西方的例子说明:西方的霸权在很多方面给西方的民眾带来了实实在在的好处,这些好处往往是看不见的,但是又客观存在,不然西方国家為什麼拼命阻止中国復兴呢?比如说;西方的性霸权!西方男人可以找西方女人,也可以随便玩东方女人;但是东方男人只能找东方女人,不能找或找不到西方女人。為什麼? 这就是西方霸权带给西方男人的性利益!
            
            现在中国和西方国家的矛盾不是任何意识形态问题,而是白种人对全世界有色人种的霸权问题。我来欧洲这麼多年,深刻理解了白种人的虚偽和残酷。现在欧洲有很多白人种族主义者,说起一战二战,都说那是白种人自己的内战,还说如果当年白种人联合起来,将彻底消灭一切黄种男人和黑种男人。(注意:只消灭黄种男人和黑种男人,不消灭黄种女人和黑种女人,為什麼?)
            
            第二、鄙视一切非感情基础的中国女人和老外的性行為,以及一切中国女人和老外的婚前性行為。对于前者,任何人都是应该鄙视的;肯定有人说,你怎麼不说中国男人,难道中国男人就可以乱搞洋妞吗?男女要平等呀!
             我想说,中国男人在乱搞鬼妹这方面,也是应该被鄙视的。但是这样的中国男人的数量远远比不过中国女人。现在欧洲和老外乱搞的中国人,90%是中国女人。
             对于后者,我想说的是,如果你还是处女,请拒绝老外,因為处女在老外心中是没有特殊价值的,你把处女之身给老外,体现不出任何价值。当然中国男人也有玩弄处女的败类,但是从总体上说,绝大多数中国男人懂得处女的价值。
             最后说一点,男女之间有很大的差别,不要用男女平等、妇女解放之类的意识形态口号去忽视这些差别,否则受伤害的只能是你自己!
                
            第三、我自己粗略估计,海外华人女性和鬼佬上过床的,大概占海外女华人总数的50%到70%。这个数据不一定准确,供大家参考吧!
             但是有一个数据比较准确,就是法国政府移民局网站上的数据,白人男子和亚裔女子的结婚数很多,但离婚率高达77%,是各种跨种族婚姻中离婚率最高的;白人女子和亚裔男子结婚数很少,但是离婚率仅仅為4%,是各种跨种族婚姻中离婚率最低的。这裡说的亚裔,其实主要就是中国人;但是為什麼最高和最低都和中国人有关呢?我也是百思不得其解!
                
            第四、对那些确实因為相爱而嫁给老外的中国女性,我们要衷心祝福他们的婚姻幸福。希望他们生活得快乐!希望他们常回中国走走看看!也希望他们的孩子们能留住中华文化之根!中华民族从来不反对跨种族通婚,关键是通婚的双方要能幸福地生活!
                
             欢迎全球华人,尤其是全球女华人,谈谈对我这个贴子的感想!如果您愿意,回贴时请注明你的性别!谢谢!
                
                
            
            
             下篇:十问外嫁女
                
                
            1、有些外嫁女说:是因為中国男人没用,把中国弄得太穷太破,没有发达国家的生活水平,没有国外的优越福利制度,我们才外嫁的。
                
            答:中国是全体中国人的,振兴中华不仅仅是中国男人的责任,中国女人也有责任。难道在中国落后的时候,中国女人可以通过嫁给老外一走了之吗?中国女人在中国落后的时候去和老外上床,靠自己的性别离开中国,把这个贫穷落后的中国全部甩给中国男人,那以后中国发达了,你们还有脸回来吗?所以,请这些外嫁女永远不要再说自己是中国人。
                
            2、有些外嫁女说:為什麼中国男人搞鬼妹就是光荣,我们和鬼佬上床就是下贱,男女不平等呀?我们要求中国男人女人彻底平等,坚决消灭中国男人的无耻的封建落后的愚昧的男尊女卑的大男子主义。
                
