Unfaithful Fiancée Gets Pregnant, Publicly Beaten By Man

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From Mop:

Evil man beats up pregnant fiancée, shocking

According to witnesses, this couple is getting married soon, currently preparing their wedding, have always treated each other with respect, and have never had sex. However, upon “accidentally” finding a pregnancy test result in the fiancée’s purse,  “this evil man”, originally gentle and well-mannered, was consumed with fury and immediately started to hit [his fiancée]. Nearby people said that this evil man has never before yelled at his fiancée, treated her well, and was very caring.

According to the photographer, the man landed several heavy blows, and repeatedly kicked the woman’s belly. As she tried to struggle free, the woman begged him to stop hitting her because she was pregnant, but the man claimed that killing the child was exactly what he wanted to do. The entire incident lasted around ten minutes.

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Note from Fauna: The text on the Mop post was green color.

Comments from Mop:

小辈不是晚辈【Mop大学·三好学生】:

This kind of bitch deserves it. If it would me, I’d kick her.

依然晴朗:

Too ruthless.

茶杯碎了:

Very good. The other man must have given the woman an orgasm lasting more than ten minutes.

无奈的伤感:

Doesn’t have anything to do with me, I’m here to get soy sauce.

latentdragon:

Just break up, what’s the point?

丨sEa丶品冠:

[She] deserves it.

zhangguono1:

[He] shouldn’t hit her. Ask her if she wants to marry you, if not, don’t get angry, just let her leave. You’re wrong to hit her. She can’t love you, otherwise she wouldn’t do something like this when you’re about to be married. She’s not yet your wife, only your girlfriend. You don’t have any right to hit her. You should be more composed…I’m just addressing the situation..

zhaohk:

The bitch, she deserves to be beaten!!

chanzuihe:

Those who say she shouldn’t be hit, I hope your wives get impregnated by others too.

xuxin2123:

The deeper the love, the more powerful the hate. This man shouldn’t be called devilish, he’s just too hot tempered. This kind of woman, too cheap to even be a prostitute.

发粪涂墙★日捣一乱【鬼窟·鬼使神差】:

This kind of women is just cheap.

生而信自由:

Break her cheating legs.

毛邓江胡习我:

100% of men don’t want their wives to be like this. But I want to investigate: do men want to meet this type of women?

空中飞猪都有人用:

You treat her like a person, and she completely slights you! Bitch, say it if you don’t like [him], peaceful breakup. If anybody dared to give me a green hat, I’d hit her until she died.

Gnitent:

People’s hearts are just…the man behind them is smiling instead of trying to stop him! BS!

sky006000:

Resolve it peacefully, why hit a woman?

liuhendao:

It’s wrong to hit a woman, but it’s even more wrong to not hit this kind of women.

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  1. Are these pictures in chronological order? or reverse chronological order???

    other wise either these two old guys intervene at the begining and give up then intervene again then give up,

    or waited a long time before intervening then gave up then intervened again

    • This is fake. It’s obviously a viral ad for pregnancy tests.

    • Same, I’m confused about the order of these photos too and the original source doesn’t seem to help much. If they are in chronological order, it would seem odd, but not impossible either. I’m frustrated by the photos of the bystanders not intervening but I can’t deny the photos where they are. I’m guessing they probably walked upon this situation and initially hesitated for all the usual reasons: “what the fuck is going on?” & “uh, I’m not sure I should get involved in this…”

      Probably didn’t help that the guy beating her didn’t say a word explaining what was going on (obviously ignoring everyone else in his single-minded rage), and if she was saying anything, it was probably garbled by her own crying.

      We don’t know why or how the girl got pregnant with another man’s baby, nor do we even know when she found out and if she was planning on telling the guy. Presuming she outright betrayed him and was the consummate bitch about it, of course, that’s not cool. However, as much as we can empathize with the guy’s pain from betrayal, even his impulse to hurt her as she has hurt him, I’d rather he used his mind instead of his hands to get even if he must get even.

    • The best I can find is an article in rednet’s BBS in 2007-05-14:

      http://bbs.rednet.cn/a/a.asp?B=80&ID=8261097&T=0

      However, the post didn’t mention whether unfaithfulness was the motivation of the beating at all and all stories were “heard” by the photographer from “a passerby in gray cloth” (the left man in the 1st photo?). The story was twisted a lot since then and the authenticity of the story has never been proved.

      I know “doing a little bit research before posting” is not Fauna’s style, but it seems many folks here treat this website as a serious source for Chinese news.

      • I’d say chinaSMACK IS a serious source for Chinese news, but its a very specific kind of Chinese news, namely “stuff” that gets a lot of Chinese netizens talking.

        I wouldn’t say “‘doing a little bit of research before posting’ is not Fauna’s style” because, frankly, there have been many posts where she HAS dug deeper and presented to us more information that may not be present in one source but present in another. You’re being a little unfair in that characterization. Moreover, this post wasn’t made by Fauna, but by Tingting, another contributor probably.

        Finally, I don’t think chinaSMACK is aiming to be Snopes or Wikipedia. What you see here is what the responding Chinese netizens saw, just translated. chinaSMACK just helps you glimpse and access what you probably can’t access yourself. It isn’t out to research and determine the truth of each of these stories.

        • Sorry it’s me that forgot to do the research on who’s the author of this article. Anyway, as a native speaker, popyard.org is THE gossip/news website to RULE THEM ALL though I really enjoy reading some ignorant/trolling comments here (both translated and English ones) XD

  2. well, good one… bicthes deserve this…

  3. “have always treated each other with respect, and have never had sex.”

    thats a contradiction per se xD

  4. If you live in China, seeing men beat women is not an unusual event, and neither is people just watching it happen. Sad but true.

  5. It is the man’s fault for not giving the woman the sex she craved. If you don’t like being cheated on then stop being some asexual beta male who goes limp with terror every time your girlfriend hints that she wants to be fucked.

  6. well, good one… bicthes deserve this…

    Yes yes, all well and good. And I suppose we should just bind chinese womens feet, and make them wear burqas, and circumcise them and tie chastity belts around their waists like victorian times?

    Do get a grip!

    • You might have a point with the circumcision and chastity belts, but many women choose to wear burqas themselves.

      • many women choose to wear burqas themselves.

        If they wear it because it’s the norm, then they wear for themselves? Though question…

        • Many conservative Muslim women see wearing a burqa as natural as someone else sees wearing jeans. Drawing a comparison between female circumcision and religious clothing is a bit of a stretch.

          • Sorry for including burqas in there. That was wrong.

            However this chinese macho male attitude of beating women and fighting in packs is pure predatory behaviour.

            It wasn’t so long ago women were having their feet bound. Now it’s moved on to men beating their women, women working as prostitutes and “entertainers” in ktvs, with the gong an seemingly turning a blind eye.

            The national preference for having boys, speaks volumes about society.

          • Wait, men beating women, women as prostitutes, ‘guards’ turning a blind eye – we talking about China or Louisiana?

          • It wasn’t so long ago women were having their feet bound. Now it’s moved on to men beating their women, women working as prostitutes and “entertainers” in ktvs, with the gong an seemingly turning a blind eye.

            “Moved on?” Uh, dude, men have been beating their women, women have been working as prostitutes and “entertainers”, and police have been turning a blind eye to things since time immemorial. Both in China and beyond. This is what we call the dark side of reality. This is the side of reality we’re supposed to fight.

  7. My first impulse is:

    Don’t beat the woman.

    Kill her family.

    Then kill her.

    The next time a girl is thinking of doing something similar, her family will realize they should stop her.

    However, on reflection, I’m not going to get married in this lifetime, so why would I go to the effort of killing anyone?

  8. This guy appears to be strong in beating a pregnant young woman, rather tham giving her orgasms and making her pregnant. And the funny thing is that if he had enough money to afford that, he would probably end up with several concubines as his fellow countrymen do. The only thing who can save this country is foreign men’s semen.

    • you’d better becareful of human flesh. serve your mother with your sterile semen.

      from now on you shut up . never comes to chinasmack

      • to river: this was pretty funny

        NEVER COME TO CHINASMACK. p0wn’d

        • I think it’s even better the way he said it, grammatical error and all

          ‘never comes to chinasmack”

          sounds like a t-shirt slogan to me!

          • I would buy that shirt, if it had an equally cool graphic. Maybe a Shepard Fairey style poster of a close crop from fiancee(SIC)-2.

            “NEVER COMES TO CHINASMACK!”

            That’s art. And FTW-FU. At the same time.

            I’ll be here all week.