            答:本来不想说意识形态,既然你们这样问,那我告诉你,為什麼强国侵略弱国时,总是强国的男人强奸弱国的女人?我不说二战,也不说南京大屠杀的事情,就说现在的事情。為什麼是美国在伊拉克的男兵强奸伊拉克少女,而不是美国女兵强奸伊拉克少男?為什麼总是美国在衝绳的男兵强奸衝绳少女,而不是美国女兵强奸衝绳少男?
                男女之间的差异是天然的,你们為什麼总要说男女平等、妇女解放之类的意识形态口号来掩盖真实的社会现实呢?民主、自由、阶级、革命、主义、民族、普选、原罪、剥削、专制、独裁、人权、专政、党、社会、解放等等都是西方鬼佬发明的词,你们外嫁女整天在网络上争吵这些有什麼用呢?
                
            3、有些外嫁女还要说:嫁给老外是我的个人自由!和老外上床是我的个人自由!我们女人有和任何人上床的自由!!!!我们是自由民!!!!!!!!和外国男人发生性关系是我们中国女人的自由!!!!你们中国男人没有权利干涉我们的自由!!!!!和什麼国家的男人上床是我们的个人私事,关你们男人屁事!!!!
                
            答:一句话,我们中国男人同样也有鄙视唾弃你们这个群体的自由。
                
                
            4、有些外嫁女说:我们嫁给老外是因為“爱情”,你们中国男人為什麼不理解呢?
                
            答:如果是因為“爱情”,我们完全理解。希望你们不要因為“爱纸张”“爱身份”“爱绿卡”而向鬼佬奉献自己的肉体,毕竟时代不同了,现在中国经济发展很快,中国的国籍现在是全世界最难取得的。
                
                
            5 、有些外嫁女说:外国男人某项功能强,中国男人某项功能差,所以我们选择鬼佬。我们和鬼佬生的男孩子将具备比纯种中国男人更强大的某项功能。我们和鬼佬上床是為了改良中华民族的雄性基因!!!
                
            答:你们和鬼佬生的孩子已经不是中华民族,这个孩子的那东西再大,都和中华民族没有任何关系。中国有句俗话:嫁出去的女儿,泼出去的水。但是你们这些在国外和鬼佬乱搞的中国女人连泼出去的水都不如,最多只能算拉出去的尿!
                
                
            6、有些外嫁女说:中国男人不能像鬼佬那样尊重女性,中国的婆媳关系难处理,中国人太復杂,中国社会没有男女平等,中国男人喜欢包二奶,等等。所以我们嫁给鬼佬!
                
            答:我在全世界去过五十多个国家,在国外生活了快三十年。我发现在全世界各国中,女性地位比中国大陆还高的,已经很少了。还有,最新的社会学人类学研究报告都指出,如果女性的经济社会地位太高,反而会损害女性自身的很多幸福。希望你们能理解中华文明中物极必反的道理。
                
            7、有些外嫁女说:我生的孩子会说很流利的中文,喜爱并接受中华文化。我们和鬼佬生孩子对于传播中华文化作出了巨大的贡献。我们為中华文明的全球化作出了自己的贡献!
                
            答:如果真的是这样,我们中国男人会因為你们和鬼佬上床而感到无比的光荣与自豪!!!问题是海外华人都明白这样一个事实:中国男人和外国女人生的孩子,一般都认同自己是华人,中文也说得很好,在华人圈子裡面被称為“混血儿”;中国女人和外国男人生的孩子,一般不会认為自己是华人,中文说得很差,在华人圈子裡面被称為“杂种”。
                
                
            8、有些外嫁女说: 我们和老外上床就是想尝尝鲜,一个中国女人活一辈子,都没有和鬼佬睡过,没有体验过鬼佬强大的性功能,是不是太不值得了?况且我们现在正在国外,也有很多机会和鬼佬上床,為什麼不能试试呢?若干年以后,我们回中国了,年龄老了,也不会有什麼遗憾和后悔呀!毕竟我们年轻时在国外和鬼佬睡过呀!
                