          • Gotta love the angry little fen qings that come out of the woodwork to vent their spleen with the aid of an online translator!?

        • Never been a chinese fan, and never will. O, and about the guy beating up the girl? That’s lower than low my friend. Where I come from, this kind of behaviour will never be tolerated. In my country woman are highly respected, doesn’t matter what. And dare to lift a finger, and you will be locked up or beaten up,maybe killed by other men. Catch a wake up call.Chinese woman must stand up for themselves. Kick the Pissy in the balls, and let him chew on it.

      • so what . one extra S is so funny. thats your western humor!!!!. so fuking funny

      • be interested in your crappy Chinese!!!!

      • God, another little online red guard

        • what did the red guard do? this is not good metaphore.
          go back school and study more about chinese history. little boy.

          • I would assume that the one who needs to go back to school is you. Remembering that your “textbooks” we’re/are heavily censored/propagandized, I think that his witty remark hit the nail on the head. Now please go and drown yourself in a river of bai jiu, Mr. Peasant. It’s “metaphor,” and he would need to “go back ‘to’ school” and “study more chinese history.”

          • Dude, you guys are retarded. Apparently it’s time for a recap:

            1. DUKE FLEED takes advantage of this situation to make some retarded comments insulting the Chinese as a whole, including that the only thing that can save this country is foreign men’s semen. SEMEN.

            2. river, likely Chinese (but who knows), seems to take offense and makes a retarded comment threatening DUKE FLEED with a human flesh search. He makes some grammar/spelling errors.

            3. Several of you poke some fun at this, nothing too harsh, maybe a bit immature, but kinda sorta funny in an Engrish sort of way.

            4. river gets a bit touchy, tries to make fun of Westerners for finding his grammar/spelling errors so funny, suggests Westerners Chinese would be equally funny to Chinese. Generally, a fair and true retort.

            5. DUKE FLEED sees river as being Chinese, somewhat against him, and jumps to accusing him of being a Red Guard. Apparently anyone who disagrees with him and may be Chinese risks being labeled a hypernationalist Red Guard, even when that person said nothing to suggest he has the ideology of a Red Guard.

            6. Ashley Schaffer BMW embarrasses self by correcting river’s English grammar/spelling…while writing “we’re” (we are) instead of “were”. Brilliant. Also makes a bunch of retarded comments about what kind of person river is other than that river may be Chinese and, apparently, all Chinese must be peasants brainwashed by their heavily censored/propgandized textbooks and love drinking bai jiu.

            You guys are embarrassing.

          • telling someone to shut up, never come back to.. and even trying to blackmail him is a red guard attitude

          • tell me what kind of medicine can heel a retard moran like you. you are beng insulted entire of your life. now you are so happy to insult others

          • DUKE FLEED,

            telling someone to shut up, never come back to.. and even trying to blackmail him is a red guard attitude

            Uh, no, it’s the attitude of like 95% of the internet comments out there around the world. It has nothing to do with being a Red Guard and everything to do with not having the mental facilities to make a more intelligent comment, like the mental retardation inherent in promoting foreign men’s semen as the only thing that can save China.

        • Sound like Ashley graduate from chinese school. You go back to school too. go back and play with you mini penis

          • You are absolutely right. There is a grammar mistake in there. I’m sorry to have offended your Cal sensibilities. But a bunch is usually more than two. As far as I can read I made two crass generalizations. We could label that a couple or a pair. I would hesitate to say “bunch”, that usually connotes more than two. As far as the generalizations pertaining to all Chinese people, I can not see how you could read that in my statement. I replied to one person, not a whole nation. I guess I will leave the assuming up to you. Please go right ahead, you do so it so well.

          • Yo Ashley, I’m really happy for you and your crass generalizations, Imma let you finish, but duke fleed had one of the most retarded generalizations of all time.

          • @ Ashley Schaffer BMW:

            Are you serious? The best you can come up with is a mistaken retort about the word “bunch”? Even if we ignore the fact that I’m making fun of you for your retarded comments, go look up a dictionary and you’ll note that I didn’t use “bunch” incorrectly whatsoever. What it connotes to you is irrelevant to what it connotes to me.

            You replied to one person you don’t know and made assumptions of their nationality by leveling generalizations about that nationality upon that person. That’s how I read generalizations pertaining to Chinese people in your comment. If you have alternative explanations for:

            Remembering that your “textbooks” we’re/are heavily censored/propagandized, I think that his witty remark hit the nail on the head. Now please go and drown yourself in a river of bai jiu, Mr. Peasant.