            答:很多海外的年轻女华人都是这麼想的,很多出来留学的女留学生也是这麼想的。所以她们毫无顾忌地前赴后继地充当了鬼佬的性工具和生育机器。我只想说,你们这种母狗般的想法,高!实在是高!
                
                
            9、有些外嫁女说:我们和鬼佬上床只是為了取得国外的绿卡,我们又不会真正爱上鬼佬!我们让鬼佬干,又不是让他们白干,我们可以解决在国外的身份和居留的问题,希望你们这些男人能够理解!我们都是很热爱中国文化的,我们永远都是中华民族的一员!
                
            答:谢谢!如果您是因為这个原因和鬼佬上床,我们当然可以理解。因為中国女人通过这种方式获得国外的绿卡确实比较方便。但是中国男人想通过和外国女人结婚的方式获得绿卡,基本上是不可能的。当海外的中国女人都嫁给老外拿到绿卡后,海外的中国男人怎麼办呢?当然是向你们这些外嫁女学习啦:现在海外男性华人中很流行变性手术,具体说就是中国男人割了那东西再打个洞,变成中国女人,然后嫁给老外,获得外国的居留和身份。
             我说这个事情不是开玩笑,现在欧洲和美国就有很多嫁给鬼佬的中国女人实际上是中国男人变过去的。意大利的报纸2008年都已经报道过这样的事情了:有个中国男人变性后嫁给一个意大利老头,获得了身份和居留;可是几年以后却被这个老头发现了,老头非常生气,以欺诈罪将这个人告到法院。现在法院正在审理这个案件。2009年应该会有判决下来。
             你们外嫁女整天吵著说中国男女不平等,所以你们才去嫁鬼佬!问题是在鬼佬的国家裡,中国女人可以通过嫁老外拿身份,中国男人却不能走这条路,只能通过偷偷地做变性手术再嫁给老外,才有可能拿到身份,还要担负著被起诉到法院的风险,这裡有男女平等吗?
                
                
            10、有些外嫁女说:外国男人优雅、幽默、有情调、没有处女情节,中国男人各方面都太差劲,我外嫁后特别快乐幸福,我还要介绍更多的国内姐妹嫁出来享受这种快乐。气死你们这些破旧陈腐的中国臭男人!!!
                
            答:你们的心理是否已经不正常。每个人的幸福都在自己的心裡,不需要拿出来大喊大叫的。你要是幸福无比,那就继续幸福下去吧。别那麼好面子!凡是出国的中国人,都想著衣锦还乡,都很要面子的。很多外嫁女都活得很痛苦,但是回国时还是强顏欢笑,这已经不是什麼秘密了。希望你们能真正地快乐幸福!
                
            总之,现在的强制计划生育,再加上中华女人大规模和老外上床,我认為这样的趋势下去,我们的种族迟早会灭绝的.
                
            我再举个大家都知道的例子:就是白种人的性霸权!!!
            
             在欧洲,白种男人人随便玩中国女人,可是白种女人是永远都不会和低劣的中国男人上床的!在巴黎的几乎所有中欧混血儿中,父亲都是白人,母亲都是中国人!残酷啊!
            
             在拉美,大部分人都是印欧混血,怎麼混出来的?理论上有两种可能:白男印女和印男白女。但是现实的情况只有一种:现在的拉美人都是白种男人和印第安女人的后代,几乎没有白种女人和印第安男人的后代,印第安种族的Y染色体也即将从地球消失!為什麼?因為白种女人把印第安男人当作低劣的猴子,根本不愿意和他们上床!你们知道吗?印第安男人就是我们的黄种兄弟啊,他们快被白种男人灭绝了!如果我们中华不能復兴,印第安男人的现在就是中国男人的未来啊!

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