            …I’m all ears. Until then, Cal sensibilities or not, I’m pretty sure I didn’t misread or misrepresent your comment. You guys are letting your retarded prejudices show, and its embarrassing. You want to do that online, fine, but you’re only kidding yourself if you don’t expect someone or another to call you out on it.

            @ Kany–poor thing:

            LoL! FTMFW!

        • duke fleed is retard moran. he is being taken care by his docotor.

        • what kind of attitude is it to insult a nation? take care of our oversize asshole

  9. Although the woman deserved slaps in the face beating her and attempting to “kill the baby” is unacceptable.

  10. inb4 FALCON PUNCH

  11. Ouch, filthy woman but innocent baby…. :| let the woman give birth first, the guy should not hit her… since that not a nice sight at all…. I wont waste my time on that kind.

  12. Like Mike Tyson once said “I’ll f**k you ’till you love me, fagot!” which is what any man who hits women deserves…

  13. What I find hard to stomach is the old guys standing aside and letting him land hard shots to this pregnant young girl. Those dudes are too cowardly to step in and prevent this guy from possibly killing the unborn baby. Regardless of whether she’s a cheating whore this kind of behavior, beating up pregnant women, is absolutely unacceptable.

  14. Ten minutes of beating a woman while others look on is just disgusting, I don’t care what the supposed back story is.

    I’ve had Chinese women show me their bruises and swelling from their husbands. Is this how guys here feel manly and proud?

    • Is this how guys here feel manly and proud?

      No, its how people who never learned how to control their violent impulses behave. Believe it or not, the vast majority of men, Chinese or otherwise, don’t go around beating women just to feel manly about themselves.

      • -and shouldn’t. I don’t care if she cheated on him with his *best friend*, he lost some major control of himself. This sort of emotional incontinence is not manly, and could be a signifier of why she may have cheated in the first place.

        • You can’t really say that she’s innocent either.
          All we can do is play devil advocate for both ends.
          But hell if you really think about it, the guy had treated her like a queen till that moment when all reveals her as a whore. =/

  15. “He’s not yet your wife, only your girlfriend. You don’t have any right to hit her.”

    Yeah, but once you guys are married all bets are off; just beat the shit out of her until your knuckles get calloused and you’re too tired to swing.

  16. “You bitch choose me.”

    I mean wtf. This is just wrong. I would never lay a hand on my girlfriend ever…even if she decides to go “you bitch choose me” on me. LOL.

    Very sick shit.

    BTW, when I said Chinahosmack website, I meant to say ChinasmackHO website–now there is a difference. would you not agree Fauna. HAHA FUCK YOU! I’m a misogynist but I would not hit you Fauna no matter how much a Chinasmackho you are.

    HAHAHA. I’m just trolling now. Don’t take it personally. I’m playing around.

  17. the great yellow master race

    coooooolll! at first he beats the hell and baby out of her then he will cut his long penis off!(yo must know the great yellow master race have longest penisses in the world) yeaaahhhh! the same right! equality for everyone!

    hmm its must be hard to be the superior race and not haveing money for the abort.

  18. I would say though, that the dudes above looks like a farmer (I mean half naked guy with relatives looking them over…obvious). But I would say China does have a problem with misogynist traditions.

    Still, this shit happens ever where (I don’t care to have a discussion regarding proportions etc) and it’s just sick that woman are still being mistreated.

    With that said, equality goes both ways girls.

  19. chauvinistic …damnit.

  20. a lot of frightening responses on both sides here. you just don’t beat women. even if they cheat on you.

  21. Dude just call off the engagement, let her bear the shame of her mistake alone and heartbroken, and jump back in the dating pool. Sucks for everyone, lessons learned, life goes on. No need for blows. Beating a woman is never right no matter how angry she makes you.

    • I disagree with this one. If someone’s going to act to like a bitch, then he/she should be treated like a bitch. I’ve seen a lot of violent/repulsive/neanderthal women that should get an ass beating but they don’t ONLY because they’re a female. Had it been a guy doing the shit, people would of lynched his ass.

      Society has a double standard that I just don’t think is acceptable.

  22. Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

    It’d be even better if the guy that got the girl pregnant were there.

    Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

    • And the girl turned out to be a gay hermaphrodite with a sex change operation who was married three times but divorced once.

      JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY JERRY

  23. Must of been a real tough man to beat a woman, you think? She was probably only marrying him because of the family, too bad. You noticed the two observers, they showed some help but allowed it to happen. I wonder of it would of been okay to beat the girl if it was the oberver’s daughter?

  24. A guy beating a women might be disgusting (whatever the reason is), its happening in everycountry in the world for a reason or another but the weird thing about chinese is that they dont care about doing it outside in front of everyone. I’ve already seen this happenning in front me in a trainstation in beijing…

    • Is it just me, or do train stations bring out the worst and dark side of people here? To agree with Horus, I’ve seen fights, outright pushing and shoving, scamming, shouting, disobeying of no smoking signs, thieving etc etc going on at train stations. Isn’t scrapping outside here, considering losing face?

      • It’s not that train stations bring out the worse and dark side of people, it’s that a lot of society’s worst and darkest people lurk at train stations, where it’s easy to take advantage of tourists or migrants and fade back into the crowd. The pushing and shoving, shouting, and disobeying of no smoking signs isn’t unique to train stations though.

  25. God damn!!! He is beating the breaks off that girl…did he hit her with the belt in the one pic? Geeez.

    I’ve been cheated on before after being totally loyal and it certainly makes you want to beat some one. I understand his anger, but he went too far.

    He should have just called the marriage off and left her as a single mother.

  26. “Those who say she shouldn’t be hit, I hope your FUTURE/CURRENT wives get impregnated by others too.”

    Agreed.

  27. chinaSMACK … SMACK, SMACK, SMACK, SMACK, SMACK.

  28. A man compensating for his tiny-penis-complex by ruining someone’s life with misguided machismo.

  29. I have two things to say:

    1.) If a girl cheats on you, she deserves a chastising, not a beating. And if you don’t know the difference, why don’t you shove your lunch money up your ass, save it, and go buy a dictionary.

    2.) This dude is Chinese. I don’t know the full context of it, but if I were him, I would go to her hometown and let everybody know that she is a cheating, unfaithful woman, and that her family should bear the brunt of the abuse for raising her. Let her cry her way out of that one. This Is China, after all. Families rise and fall like flicks of a switch over here.

  30. Knee in the a$$…great!

    she deserved it

  31. lol everyone has their hands behind their backs & key chain on their belts….where is this…

  32. horrible man indeed treat a bit respect for goodness sake

  33. I’m FURIOUS! The a$$hole beat such a frank woman? Totally unbearable! Unlike spouse of some hypocritical commentators here, at least she told her partner she had sex with a stranger one night. How honest she is!

  34. WO AI CHINASMACK. i am going to cape town south africa 09 18 for 10days . FAUNA I WIL MISS YOU>

  35. IN DAYS I WIL BE BACK TO MY YIWU CHINA . GOOD LUCK FAUNA. TAKE CARE BRAVE PERSON> BYE FAROUK

  36. The pictures appear to be in reverse order. Watch the red bag.

    Does it say where this took place?

    Very disturbing. More disturbing that people stand by. Even more disturbing that people support what that scumbag did.

  37. Nothing morte than a bully. Shame on those just watching.

    I

  38. Scum.. All of them!

  39. I wonder what the reaction of these netizens would have been were it a man cheating on his wife and his wife found a used condom somewhere or lipstick on his collar.

    I think this one put it best:
    “[He] shouldn’t hit her. Ask her if she wants to marry you, if not, don’t get angry, just let her leave. You’re wrong to hit her. She can’t love you, otherwise she wouldn’t do something like this when you’re about to be married. She’s not yet your wife, only your girlfriend. You don’t have any right to hit her. You should be more composed…I’m just addressing the situation.”

  40. LOL!! God how I love this website. Only here can you see a chinese person (Korean Dog Eater (aka K-Dawg)make derisive comments about anyones penis size. It’s about as funny as a chinese person calling someone else a dog eater. But seriously, what that guy was doing was wrong. And you can’t tell me its cultural because I know of alot of other asians who never hit their girlfriends.

    • what on earth is so funny about a Chinese calling someone else a dog eater? Most Chinese have never tasted dog meat and probably will not do it for the rest of their lifes. Dog meat is only food for some small parts of China, mostly in the northeastern or southern area.

      Anyway, hitting someone, women or men, to vent one’s anger is primitive and dumb as it normally does not help one bit in solving a problem.

    • Goodness, I’ll agree that the penis cliché is one of the most annoying things about chinaSMACK comments. However in this case you have to bear in mind that K-Dawg isn’t making derisive comment about just anyone’s penis size, he’s making derisive comments about PUSAN PLAYA.

      You may not be aware that PP gained infamy on chinaSMACK in the thread “Shanghai Michael Jackson 1 Minute Memorial Event – 7/12
      ” at http://www.chinasmack.com/stories/shanghai-michael-jackson-memorial-event-flash/, go on read it now – it’s hilarious. I’ll still be here when you get back.

      As you can see PP tried to hit on Fauna for chrissakes and he did it REALLY BADLY. The funniest part being that he bragged about having a “party-sized” cock. Unfortunately he didn’t realise that “party-sized” means miniature chocolates bars in the US/UK. Maybe K-Dawg hadn’t read that thread – but mocking PP’s pee-pee can be considered a running joke on chinaSMACK. Considering the alpha-male/PUA image he tries to project and his endless stream on misogynistic/racist comments, I think he deserves it.

      If chinaSMACK were a village, then PUSAN PLAYA would be its idiot.

  41. Couldn’t stop laughing at some of the Chinasmack comments here but the original Chinese website comments are disturbingly all in the same direction. I can understand the guy hitting her out of anger but not the kicking and stuff.

  42. I can’t believe how fucked up all of the comments are…

    Let’s see a story where some baijiu swilling 大款 gets his mistress pregnant and then gets to beat to death by his enraged wife. Would anyone care?

    This guy should do jail time, you can’t beat the shit out of someone because they’re a fucking dumbass.

    Otherwise half the people on Chinasmack would be getting the boots right now. BURN!

  43. If someone cheats on you, then it was never meant to be. Be intelligent about it and leave the relationship. The trust is gone. Do you think you can beat or kill someone into being loyal and in loving you?

    And what kind of society do men stand around and watch a woman being beaten?

    • Miako, I really don’t think the guy thinks he can beat or kill her into being loyal and loving him. He’s most likely beating her because he’s hurt and pissed off, seeking some sort of retribution.

      The same kind of society where anyone sees something out of the ordinary happen and not know what they should do. Some get involved after some hesitation, others turn their kids around and walk off preferring not to get involved. It’s not just men beating women but also racists beating minorities, bullies beating weaklings, countries oppressing their people, etc. We all talk a good talk about what’s right or wrong, what should be done or shouldn’t be done, but we only need to look in the news to see that a lot of really horrible shit happens everyday and most of the time, those around didn’t do anything when they could.

      None of you are going to really know what you’re made of until you run into a similar situation. For most of you, you might get involved in some but you’ll stay uninvolved in others. You might feel proud of (and remember) when you did, and feel ashamed of (or just forget) when you didn’t.

      • So what are you saying? That most people are cowards and seeing a man beat a woman in public is okay to watch? I don’t care if he’s hurt because she cheated on him. She or any other women don’t deserve a beating, at home or in public, because they cheated on him or didn’t cook his dinner or dress too sexy or what ever reasons you cowards try to justify your violence.

        Learn a lesson from this guy who got beaten to save a woman and her child:

        http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/aug/17/milwaukee-mayor-tom-barrett-beaten

        Society should stand up and stand agaisnt what is wrong. They should put thugs where thugs belong and that is in prison.

        What would you say if the thug above does that to your sister, daughter, or mother? And worse of all, the society that you live in tolerates it?

        • Spectator,

          No, an observation of society is not a prescription for society. I’m not saying it is “okay” to watch, I’m just saying that’s what happens the vast majority of the time and there are understandable (not necessarily excusable) reasons for that. Like you, I’m strongly for society standing up against what is wrong. I’d appreciate if you didn’t put words in my mouth and call me a coward without paying attention to what I stand for, especially given the comments I’ve already made on this thread.

          Violence against women is a deeper problem than whether or not society “tolerates” it. Why do you think violence against women still persists in societies like America or Europe? Society is one part of the equation, a big part, but don’t cheapen this problem by forgetting the rest of the equation and falling into the trap of thinking “this is a problem of their society, not mine”. Condemn the violence, focus on it, figure out why it happens, why it happens so often and in so many places, in so many different circumstances, environments, and societies. Then figure out how you can fight it.

  44. I don’t understand all this shit about Chinese wife beating. Wife beating occurs far more frequently according to statistics in the US. The only difference is that it happens more often in public here in China.

    I still STRONGLY disagree with women being untouchable. Needs to act like a lady to be treated like one.

    Should a man attack a woman for the same reasons that two guys would get into it? No. But should a guy slap, NOT BEAT, a woman if she COMPLETELY crosses the line. In my opinion, YES. And should a man beat a woman if his reasons are truly justified enough? I think so.

    Sometimes violence is needed to subdue those who are completely unreasonable.

    • “according to statistics”

      There’s your logical flaw right there.

      It’s difficult to tell what you’re arguing for here. Even if I did agree with you that it’s okay to hit a woman (I don’t), that’s a far cry from beating the hell out of her and attempting to kill her unborn child.

    • So J, what are your examples of a time when a woman “COMPLETELY crosses the line” thus resulting in a face slap; and what reasons “are truly justified enough” for a man to beat a woman? You can’t just go ahead and say something like that without examples.

    • And who decides what is reasonable and what is unreasonable?

      I’m guessing that you wear jeans sometimes. Well, I think that’s unreasonable, so I’m going to come round your house and stone you.

      The woman in the story had an affair, just like a very large percentage of everybody does. She had sex. She shouldn’t be beaten up because she had sex.

      Self-defence is acceptable, but everything else is thuggery.

  45. Miako, a society where the men are just complete losers today. They are weak and shit,

    Sort of why you see SO many white women dating Chinese men, the white wmoen are crazy about the chinese men, becasue the chinese men are so cool, basically a few western men beat women too, but the MOST of Chinese men would like to get a hit in if they could, and if they lose their stupid fucking face. You cannot say Chinese and men in same sentence. its acontradiction.

  46. FALCON PUNCH!

    http://api.ning.com/files/WxAd*hJO9SwvfmYVYzF-loAkdnRCpgVp5shc6SWIiiatCn6y91e9yaDZ9ec2SerE04yL59*mgI9XprQsfH2r31aiQd3bzyKy/abortion.jpg

    but seriously, shame on her, shame on him. If you’re going to beat her, don’t do it in public. If you’re going to cheat, don’t get pregnant, use protection. But i guess if one was in his situation depending on his loyalty and love to her the fact that he freaked out like that is understandable.

    • I am a fan of the falcon punch, not sure if your link is the ice skating “solves teen pregnancy” one but I send that out occasionally ;)

      Beating women is never “acceptable” as many above post – public or private, but neither is it acceptable for a girl to let another guy fill her up with cum when she’s committed to get married, with or without a condom.

      The guy should be stopped by others, maybe it’s _better_ he did this in public, or who knows how it would have ended. The fact his emotional pain took over when he discovered the ‘woman he loved’ was fucking other guys raw dog is definitely understandable. Some guys may crumble and cry, some guys may lash out in anger, some guys may harden up and toss the bitch’s shit out their house – everyone can sit and say what is right and wrong, but the fact is he’s human and he fucked up. She fucked up worse, in my opinion.

      He didn’t beat her ass closed fist, she didn’t fight back – she knew she was wrong. He could have done _a lot worse_ than slaps and weaksauce kicks, you see any blood in these photos? She got off lucky, if he was a bit bigger and truly had the intention to fuck her up, I’m sure it would be the case. Don’t get me wrong – I don’t condone any abuse against women, and would step up if I was there, but the bottom line is – I understand.

  47. If the man is MAN enough, go find the bitch’s lover and beat that guy up, instead of beating the woman.. typical chinese men…

  48. She deserves it! If it were in the older days, she would be put inside a pig cage and drowned!

  49. what a loser she had the right to cheat on him hahaha !

  50. Rape in China occurs more frequently than many people are aware. It’s my understanding that social services designed to help women cope with this trauma are rare or non-existent in China. Filing a police report will often result in the woman’s family learning of the crime and cause a potential loss of status for the family. Such news would quickly find it’s way to the husband’s family and would likely cause his family to reconsider the marriage. It’s very sad to think that the young woman was raped and had no one to turn to for help. Even more sad that the man she loves beats her instead of trying to help.

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